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What do men want? Or did they all just go crazy!
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What do men want? Or did they all just go crazy! After talking with someone I met here on Local Sexy Swingers, the question arose in my head about what men really want. I often hear the complaints that men want sex, and women don't want sex as much as they do, which is total crap because we do. I'm thinking to myself, I want sex, a lot of sex as much as most men do any way. Then you start to talk to men and now its not that they want sex, its that they want a certain kind of sex, something strange and kinky. I think to myself, ok, I can do some of what they want, I might even enjoy it once in awhile. So you agree. Then they come out of the blue with other demands, even more wild and bizar. I sit their silently thinking to myself, is this guy really this nuts or just stupid? Does he really believe I'll agree to do something that repulsive? All the while, no one is getting laid, women are more frustrated then ever, and to be honest men have become even more scary to talk to. What ever happened to just wanting sex! Hot, wet, deep, sweaty, sticky, horny, exhausting SEX! Why is it when you tell a man, yes you want sex it is not good enough for him? Why is it he always has some weird stipulation you have to agree to before you can get down to business? Do I really have to stand on my head, fart the star spangle banner while he fucks my ear to get a man to become aroused these days? Does it really get him off to twist me into a pretzel, shave my pussy destroying all evidence that I'm an adult female and look like a 10 year old from the waist down, parade a million cocks for me to suck, while he fucks me in the ass, something I already told him I hated, dressed in red latex body suit imagining he's a condom? I don't fucking get it! In the past several decades women have struggled and taken claim to their sexuality, for the first time in our existence we can stand up proudly and say we are sexual creatures without shame or retaliation. And now that we finally made it to the level you wanted us to achieve, to embrace our sexual side, its still not good enough. When did wanting and liking sex turn into a side show circus act on wheels? There were always those who were a bit strange in their tastes, but when did it become a mass epidemic? What happened to the men who just enjoy having sex? Someone explain it to me, because I just don't get it. |
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5/28/2009 4:48 am |
You're hangin' around the wrong guys. If a guy starts that weirdo shit, move on to the next lucky fellow. Don't assume all men are alike because we're not.
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I was wondering if I was the only person out there who noticed the change. Sex has turned into something that was fun, relaxing, even thrilling, into a string of acrobatic accomplishents, where a woman has been turned into a tool and no longer a participant. If you can't or won't deep throat, enjoy anal sex, enjoy a parade of nameless faceless males to use you as they please, you seem to be out of the running. I just want sex, I don't want men to wear my panties, I don't want to have to sleep with a dozen guys to get his attention, I don't want to take his penis in any available orifice, and I certainly don't want to watch him masturbate while I'm standing on the side lines doing my nails. Men have just gotten too weird for me.
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5/29/2009 10:17 pm |
Not all of us It should be a mutual, fun activity. Everybody has a preference, I like women on top, next time (or later the same time  ) you pick!Easy
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In my experience it's often the women who have wanted to push the envelope, but OTOH I'm not exactly having many "what would you like to do in the bedroom?" conversations with other men so it's not a very fair survey! I wouldn't want to suggest it's not perfectly healthy for two consenting adults to explore new things so long as they're both comfortable with that, but I'm personally much more interested in sexual moods than sexual acts. Doggy style, cowgirl, missionary - bleh, it's the fire in her eyes that excites me. But I know there's lots of people who don't share that perspective. I think a lot of people are searching for that same thrill they felt the first few times - the feeling of newness, of exploration, the excitement of the unknown. This leads them to be continually looking for new ways to push the envelope - and as they keep pushing it, they need to find wilder and wilder things to do to achieve that same thrill.
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I haven't had this experience at all on Local Sexy Swingers. Most of the men I have met have been down with fairly conventional sexual activities. I've only met one man who will really try light BDSM stuff with me, as a matter of fact. ***
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You forgot to rub pudding all over your body. LOL Seriously, you are hanging around the wrong guys. Guys I know would be just happy to have you naked. I think the porn industry coupled with the internet age has fucked people really up. Being the freak I am, OK I dig a shower for two maybe a little golden shower while your in there, but damn, they have videos on line of guys pissing in girls mouths and some of them even swallow that shit. Then there are the girls farting in some dudes faces UGH.
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7/30/2009 1:26 pm |
Not all guys are like that keep looking and good luck
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Internet may be to blame. Think about the many fetishes expressed in too many websites to list. You don't even have to request it; it will be promptly delivered to your email box several times weekly, and in escalating degrees of repulsiveness. So now men are desensitized and confused. Sex to get off and sex with someone you value or love aim at different needs, so if a guy is asking you to do something other than what gives you pleasure, then it can't be love. Just my opinion.
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I agree with all of you, I do enjoy spicing it up in the bedroom. I do believe in finding new and interesting ways to setting fire to the old sex life. What I don't get is all the weird, even repulsive ideas men come up and call it sexual. I think men need to turn off their porn, turn off their internet access, turn off all the things distracting them and get down remembering what its like to just slip into a female's body and find complete bliss. They are missing so much in life.
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