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To: AFF members #2  

rm_di3creet_4u 40F
169 posts
11/23/2008 7:08 pm
To: AFF members #2


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Why I do not exchange mobile number or messenger address with Local Sexy Swingers members that I do not really know or etc., is because…

(1) When I open my messenger, it is flooded and I cannot be bothered to open it anymore. My lousier laptop hang on me once and after 15 minutes, I realized that it is actually “Not responding” because of my “Off-line messages”.
(2) The Inbox is worse; I just click “Select All” and “Delete Trash Forever”. Thank you for the constant mails and messages but I am abandoning my hot-mail. As for my ya-hoo, it is not that bad “yet”.
(3) I had to change my mobile once because there is one guy who kept calling me, even in the middle of the night. I know there are a lot of “non-stalkers” out there but this is putting me off. I just have to keep filtering and give my numbers to only people I feel “should be okay”. How? “Intuition” or my mood! Sorry.
(4) My Local Sexy Swingers Inbox. For now, there are only a few people that I mail more constantly. I feel so sorry that sometimes I stop mailing. The reasons are because:
• You ask for my mobile number before I felt comfortable giving.
• You are overly eager and I felt “goose bumps” all over while reading your messages.
• You sent me more than 2 mails with the same messages.
• I realized that I am not really interested.
• I am so busy I read but forgot to reply.
• I missed your mail in my Inbox.
• I did not even check my Inbox.

Sounds like just excuses?

All these are true. If you do not believe, you can ask some of the other girls why they stop replying. Some of you really give me the creep! What kind of mails are the worst?

(1) I live at No. XXX ABC Road. Okay, so?
(2) I can give you $XXX for sex/blowjob/handjob. Thank you very much but I am not a . I am here to enjoy like you and money do not give me pleasure.
(3) SM/Group sex. ‒ Firstly, my profile did not say that I am interested in all these activities. Secondly, I do not know you yet.
(4) Penis pictures. Okay, I admit that there are gorgeous ones. Visual pleasure but I think you should send me your “Intro” message first. If you can send me a personalized one, I will notice and I might reply if you fit into my preference category.
(5) Other languages. Sorry but I only can read English and Chinese.
(6) Copied and pasted mails. Haha… Like advertisement! How I know? I received the exact same mail from the same person so many times! I think they did not even know that I noticed. This shows that I actually tried reading their mails and giving them another chance but they blew it by sending me the same advertisement!!!

Don’t laugh. These are all facts. Mails that make sense are like:
(1) Hi, I read your blog and …
(2) Hi, I would like to get to know you better. After reading your profile, I think we are looking for the same things here…
(3) Hello, My name is XXX.

These make absolute sense to me. Making friends before proceeding further. I do not know about other girls but I need to know my “sex partner” before I can “do it”. So, I would like to say sorry to some people. As for others, I will reply when I can.

*p/s: To those who insist on continue sending me “advertisement”, I hope you can find what you want from other girls. Marketing and sales people, this is a friend-making environment. Stop scaring people away with your “sales talk”. At least for me, “size do not matter”. If I want to know, I will ask.

Thank you for taking time to read this. I hope you find this useful. Those who do not agree, please tell me about your experiences and why.

my secret life, my double life..


Sev09 47M

11/23/2008 11:32 pm

OK!!! Now it explains already hahahaha lolz


Chronogy 50M

11/24/2008 1:40 am

Like the way you blog about this, and I guess my mail will go down the drain due to the impossibility of chatting with you over MSN.

Anyway, I hope you'd check out my profile when you can, because our profile matches well; and we may become good friends eventually, with or without the physical intimacy..


rm_di3creet_4u 40F
73 posts
11/24/2008 2:37 am

    Quoting Sev09:
    OK!!! Now it explains already hahahaha lolz
Your messages are personalized and I do reply to your messages! Haha... Except for the...

my secret life, my double life..


tequila0873 43M

11/24/2008 7:25 am

hahaha... good one... love reading stuff like these.. females shouting out their side of the story.... but actually, i think u should expect this not only because most males are superficial in their thinking, they ARE marketing themselves.. hahahha...

but of course, stating where he lives or wanting to pay for ur "services" in the 1st ever mail is just too darn wrong..

they just think money can buy anything from anyone...

ps:sorry to hear abt the computer..invest in a new one perhaps??

Why Buy a Book, When there's a Library....


Sev09 47M

11/25/2008 7:09 pm

Except for the 1234567? Hahaha.... Going into MIA soon again is it ?


rm_di3creet_4u 40F
73 posts
11/26/2008 10:50 pm

Sev09: Yeah lor. Haha...

tequila0873: Maybe I am very proud but money is nothing to me. p/s: I abandoned that mail. So, no problem now.

my secret life, my double life..


tequila0873 43M

11/27/2008 2:50 am

its ok to be proud.. as long as it doesnt get to ur head and it doesnt becomes arrogance..

Why Buy a Book, When there's a Library....


rm_di3creet_4u 40F
73 posts
11/27/2008 5:45 pm

tequila0873: In this context, I am proud because I know I cannot be bought with money. money can buy you a lot of things but end of the day, I do not need to know that I bought it in exchange of my body. Whereas willing to do it because I want to do it is different. It is what I want to do and almost no one can stop me. It\'s my life.

my secret life, my double life..


Sev09 47M

12/3/2008 6:34 pm

Dearest,

Its ur life.. no doubt about that. But can dont MIA so long or not? U will be sorely missed. ;P


rm_di3creet_4u 40F
73 posts
12/4/2008 3:46 am

    Quoting Sev09:
    Dearest,

    Its ur life.. no doubt about that. But can dont MIA so long or not? U will be sorely missed. ;P
Blame my boss! Haha...

my secret life, my double life..


AussieStud6969 40M
26 posts
10/22/2010 11:11 am

nice blog babe, hope you are having fun! xo


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