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BITE ME! Maybe its just me but in order for someone to be "addicted" to another person (as in sexually)- isn't there supposed to be a MUTUAL attraction first before that can be a possibility? Email of the day: This is what I got in my inbox this morning from a sore loser that didnt get a reply from me AT ALL. Why? Because I found not a damn thing attractive about him. (lol) "Ha! Thats too bad - u might've been addicted to me." Please tell me this joker is dreaming huh? LOL  |
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Exactly. My concept of what true love is, is the same as this sexual "addiction": You can only experience true love if it is returned in kind. And I also would consider if he would expect you to become "addicted' to him, he would expect you to deny advances by other men. But would his 'addiction' to you follow that same guideline, him staying at least sexually faithfull to you alone? Not likely, with all the temptation (real and fake) men see on this site. That just totally blew any hope I ever had of finding "true love" again. (not particularly on this site)
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11/24/2009 7:54 pm |
This topic is sorta depressing....truthfully, I think the odds we can find someone who can be a great friend, who we long to rush home from work to every day, and where there's a mutual animal attraction that never ends are pretty long. I always wonder if the reason Hollywood stars have a 90 percent+ divorce rate is because there's always another available partner out there for them. And is the reason that people do stay together convenience, the kids, income, and so on. Is there really such a thing as a true love that can last? I must be crazy, but I still have a little optimism around somewhere that it might happen for me. Your topic raises another one. If we can't find true love, as we all (unfortunately) get older...is there a time when we should find an acceptable compromise? Someone who is "pretty good" all the way around, but who doesn't necessarily addict us? I don't know that I want to spend the rest of my life holding out for something that might never happen.
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This topic is sorta depressing....truthfully, I think the odds we can find someone who can be a great friend, who we long to rush home from work to every day, and where there's a mutual animal attraction that never ends are pretty long. I always wonder if the reason Hollywood stars have a 90 percent+ divorce rate is because there's always another available partner out there for them. And is the reason that people do stay together convenience, the kids, income, and so on. Is there really such a thing as a true love that can last? I must be crazy, but I still have a little optimism around somewhere that it might happen for me. Your topic raises another one. If we can't find true love, as we all (unfortunately) get older...is there a time when we should find an acceptable compromise? Someone who is "pretty good" all the way around, but who doesn't necessarily addict us? I don't know that I want to spend the rest of my life holding out for something that might never happen. If its meant to be, it'll happen and I will KNOW in my heart that it is indeed- Real. Afterall, we cant pick and choose who we love. Sometimes, it just happens to fall into place. THATS how I know if its real and meant to be that way. Until I do come across that feeling again, I will continue to live my life and enjoy whatever happens along the way and then I will concentrate on my "true love."
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People wake up and realize it's a sex site, finding true love here would be like finding a needle in a haystack. Anyone on this site should expect such responses from losers/creeps, it comes with the territory.
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People wake up and realize it's a sex site, finding true love here would be like finding a needle in a haystack. Anyone on this site should expect such responses from losers/creeps, it comes with the territory. Have you been locked in the closet way too long? I know people and also have friends that HAVE actually found 'love' and stayed together on this site and on a few other "singles/swingers" sites. Never say never.
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I'm really trying to come up with a reason why finding a sexually compatible mate would hurt the process of falling in love. I'm usually capable of arguing either side of a debate but I'm drawing a blank on this one. That is assuming we exclude the obvious idea of the sexually compatible mate not being the person you're trying to fall in love with...
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I'm really trying to come up with a reason why finding a sexually compatible mate would hurt the process of falling in love. I'm usually capable of arguing either side of a debate but I'm drawing a blank on this one. That is assuming we exclude the obvious idea of the sexually compatible mate not being the person you're trying to fall in love with... One would think that if a person did find a sexually compatible mate, it would only enhance the "relationship." I know its VERY important to me to have someone sexually compatible. In fact, for me- its a MUST.
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Yes it's a sex site but...... The two of us met on here a year ago and we are both very sexually and romantically compatible not to mention quite happy together. We also know others that have met on here and are very happy together. Some have married their play partners that they met on here. So you just never know. BTW belated Happy Thanksgiving nakedtanners   
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Yes it's a sex site but...... The two of us met on here a year ago and we are both very sexually and romantically compatible not to mention quite happy together. We also know others that have met on here and are very happy together. Some have married their play partners that they met on here. So you just never know. BTW belated Happy Thanksgiving nakedtanners Thank you for posting this and backing my point up. If more people would not ONLY focus on JUST getting laid here and just let things happen, it may just happen to them one day. One never knows unless theyre open to different possibilities and leave out the one night stands. Sex is MUCH better after the first or second time with that person anyway. The first time is a little nerve racking, in most cases.
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12/5/2009 3:20 pm |
Happy Belated Thanksgiving to you too! Thank you for posting this and backing my point up. If more people would not ONLY focus on JUST getting laid here and just let things happen, it may just happen to them one day. One never knows unless theyre open to different possibilities and leave out the one night stands. Sex is MUCH better after the first or second time with that person anyway. The first time is a little nerve racking, in most cases. Well, I had far more meetings than I ever would have thought possible. And you know something? I'm getting kind of tired of them! I suppose some guys would say "why complain?" but one of my most recent meetings involved a woman showing up at the hotel room moderately blitzed late one night....well, it wasn't good. I always am a little worried about what could happen, and if you're a guy, plenty can. I also think that friendship, and learning what turns on your partner and what makes her tick is so important to having really great sex, and that just doesn't happen during a furtive meeting (often time limited, also, since many women have kids to return home to ASAP.) We all need sex, but friendship and compatability are everything in a sexual relationship. Otherwise, it's often not much better than staying home and masturbating, frankly.
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When I first joined almost two years ago, the idea of the one night stand was exciting. I have left a long sexually unfulfilling marriage, and the thought of going to a hotel with someone new was a fantasy I had long had during the struggles I went through while married. Well, I had far more meetings than I ever would have thought possible. And you know something? I'm getting kind of tired of them! I suppose some guys would say "why complain?" but one of my most recent meetings involved a woman showing up at the hotel room moderately blitzed late one night....well, it wasn't good. I always am a little worried about what could happen, and if you're a guy, plenty can. I also think that friendship, and learning what turns on your partner and what makes her tick is so important to having really great sex, and that just doesn't happen during a furtive meeting (often time limited, also, since many women have kids to return home to ASAP.) We all need sex, but friendship and compatability are everything in a sexual relationship. Otherwise, it's often not much better than staying home and masturbating, frankly. I completely AGREE. I'm even getting bored with it as well. But Im MORE bored masturbating, lol.
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