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nonsmokers vs smokers
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nonsmokers vs smokers Is it me, or does there seem to be more smokers on Local Sexy Swingers then nonsmokers? Is it really rude to disqualify anyone for this reason? I don't want to offend anyone, but prefer nonsmokers only. There are some great guys out there who I would love to date...but they smoke...it's my one deal breaker. SORRY!! Interested in your comments. Thanks. HOLY COW BLOGGERS!!! I DIDN'T THINK I'D GET THIS KIND OF RESPONSE. I TRULY DIDN'T MEAN TO OFFEND ANYONE. I APPRECIATE ALL COMMENTS AFTERALL WE ARE ALL ENTITLED TO OUR OWN OPINION. AND THANKS FOR ALL THE SUPPORT. AND JUST SO YOU KNOW...NEWLYSEP3....WHO'S COMMENTS WERE HARSH, SENT ME A PERSONAL EMAIL APOLOGIZING FOR HIS INSENSITIVITY. JUST SO YOU ALL KNOW, I WAS ONCE ENGAGED TO A SMOKER, IT DIDN'T BOTHER ME AT FIRST AS HE ALWAYS SMOKED OUT SIDE, NEVER IN THE HOUSE OR CAR. I COULD SMELL IT ON HIM FROM TIME TO TIME AND ALWAYS MADE HIM BRUSH HIS TEETH....I HATE KISSING WHAT TASTS LIKE AN ASH TRAY...BUT EVENTUALLY HE USED HIS SMOKING AS A WEAPON, AND EVENTUALLY SMOKED WHERE AND WHEN HE WANTED TO TO GET BACK AT ME FOR WHATEVER REASON. THE SMOKE MAKES ME PHYSICALLY SICK, IF I AM IN A BAR FOR ANY LENGTH OF TIME WHERE AIR QUALITY IS POOR...THE SMOKE MAKES ME WANT TO PEEL THE SKIN OFF MY FACE, THATS HOW MUCH IT AFFECTS ME. NOT TO MENTION HAVING TO COME HME AFTER AN EVENING OUT, HAVING TO PEEL OFF ALL MY CLOTHES ABD TAKE A SHOWER IMMEDIATELY TO GET THE SMELL OFF ME/HAIR. I ALSO SEE MY MOM AND WHAT SMOKING HAS DONE TO HER LIFE...SEEING A LOVED ONE...SUFFER... SHOULD BE INCENTIVE ENOUGH FOR ANYONE. OKAY...ENOUGH...AGAIN THANKS FOR ALL YOUR COMMENTS. FOR MY NEXT BLOG I WILL TRY TO COME UP WITH SOMETHING MORE FUN AND NOT OFFENSIVE TO ANYONE. HUGS TO ALL.... I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY) |
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well that alright.. we are a dying breed.. so don t you worry your little head about us.. beside no one likes us.. we can t smoke anywhere..hell in ca you can t even smoke in your own homes in one city... but just you wait till they start telling fat people that you can t eat in certain restaurants.. or tall people that they can t where certain cloths..or big boob babes that they have to have breast reduction ..or no boob babes that they have to go under then knife... if i m still alive i won t stick up for your rights either.. thanks.. Face piles of trials with smiles Moody Blues Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous. (????)     
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2/18/2008 12:09 am |
Well your not alone with this deal breaker.I was rejected because I am a smoker but I respected him for his reason and we do still talk.He is interested but not til I quit smoking..lol...Which I am in the process of doing byt not for him NO NO NO NO NO ...doing it for me as I have been wanting to quit for awhile. I wish you luck and I hope they can accept your reason.     
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2/18/2008 1:27 am |
Seeing alot of hostility on this women's post.And I don't think this is what she was looking for from us.She is pointing out a fact she doesn't want someone who smokes and not putting them down or non smokers or obese people. Shame shame
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2/18/2008 4:24 am |
I'm a non-smoker, but I've dated smokers in the past. I've never seen it as a problem - as long as they respect your boundaries and you respect their cravings.
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not starting a fight.. but you say that fat people only hurt themselves.. well they have health issues too.. which mean that they go to hospitals and doctors.. and that adds to the health care cost.. which adds to what other have to pay.. so while you don t give two shits about me.. i do care.. Face piles of trials with smiles Moody Blues Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous. (????)
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2/18/2008 9:32 pm |
I wouldn't call it a deal breaker... If I get to know you and we hit it off before I discover that you smoke I won't hold it against you... But if I just met you or I'm checking out your profile and smoking is one of the first things I notice... I lose interest fast. The problem with smokers is that they are selfish. (Let the attacks begin) They believe that it is their right to share the dirty habit with everyone around them. Spend a little time with a smoker and your clothes smell like smoke and your hair smells like a cigarette. spend more time with them and your skin will discolor and lose elasticity and there is the pleasure of the health risks. But if I spend time with a fat person I do not get fat or have to wash everything I'm wearing because the fat is saturating it and I never end up with fat hanging off of me. If I'm with big breasted women my chest doesn't get bigger... In fact there is no other personal habit that effects every person and thing around you quite like smoking does. My thought is that if they do not care what they do to everyone around them, why would I think they will treat me any better?
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I wouldn't call it a deal breaker... If I get to know you and we hit it off before I discover that you smoke I won't hold it against you... But if I just met you or I'm checking out your profile and smoking is one of the first things I notice... I lose interest fast. The problem with smokers is that they are selfish. (Let the attacks begin) They believe that it is their right to share the dirty habit with everyone around them. Spend a little time with a smoker and your clothes smell like smoke and your hair smells like a cigarette. spend more time with them and your skin will discolor and lose elasticity and there is the pleasure of the health risks. But if I spend time with a fat person I do not get fat or have to wash everything I'm wearing because the fat is saturating it and I never end up with fat hanging off of me. If I'm with big breasted women my chest doesn't get bigger... In fact there is no other personal habit that effects every person and thing around you quite like smoking does. My thought is that if they do not care what they do to everyone around them, why would I think they will treat me any better? Face piles of trials with smiles Moody Blues Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous. (????)
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...NEWLYSEP3....WHO'S COMMENTS WERE HARSH, SENT ME A PERSONAL EMAIL APOLOGIZING FOR HIS INSENSITIVITY. AAAhhh excuse me.. but i do not think i did that.. apologize for my insensitivity.. i apologized cause i didn t want your first post to be a bad experience.. this is what i e mailed you.. the subject: is pleas accept my apologies.. i didn t want to start a fight on your very first blog.. blogville..well that is what i call it.. is a very nice place.. i do have a blog.. i m not an evil person.. but i just wanted to make a point.. that us smokers have rights..not many anymore..and some of us are very conscientious of others.. so again i m so sorry .. but please don t give up on blogs.. i think you will like it.. and you are off to a good start.. you can have your opinion of us smokers all you want.. and i can have my opinion of what i think.. that is what blogs are all about. a discussion of opinions .. no one is right no one is wrong.. what i didn t like was being attached by someone that doesn t know me ...or give to shits about me.. or a person that has her rights to say what she wanted but has her profile turned off.. i m here ... i m out in the open.. i don t delete blog post from people unless they attach someone that visits my blog..you can attach me all you want but never do that to someone that visits my blog.. sorry you have to peel your skin off.. sorry you have such an aversion to smoke.. good think you can t smell me as i m writing this..enjoy blogville.. like i said but i never apologize to you about my comments....i stand by them.. Face piles of trials with smiles Moody Blues Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous. (????)
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WELL "NEW".....I WAS TRYING TO BE NICE AND LET YOU VOICE YOUR OPINION, BUT I CAN SEE THERE IS NO OPINION EXCEPT YOURS THAT MATTERS AT LEAST IN YOUR MIND. SO BELIEVE WHAT YOU WANT...IT MATTERS NOT TO ME... THIS BLOG WAS ONLY TO GET BLOGGERS THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS...YOU ARE ENTITLED TO YOURS AS THE REST OF US ARE TO OURS. NOW GO INFLICT YOUR RUDENESS ELSEWHERE. TO EVERYONE ELSE...THANKS AND HAVE A BEAUTIFUL DAY!! XOXO I AM RESPONSIBLE FOR MY OWN HAPPINESS!! (MY LIFE'S PHILOSOPHY)
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2/19/2008 12:31 pm |
we can fight about this, until the sun don't shine.... but the truth of the matter is that there will ALWAYS BE OPPOSITION.. with this matter smokers Vs Non smokers.... ALWAYS but when someone in 'here', purposefully/cunningly comes to someones blog... to deliberately attack with insults not just once.... but 4 times... like throwing "shit into a fan".. (shit=insult).. shit scatters.... and it's a wide spectrum effect... with a wide amount of people being affected...... i know i know poor analogy...lol but that's what it is..... opinions people..... keep it to the simple opinion.... your views... on the subject... not insulting anyone... not stalking anyone to their blog... for blood! please..... this is blogville.... a "nice place to be"...            
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