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slidein2meplz 69F
1993 posts
12/14/2005 7:54 pm

it's the "take away"...
it's the "you can't touch this"...

All people...want what they can't have. There are going to be people who will say...no not me..I'm not like that....but they are not being honest to themselves.

It's human nature..we can't help it...we are all a victim of it...it's the nature of the "beast".

How many times have you tried harder to get the one that was "un-gottable". How many times have you seen the ones that play that little 'ol game of hard to get?

All of us at one point or another in our lifes have that one memory of "yep..that one was so hard to get to go out with me (or whatever)...I did this and I did that and I tried everything possible....for days, weeks, months...(or whatever)to hook up"....

For some people... it's more of the thrill of the chase. Aha..gotcha. Now what?

See in one way or another we're all "salesmen/women"...selling yourself (and I'm not talking prostitution)....and some people have their own style of how they go about "winning" someone over.

You know how some people (male or female--doesn't matter)seem to have that "come hither" look about them....and so you go hither..lol...and then they stop ya dead in your tracks...hard to get...you can't touch this.....
So, then what happens...human nature takes over... and we want what we can't get. Suddenly...it's all you can think about...you knock yourself out...cuz you want that...you won't rest until you have that.

I think most of us know what or how to "not play fair"...

People who are "players"... they know how...they do it all the time. They have it down to an art form.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~


Kimmers777 113F

12/14/2005 7:57 pm

Why don't we just give you the formula for cold fusion? It would be shorter and you would probably remember it longer.

Truth be told, we are bound by a code. We could tell you, but then we'd have to kill you.

Look! Over there! Stainless steel marbles...


XesSex03 57M/56F

12/14/2005 8:11 pm

Not letting me seduce back...that's just not fair!

Mrs. Xes


PostingNick 57M
505 posts
12/14/2005 10:29 pm

Not sure if this is what the poster meant by don't play fair but it struck me in this way....

There are times in the past in a relationship, or potential relationship where I knew I was in a position to 'not play fair' - to say or do something that would be said or done for the soul purpose of getting what I wanted (not sex, just getting the person even more interested in me). I think I have done that at times, but I really try not to anymore. Not playing fair in the short term may get you what you think you want, but in the long run it creates more of a mess than it is worth.


native2LV 40F

12/14/2005 10:49 pm

Completely off the subject, dear Trav, but I have something to ask you...

WHERE THE FUCK IS YOUR BLUE DOT???? Or am I so behind that I haven't noticed???

One confused Las Vegas native


rm_DaphneR 65F
8019 posts
12/14/2005 11:48 pm

Ah...to me not playing fair is the tease. It's not always a bad thing, tempting, cooling down, tempting more, backing off. By the time things get around to happening you are about ready to burst. Not a bad thing and can be played throughout a relationship. The tease keeps things interesting to say the least.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


Sister_Act_4_You 45F/45F

12/14/2005 11:49 pm

Not playing fair is fucking with people's heads.....now, sure, sometimes it is fun to do, but i mean really fucking with people's heads in the wrong way.

Now you're going to ask what fucking with people's heads means, right?


tillerbabe 63F

12/15/2005 1:26 am

"Not playing fair"???? Make me beg....
(Nice new pic BTW sweetie!)


DTduzDallas 57F

12/15/2005 3:36 am

re: road map - I am not old and I still beat you. **bitchslap**


TopFisher 70M

12/15/2005 3:56 am

Fair as in love and war?

Nothing yet everyting is fair is both, right?

Ok not fair,: love, Not disclosing that you are married or attached while trying to get into pants of that fresh sweet thing within arms reach.

Not fair, expressing tones of true love, when the desire is but to feel the flesh of your loins caressed by the flesh of theirs.

If a woman is not smart enough to know when she is being played for pussy, then...... oh well. I suppose one can only assume she is getting fucked! Err played eh?


DTduzDallas 57F

12/15/2005 7:24 am

Don't play fair?

Completely seducing my mind with intelligence, wit, and charm, then making me wait for the first kiss, the first touch, prolonging the agony of pleasures I crave.


online69n 58F

12/15/2005 8:13 am

lying ain't fair
everything else is fair!
It's plain and simple
if you can just tell and hear the truth!
Let the truth be told..........................


rm_goddess1946 113F
13513 posts
12/15/2005 3:38 pm

fair is where the ferris wheel can be found and
where you can play high in the sky...if your timing is tuned.

fair to one person can be
........distant and destructive to another...truth.

To thine own self be true...and fair and then know...
Fair is an agreed upon territory...a sense of knowing.
KNOW the definition of terms B4 begining the dance of
seduction.....always, boys...you just gotta KNOW.

Know the definition of terms...

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


rm_impish_pixie 61F
6862 posts
12/15/2005 6:21 pm

Fair? Hmmm...I like someone who's plays dirty. Keeps me guessing and just waiting for that next adventure. Teasing I guess. Big fan of anticipation - love to have my curiosity stroked.
(btw...love the new pic...dark and harsh. Hmmmmmmmm.)

I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn


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