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Blogs > AK_Snowflake > Growing up Kelly

There is some pep in my step  

AK_Snowflake 48F
787 posts
7/11/2015 4:44 pm
There is some pep in my step

I can tell the difference in myself over the last week. While I am not 100%, I'm over 65%. I have started rethinking choices I have made over the last few weeks and while I would not do anything different because I do think things happen for a reason, I do want to learn a lesson instead of repeating the pattern as I often do.
I need to cut people out of my life that seem to only want to be around me when I am at my worst, meaning I act the way they think I should. Not their fault really, I tend to gravitate to them for the safety it brings if only temporary. I am not in a position to save other people nor do I hope to ever be. I am guilty of thinking I can some how help, change or bring comfort by hanging in there. Usually brings heartache, frustration and a host of other things.
Enough about that...

Now for something to ponder; I recently spoke with someone and the subject of eating pussy came up. This young man (29) said rarely if ever does he. My response was; that's unfortunate. Is there a reason men are afraid to do this? Not saying women always give blowjobs but seriously! I have been with almost as many women as I have men and NEVER had a woman not go down on me. I really didn't know what to say which is rare for me, but I had no desire to continue the conversation. Only now a few days later I am curious.

Snozog 64M/59F
545 posts
7/15/2015 3:46 pm

 there for awhile it seemed like going down was all the guys wanted to do. and sadly most of them were so so at best. I think some of them did it because they thought they should and did not really enjoy it or maybe my squirting scared them.
I do get annoyed by the guys that really want me to go down on them but not reciprocate.
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AK_Snowflake replies on 7/15/2015 8:40 pm:
It has become a deal breaker for me. I tend to be upfront about my expectations. I tell them I give as good as I get; sucks that it comes down to that.

rm_fun4pleaser 69M
462 posts
7/11/2015 6:48 pm

 Have no idea why he wouldn't, probably was never shown the jobs of pussy. And it is something I enjoy doing a lot, never consider being with a woman without including that. It is so much fun to bring her to orgasm (usually a few times) with my lips and tongue and fingers.
He has no idea what he is missing and it would appear that the women he is with are certainly missing it. Maybe someone will take the time to show him.


ak_bigbadwolf3 51M
2630 posts
7/11/2015 5:55 pm

 So two things.

1.\ Don't be anyone else but you around me I like that person.

2.\ Why not go down I can't explain it I love the act. I don't know if it's a matter of laziness or maybe there seems to be a "she acts like going down on me is a chore" in the younger crowd. Oh well more for me to enjoy
Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!


AK_Snowflake replies on 7/14/2015 1:19 pm:
Not sure if it is a younger/older thing. I have been with younger guys that are enthusiastic about it. Not necessarily good but enthusiastic. Those are the ones I am willing to teach if they are open to it. Older guys tend to do it but not long enough. Sometimes I would rather they spit in their hand for lube than lick for a few minutes to get you worked up and then move to penetration. Such a let down.

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