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The meaning of love...
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The meaning of love... While sharing a laugh over coffee...I asked a married friend what she thought love meant...  . . . . . .Read on . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .NOW A PART OF THE . . . The Lecture Circuit SERIES...        . . .  . . . . MajorEasy's Blog... There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting...... |
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We tried to establish that she loves her man very much...but me being thick-skulled, really wanted to know how much... Would she want him to do well in life??...of course... Would she want him to be happy??...yes... Would she help him achieve his goals??....yes.. Would she share in all the pain and joy in his life??...yes... Would she wish for him to get things he really wanted??...yes... Would she allow him to have sex with another woman if that's what he really wanted??....Fuck off... Now...I know this is not a logical argument...but how can one answer be yes while the other is no?? It's something he wants??? NO?? Her attempted explanation was this...if he has sex with the other woman, he won't want sex with her...ah ha...I counter offer...what if he still wants sex with her as well as with another woman??...still no... I wasn't trying to change her mind or convince her otherwise, so I just left it...but I can't help but feel...most people think this way...so love must be a very selfish, restrictive emotion... For me...when I see Da woman smiling and happy...it fills my heart with joy...I don't really care what is making her happy...if it takes another man to do it...fine...sure, I won't force her to sleep with another man...but neither would I be sore about it...as long as she is happy... Hmmmm...maybe it's me who is wrong for living in the present...  . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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I had to laugh when I read this....because I'd probably have answered the same. And my hubby would feel the same as you. I hope you'll stop by my blog for my 300th post and say hi if you can. Attention all bloggers HOSPITALITY HOUSE BE OUR GUEST
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I had to laugh when I read this....because I'd probably have answered the same. And my hubby would feel the same as you. I hope you'll stop by my blog for my 300th post and say hi if you can. Attention all bloggers HOSPITALITY HOUSE BE OUR GUEST  I love the pic you used for that post though...Belle...yummy!!!!  Heh heh...I know...men and women will answer this question differently almost all the time...why, is the curious part don't you think?? . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/16/2006 12:26 pm |
I'm not sure I like the idea of my woman sleeping around. Surely one can be happy without having an affair?
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I'm not sure I like the idea of my woman sleeping around. Surely one can be happy without having an affair? I understand the general feeling of drawing a line...but where's the line?? Foot reflex?? If she wants that from another guy..ok?? How about a massage? From another guy...is that ok?? What about fingering?? From another guy...is that ok?? Where is the line?? Why draw it at sex?? Maybe it's just me...but sex is just a physical act...if I have to worry, I would worry if she had an intellectual and emotional attachment to another guy...because then, she won't need me around any more...other than that, surely anything else would be ok as long as it makes her happy and still want me around?? . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/20/2006 2:17 pm |
I agree. like they say, if you love her set her free. 
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I agree. like they say, if you love her set her free.  Set her free doesn't mean push her away though...it's letting her decide what's best for herself and be there for her.  (heh heh you know what you did wrong ya?? ) . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/21/2006 12:25 pm |
Yes I know, don't rub it in!!!  btw, she wrote to me a while ago but I didn't reply, what's the point right? My life is good now, so not need any baggage from before.
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Yes I know, don't rub it in!!! btw, she wrote to me a while ago but I didn't reply, what's the point right? My life is good now, so not need any baggage from before. Will talk to you more on your no reply...not sure I understand it... . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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9/22/2006 10:58 am |
ok
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9/22/2006 1:55 pm |
Yes mate...I'm not talking about having an affair to be happy...what I'm saying is...if that's what it takes to makes her happy, wouldn't you want her to be haapy?? I understand the general feeling of drawing a line...but where's the line?? Foot reflex?? If she wants that from another guy..ok?? How about a massage? From another guy...is that ok?? What about fingering?? From another guy...is that ok?? Where is the line?? Why draw it at sex?? Maybe it's just me...but sex is just a physical act...if I have to worry, I would worry if she had an intellectual and emotional attachment to another guy...because then, she won't need me around any more...other than that, surely anything else would be ok as long as it makes her happy and still want me around??
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Fair enough mate. Its still a bit out there don't you think? I know its what you think and I like to think that too, but to convince a woman? Anyway, if you truly believe in it, there's a pretty good chance the person who likes you will share similar views...as long as you've never tried to hide this idea from others...  . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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Sorry Major I dont belief that you are not affected by your lover sleeping with another man. The betray of trust is the problem. Anyway, even if you not upset by your lover sleeping around, how you know she not upset that you sleep around?
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Sorry Major I dont belief that you are not affected by your lover sleeping with another man. The betray of trust is the problem. Anyway, even if you not upset by your lover sleeping around, how you know she not upset that you sleep around?  Yes sweetie...I do see your point...however... Betrayal of trust has to start with trust and ends with betrayal...right? Now, if I start a relationship and we agree specifically that we can still see (meaning have sex with...no emotional ties...) other people...then the trust that we have with each other is that we can see other people...So...a betrayal of trust comes in when we DON'T sleep with other people...get it? Okie...since we only say we CAN see other people and not MUST see other people...there is no betryal at all...  I hope this makes sense to you... . . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...There is no use getting, into heavy petting it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting......
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