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Pondering  

rm_2c4myself 59F
114 posts
12/3/2008 9:30 pm

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2FUNPLAY1 68M/63F

12/3/2008 10:09 pm

 LOL!!! I use that line quite a bit! "all talk, no action" there's quite a few of those around I have found! Why people say things they don't mean I will never know, but I do know that if people think they can pull a woooh over my eye....they're sadly mistaken!! I'm not dumb!!


rm_2c4myself replies on 12/4/2008 9:17 am:
I hear ya. I am on this site to meet other like minded folks. To have fun times with fun friends. We know that everyone we meet will not be someone we take to our beds, yet aren't we honest enough to say "I like you, but I have no connection with you".

sandyparks2 38F
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12/3/2008 10:23 pm

 cool


rm_2c4myself replies on 12/4/2008 9:24 am:
I really do not see anything "cool" about leaving folks hanging or being dishonest about yourself.

rm_fellowdog36 51M
3 posts
12/4/2008 9:00 am

 The Safe Way??? What is the Safe Way??

The all talk no Action..is part of not knowing what you want...and being defined by society to say what you think others might like to hear. The geniue personality is the inner of a person's working. unfortunately it cant be taught.


rm_2c4myself replies on 12/4/2008 9:23 am:
Fellow. Thank you for your input. You bring an excellent point out "society to say what you think others might like to hear". You are right, no one wants to be rejected, and some do not want to hear the truth. Yet leaving a person hanging is.

LadyGrayLeopard 63F
26369 posts
12/5/2008 8:34 am

 Too many playing games yes, general respect for other person missing.
Leads to talk and no action... real time wasters.


rm_2c4myself replies on 12/5/2008 10:14 am:
"Time Wasters"....nice name LGL. Time and space wasters as far as I am concerned. Thank You for your thoughts.

rm_sherkahn 64M
35 posts
1/1/2009 11:20 pm

 ...jumping into this thread rather late...
Yes. You should always be what you are. Yes. You should always post who you are. Living by Polonius's advice.
I got hurt by some folk that weren't what they purported to be. This is after a year's worth of conversation and and two face to face meetings. Apparently, I was in the wrong for even flirting in person. I've felt ostracized and condemned from the group ever since.
I've never made any secret of my admirations, my intentions, my interests in anybody. Nor have I ever hid anything from Mrs Sher. I've never felt any need to, as she is secure in our marriage and knows my love for her.
As for you, my fine friend, you've been nothing but forthright and a Lady as well. While we missed an opportunity for dinner once, I WAS able to offer you breakfast another time.
Next time....lunch? Lol!


rm_esseneff1000 112F
151 posts
1/8/2009 12:42 pm

 2c I understand what you're saying, and IMHO it is a combination of things.
Some folks are just poser's and always will be.
Some folks are braver online than they are in RL, so when confronted with RL situations change their mind.
Some folks are deceptive, not purposely, but because they don't really know what they want or who they are.
For the most part people are decent, but because of the site being what it is they expect "more" than they would otherwise.

I have also had my share of disappointing RL experiences with people whom I thought were friends. I had one person I'd told specifically that almost anything was okay as long as they "asked" my other half first. They didn't ask, then wondered why things went downhill when they began touching, kissing etc. I was left hurt and embarrassed, and I know they were too. I am a bit more gaurded now because of it.

Just like real life there are so many different points of view on every situation, we all will see and react differently to it. I have not found any sure fire method of sifting through what people say/do to glean the truth. If you find anything that works let me know. Until then you have to live with yourself, so be true to YOU!


rm_tazcdevil 61M
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61 posts
1/10/2009 9:27 pm

 Im thinking its time to move forward & stop dwelling on the past IMHO


sambrown47 61M

10/11/2010 1:07 pm

 some are just affraid of coming out of thier cave


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