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Blogs > rm_velvttouch > Me, Myself and I...

why should my emotions stop me from getting what i want..lol  

rm_velvttouch 55F
2731 posts
7/27/2008 7:41 am

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2/22/2009 6:11 am
why should my emotions stop me from getting what i want..lol

I had a situation recently that reminded me of when i was with my x.

I know a stripper who is a massage therapist. good for him. actually i find that a huge difference between the male and female strippers. the men all do something else. the stripping is much more likely to be a secondary thing...where as with the women it is more likely to be their main thing.

anyway ive know him for a little while and it has been ages since i had a massage so i asked him for one. he is a traveling massage therapist so no office. he asked me to bring a chaperone...lol seriously.... now i can understand that in general but i have been around for ever and most of the guys know i don't have any ulterior motives and am not psychotic so i was offended. but a mutual friend of ours who he suggested as chaperone offered to do it and when i said i was offended she said "do you want the massage or not?"

which brings me to my x...lol

he would be gone 5 days a week and he would come home and i would be horny but he would be an idiot and piss me off but i would fuck him anyway because hey why should i deny myself what i want because he was an idiot...lol

so yes i am getting the massage...

a lot of people i have talked to say their significant other withholds things namely sex when they don't get what they want or are angry.

do you let someone else being an idiot getting in the way of full filling your needs or wants?

rm_Thrantor2 51M/54F
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7/28/2008 8:15 am

 If I'm pissed off enough that I wouldn't enjoy it... Yes, I wouldn't do it. But that is more along the lines of "Wouldn't enjoy it... why do it."

But I know a woman who does use sex as a weapon. For even the slightest of little things. Someday I really pity her husband. "I want him to do something for me. And I know I can hold out longer than him. So until he does it... No sex."

To me that is just plain wrong.


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