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A very different World  

Biblokeforfun 59M
19 posts
1/6/2009 3:16 pm

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10/20/2009 4:23 pm

A very different World


It is several months since I made a post on this blog and in that time there have been some momentous changes in the World. Some good, most bad. There is an awful lot of doom and gloom about what 2009 is going to bring us. Some have suggested that it is going to be as bad as the 1930's. I doubt it. But there will be some who may decide that sex is a sure fired way of making money. It may be and I will be alert to any scans that may come my way.

However it will also be a time of increased pressures in life especially to those who may fall victim to the anticipated losses in employment. This naturally can lead to a loss of self esteem and depression. For those who have not really experienced a downturn, I can say that things do have a way of working themselves out provided you keep trying and don't give up.

This site does have an element of human interaction, something I would like to get more involved with. That is why I have after a lot of thought decided to revamp my profile which I will start shortly. That may also involve a name change as the handle I gave myself can be more of a hindrance when it comes to communicating with couples and the fairer sex. It may therefore be time to re invent myself as I do want to do anything I can to cheer those up who may be feeling a bit down.

Yes I know that this site has an element of escapism about it, but sometimes it does help to talk about these things rather than put your head in the sand.

I doubt that any change will result in any meetings. If I have not met anyone on here in several years of membership, I am hardly likely to start now. The shock would be too much for me But if it results in some cyber friendships where there is a bit of brain power put into a communication then that would be something worthwhile

cd4realman 58M

10/18/2009 4:45 pm

A good blog. Like the comment about cheering people up. I do think that anyone who is on this site, myself included, are probably needing it as we are missing out on something. We wouldn't be here otherwise. I'm missing out on sex - have it but not as much as I'd like.
Thanks for the blog


Biblokeforfun 59M
48 posts
10/20/2009 4:23 pm

Thanks for your comment.

Yes I am convinced that many men on here are missing out on sex. Either they are not getting the variety at home (my case) and feel that this is the only way to explore and satisfy their fantasies or need for variety. It is incredibally frustrating how you can love someone but find that they are just not as open minded about sexual matters. We men can seperate sex from relationships. However it is different for most women in my experience - love to be proved wrong.

The second type of man is the one who has Bisexual leanings (my case again!). There are more than you think. Trust me any ladies that have read this far! These leanings will have come about as a result of teenage experiences or later and have been supressed until as a result of websites such as this or those targetted at gay and bisexual men have become more common place. The younger generation probably will have a more broadminded and open attitude towards sex which can only be a good thing as it will result in less bigotry. That can only be a good thing. Indeed I am quiet envious as it is likely that younger women may well be more open to the idea that there fellow has had experiences with both sexes just as many men (albeit because of the porn industry) would be happy that their girl has had bisexual experiences.


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