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What's She Thinking and Feeling?
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What's She Thinking and Feeling? Here are a few subtle signs....Are ya ready? ~  PUPILS If she's feeling stimulated by you (not just sexually), her pupils will dilate. That's because her body is programmed to want to see more of whatever's exciting her, so her brain tells her irises to let in more light. Bonus: As the inkiness spreads, she'll start looking better to you, too. Research shows that men rate women with larger pupils as more attractive. Time to make your move. EYELASHES Hold her gaze for a minute. If she's blinking more than normal (which is about 15 times a minute), there's a good chance she's on the Pill; women on birth control blink 32 percent more than those who aren't. Aside from the obvious, what does that mean for you? Put on your toughest, most confident mug as you look at her. Because of the shift in hormone levels, research says, women on the Pill are more attracted to men with rugged features, such as strong, wide jaws. BRAIN She's matching you drink for drink, you're starting to feel like reenacting Animal House, but she seems like her same old self. What's the deal? Men and women get different kinds of buzzes: Men lose inhibitions, while women become sedated. If you're looking to get her into the party spirit, don't feed her more alcohol. Instead, feed the jukebox. Research shows that mid- to fast-tempo music will make her more social. BELLY Want to know if it's a good or bad time to broach a tricky conversation? You can tell if she's suitably relaxed by her breathing pattern. If her stomach pulls in with each inhalation, she's taking shallow breaths from her chest, which indicates stress. Keep your distance. If her abdomen and chest expand with each inhalation, she's taking deeper, more rhythmic breaths--a sign of relaxation. Go for it. NOSE Her sense of smell is sharpest first thing in the morning, which, aside from being a good reason to brush your teeth immediately, makes it the best time to impress her with your culinary skills. That's because 90 percent of taste is really smell. Treat her to a breakfast in bed consisting of warmed banana-nut bread, which has an aroma that, according to one study, increases bloodflow to the vagina. And that may lead to a different kind of morning treat. CHEST Sex flush, a pinkish look to the skin of her chest, occurs during foreplay. It stems from changes in blood pressure and circulation, along with pulse and respiration rates. Think of it as her coy way of telling you that if you keep doing what you're doing, you just might get lucky. Another sign that things are working: A woman's breasts grow by as much as 25 percent as things turn hot and heavy. SMALL OF HER BACK As she moves toward orgasm during sex, she'll begin to arch her back. Hold her tight around the small of her back at this point and stay attuned to how much she's arching. And, for God's sake, do not let up; maintain the same rhythm and intensity of stimulation until she climaxes. She'll pay you back for this later, with interest. FINGERNAILS Pay attention to her fingers; among the surest signs of anxiety or depression in a woman are body-focused repetitive behaviors, such as skin picking and nail biting. If you see her doing that, don't nag her to stop; that can send her deeper into a spiral. Instead, gently pull her hand away, give it a squeeze, and hold on to it. Feel the tension ooze right out. HANDS If it seems as if she always has cold hands, that's because she does--almost 3 degrees colder than yours, possibly more if she's stressed. Women's bodies, even more than men's, are programmed to keep their cores warmer than their extremities. So to warm her hands up, don't massage them; wrap your arm around her waist. This will warm her core and allow blood to flow back into her hands. BETWEEN HER LEGS Okay, you know enough about your partner's menstrual cycle to know when to leave her alone. Now add this to your arsenal: Two weeks after her period begins, she will be at her horniest, guaranteed. Female sexual motivation is highest when she's ovulating. Warning: This is also when she's most likely to get pregnant  |
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10/23/2006 5:26 pm |
Well, a lesson in Woman 101! I needs all the helps i can gets!!! MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM=GASMS!!!!!
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10/23/2006 5:27 pm |
my condom goes on..ribbed for her pleasure!!!
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10/23/2006 8:40 pm |
Hmmm i'm gonna have to write all this down...if I ever get to meet the steamy and sexy.
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Well, a lesson in Woman 101! I needs all the helps i can gets!!! MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM=GASMS!!!!! ~Hugs~ GO GET 'EM=GASMS!!!!!! 
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my condom goes on..ribbed for her pleasure!!!
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Hmmm i'm gonna have to write all this down...if I ever get to meet the steamy and sexy. Lol
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10/23/2006 8:54 pm |
::Looking around:: Hmmmm I don't see any other steamy and sexy's that I would be talking to....yes, yes I was referring to you...and oh yes, i will be writing all these notes down for future reference...hahaha
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Great post! Even I can learn from this! Actually I found myself a little turned on......I must need to get it on because that's pathetic!  Hubby and I aren't seeing eye to eye at the moment. It happens! See, that's why I need a girl friend!  {=}kisses, hugs, and sweet soft licks{=}
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10/24/2006 8:04 am |
Im at my horniest the week before my period. My chest flushes a lot when aroused, as does my face & my lips (facial ones) actually become larger too. When i super turned on my breasts get even bigger & sometimes after sex if ive had a great time i find it hard to actually get them back in my bra properly as theyve become swollen so much. Im weird arent it...
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You remaind me of a female David Dangelo. Just kidding
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o.k. printed it out and keeping in my pants pocket. Back is arching....does that mean grab cold hands? no....Wait look into her pupils....no that wasn't it....oh great it was something with the brain. A women is always right? Hold on...wait before you put the condom on, I have to review my sheet. Just what we needed - something else we have to remember. Thanks for the advice. Youre all confused! lol
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Yes...I even learned a thing or two from this. Thanks for visiting!
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Great post! Even I can learn from this! Actually I found myself a little turned on......I must need to get it on because that's pathetic! Hubby and I aren't seeing eye to eye at the moment. It happens! See, that's why I need a girl friend!Every couple never sees eye to eye 24/7. You think thats bad, try being in a relationship with the "you know what" for 4 years straight. "My mom always said I was a survivor!" LOL! (that was a loooong 4 yrs...)..NEVER again! Ummm...did you say girlfriend? Well, send me an email, lady!
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Im at my horniest the week before my period. My chest flushes a lot when aroused, as does my face & my lips (facial ones) actually become larger too. When i super turned on my breasts get even bigger & sometimes after sex if ive had a great time i find it hard to actually get them back in my bra properly as theyve become swollen so much. Im weird arent it... Ya know what? I'm at my horniest every day of the month! Bimbs, I've seen some of your pics....your boobs are big anyways! LOL! Yeah...very weird you are indeed! hehe...
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You remaind me of a female David Dangelo. Just kidding I've been called worse by better! JUST KIDDING!
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10/25/2006 9:58 am |
Dear Steamy, The more "good" info out there, the better. Thanks. I took a course in "Human Sexuality" years ago, prior to entering nursing school. Over 300 in the lecture hall, ages varied from 19 - 76. First class was about female anatomy, second class about males, and third class was about how everything went together (various methods, not just missionary). A written test was given, and the average score was 63!!! (Not to brag, but I made a 95) I approached the instructor to ask about the low average scores and he told me "Mr. C____, THAT'S why we teach this class.". There's an awful lot of misinformation out there, from our teen years forward so it's good to see something like this, once in awhile. hugs and gentle gropes in your direction, dear, Jim
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Dear Steamy, The more "good" info out there, the better. Thanks. I took a course in "Human Sexuality" years ago, prior to entering nursing school. Over 300 in the lecture hall, ages varied from 19 - 76. First class was about female anatomy, second class about males, and third class was about how everything went together (various methods, not just missionary). A written test was given, and the average score was 63!!! (Not to brag, but I made a 95) I approached the instructor to ask about the low average scores and he told me "Mr. C____, THAT'S why we teach this class.". There's an awful lot of misinformation out there, from our teen years forward so it's good to see something like this, once in awhile. hugs and gentle gropes in your direction, dear, Jim Thats very interesting......... I kinda wish I could go back to school now (college) to take some Human Sexuality courses instead of when I was going for Criminal Justice. Now that I'm older than what I was when I attended college, this topic you mention is more interesting to me than anything really. And of course, I'm a single mom so I dont think my teenage daughter would look up to me as much if I did take that kind of course right now. Lol If I could, I definately would. Please feel free to visit again!
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