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Monday Musing and Thoughts- NSA Failure!
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Monday Musing and Thoughts- NSA Failure!  NSA Failure! I wanted to discuss my recent NSA meeting with a couple I met on here. This couple contacted me and asked if I was open for meet and greet for the purpose of maybe having fun with the lady while the gentleman watched. I told I would be open. We emailed back and forth a couple of times and they wanted my face pick. I obliged. Then they asked for my telephone number so they can text me to verify if I was real. I understood their caution. I have been on Local Sexy Swingers way too long and I have experienced too many no shows. We discussed the possible meeting sites. We agreed to local sports bar. This bar is unique due to the fact it has right next to it a hotel. We agreed to meet at 6:00 p.m. on Sunday- the Sunday with AFC and NFC championships games! I knew this particular sports bar would be packed and I arrived 40 minutes early to watch the end of AFC game and to reserve a table. I am so glad I did this! It was packed and it was a great game! I texted them around 5:45 to tell them I was here and I was holding a table in the back of the bar. They texted back they were a few minutes out. I waited about 20 minutes when this attractive petite lady walks up to me and said,” Are you VF?” I of course said yes. She told me to wait here because her friend was parking and she would go find him. She left. I was thinking wow….this is weird! They did not enter together- the guy let her out. They both arrived five minutes later at my table. The guy is tallish guy with greying hair. He was handsome. The lady did all the talking. She said,” Would you be open to go and have fun tonight?” That was it. She made her snap decision. Remember we do not know each other and I was thinking don’t they have any other questions? It was weird. No questions to get to know me. No questions to get to know them. I said, “Sure.” She replied,” Good, we had so many no shows. I will text you a room and you can come over. Are you sure you want to do this?” “Yes,” I said. They left. I waited 10 minutes when I got the text…they are in room 169. I laughed! Really, how poetic! I walk over to my car and I drove around to their room. I knock. The guy answers and he tells me,” She is in the bathroom getting ready.” I look around and there is no luggage and no prep stuff. I brought my back pack with water and energy drinks along with a portable Bluetooth speaker and some condoms (change of clothes too) - yes I was a Boy Scout! She comes out and grabs my hand. I said,” Do want some mood music?” She said yes and I oblige by hooking up my phone to my Bluetooth speaker. The guy sits in the corner in the darkened room. She wants it dark with the only light is coming from the bathroom- sort of indirect but still dark. My Brain is having a hard time wrapping my head around this. I have no clue what makes this lady tick. What is the role of her man? What does she like? I go with the flow. I nibble here and there. She moans. I remove all of her negligee accoutrements! She is now completely naked and I undress too. She is little bigger, smallish BBW, but her breasts are perky and her butt is shapely. She is very curvy and sexy! I start licking her clitoris and nibbling her pussy lips. She moans and in about two minutes she orgasms. I then finger her and I start sucking and licking her breasts. She comes again quickly. This whole time no words are spoken. The guy in the corner is quiet and I can’t even see him. I notice that my cock is not getting hard. It is flaccid! I can’t believe it. My cock is not involved tonight. I started willing my cock to grow. Alas, to no avail. She notices my cock is flaccid. She starts to suck me. She sucks and sucks. Nothing! She then swallows my flaccid cock and my balls all in her mouth at the same time. I was thinking wow…go Hoover girl! I rationally think to myself this is awesome, but my cock is not into this! My mind is not into this! I was not really into this NSA encounter. I did not know this person. She did not know me. I don’t know what makes her tick. I don’t know her erogenous zones and she doesn’t know mine. The guy did not give instructions. He was just a non-descript guy in the corner hidden and quiet. This did not feel real or natural. I am sapiosexual. I need my brain engaged. I need sexy sounds and I need to know the lady is into me. I need the light on! This NSA encounter was an emotional bust. I was embarrassed. I told her so. I apologized for my ineffective cock. I made one last ditch effort. She was on all fours, her ass in the air. I used my fingers from my right hand in her pussy and I put my index finger from my left hand in her ass. Digital double penetration, whoo hoo! Finally she says to me, “Yes, I want your finger in my ass!” She started coming and coming! She came so hard she squirted and her body started quivering. I said,” Wow! You squirted!” She then collapsed on me and we cuddled for five minutes. I got up and cleaned up. I made my cursory good byes and I got the hell out! I was so embarrassed. I was so mad at myself. I did not give her what she wanted….hard cock. I know I gave three orgasms. I realized that is why I like FWB relationships. It’s the connection and the emotions. I am wired to have both and without it, I felt like fish out of water. What are your thoughts? Was I too hard on myself? What would you do in my position? “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64  |
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yes...it was an awkward situation....weird....and I felt weird! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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Interesting post.  Your failure to get hard makes me recall some of my own instances of this... LOL Well, could not stay hard was the issue. Has that happened to you to? Or is that too telling? “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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thanks...it was very awkward...and I had no connections with that couple! I learned my lesson....I need to be friends with the couple first or lady! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I don't see where you have anything to be embarrassed about. From your description I would say that these two struck a creepy vibe that made you uncomfortable. We modern humans do not rely on our intuition nearly enough. If things felt off to you, no wonder Mr Happy declined to cooperate, he may have been sending a message that you should probably get out of that room sooner rather than later. It seems as though they were just looking like they were just looking for a random dick and it just happened to be you.
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I don't see where you have anything to be embarrassed about. From your description I would say that these two struck a creepy vibe that made you uncomfortable. We modern humans do not rely on our intuition nearly enough. If things felt off to you, no wonder Mr Happy declined to cooperate, he may have been sending a message that you should probably get out of that room sooner rather than later. It seems as though they were just looking like they were just looking for a random dick and it just happened to be you. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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You are right...I should have listened to my intuition, my gut. It felt wrong during the beginning....it felt like I could have been any guy....they were just looking for a "cock." I guess they were stood up so many times that they felt they had move quickly. I hope they learned also! I will chalk it up as Live and Learn! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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You've blogged before about an ED problem, I don't remember if Viagra works for you, you should I have communicated this prior to the meet.
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I think you are being a little hard on yourself. There was little conversation before you had to perform. That's pressure! 
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Your too hard on yourself funny! Very little conversation before this meet. Trying something different is always good but this was not for you! hugssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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You've blogged before about an ED problem, I don't remember if Viagra works for you, you should I have communicated this prior to the meet. “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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I think you are being a little hard on yourself. There was little conversation before you had to perform. That's pressure! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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Your too hard on yourself funny! Very little conversation before this meet. Trying something different is always good but this was not for you! hugssssssss V “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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yes...I need to build connections and a relationship! I know next time!! Thanks for your kind words! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64
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