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Some Guys in New Mexico have no class  

justaguy_80 43M
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12/23/2007 6:17 pm
Some Guys in New Mexico have no class

My first post in this series is not current, it happend early December.

Background:
I my company sends me all over the place and I always scout ahead to seek out new friends. So knowing I had a trip to New Mexico coming up I began the search, and quickly found an interesting woman, and we started chatting. The chatting went on for the better part of 2 months as my trip kept getting delayed but then it finaly got the go ahead.

We plan to meet at a local bar. I knew from experience that it was a low key place that you could actualy hold a conversation, and it was one of the few places open late.

First Meet, no call no show. Any one who has been on Local Sexy Swingers for a while knows this one! Chatted the next day and it turns out her sitter stood her up.
So we made plans for the next night.

Second Meet, she showed! An hour and a half late (11:30pm) but I finaly got to meat this Beutiful woman. And she was the rare kind of woman that just ozzed sexuality. Thats where everything went horibly wrong.

As it turns out 2 weeks prior she had a drunken hookup with someone who was at the bar that night, and he was not about to let another man in on his action. One thing to note is that she is actual bashing him and publicly declaring how bad that night was. Thats when he walks up and asks who I am. She informs him that I am a friend from the internet and we are meeting for the first time in real life. He askes if it is a date, to which she responds no. I am not sure how he took that but from that point on about every 5-10 min we get inturupted by him trying to talk to her. She is constantly brushing him off and tossing signs to go away but he persists.
Seeing that he is able to talk to her in my peresence aparently encouraged the rest of the guys at the bar who started doing the same thing... (I have never felt so stepped on in my life.)

But we are making the most of our time and starting to get into eachother dispite the interuptions.

Thats when my new friend whom I had met earlyer that week taps me on the sholder and informs me that the guy is getting pissed, and getting his friends pissed too. At this point there is no chance of slipping out unnoticed and an attempt to do so would likely lead to a parking lot brawl. (I am starting to feel the frustration at this point)

Now the guy comes up and takes her aside and begins to tell her something quietly. He is joined buy a friend of hers whom she trusts and he begins telling her something as well. (I have no idea what is being said, and an important note at this point is that at no time that nite had i left her side)

Now this woman is the only woman in a bar with about 8 guys, all of which in various degrees of intoxication. Every guy is now hitting on her. (Including my friends that swear they were just making conversation)

The bar hits last call, I ask her if she would like to go somewhere and actualy talk. One suggestion was my hotel. The other was another bar. We agree on the public place. And wait for the others to leave. With must yelling they finaly do so. (I am on the edge of losing it at this point, frustration has really taken its toll)

We run our respective friends home and I go to the next bar. Suprise Suprise no call, no show.

Later chats with her revielded what the man had told her.

Aparently I had been talking about how I had met this slut that I was going to have my way with that night... This was also said by her firend.(Anyone who has met me feel free to come to my aid on this one, that is not who I am)
The earlyer note of importance was that I had never left her side.

But at 2 against 1 she felt they were more credible as I seemed to be too at ease with her. She pegged me as a player, and felt I would lie my ass off to get with her. (I am all about honesty and had demostrated it prior to meeting)

Later it was revieled that the guy followed her to her friends house. Had she of come to the second bar it would not have been a good thing.

I have since figured out several things that I could have done to avoid the outcome of that night.

The best idea was to have bounced to another place upon learning of the former hookup.

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