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Rude Members
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Rude Members When a member sends me an email no matter how curt or uninteresting, I always answer that email. In the past month I have received over 800 emails from members. Guess what...I have responded to all of them including those from 'spammers' located in other countries. This is called courtesy.  On the other hand, I have sent both "blings" and emails to active members here and about 25-30% never say "thanks" or "drop dead". This is called rude or discourteous.  Hey, I'm a nice, decent man and my emails only notify the member that I have sent them complementary "blings". An acknowledgment is so easy to do. Let's all try to be better members here and use our manners. 
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Wow 800 emails in the last months. That is more than I have recieved my entire 2 years here. I just wish that more ladies sent out a "Thanks but not interested message" How ever I understand where Cosy is coming from. When I get a rejection notice I honestly send "Thank you for letting me know that you believe we may not have enough in common. I wish you the best in finding what you are looking for." My running total Ladies Please I need some help Want a Free Credit report No Scams Or you can come and say hello to me at Private Messages Here is a post that is close to my heart. Mental Health Issues
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9/25/2008 8:05 am |
 Bravo Life is to short to be unhappy.     Peace and Love
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wow only 800 emails with a car like that. People don't like rejection emails so it is hard to send 40 of them out a day without someone thinking you are a cunt rag for doing it. Then the hate mail happens and then you stop emailing anyone back. Rejection is hard to take in an email when you have to tell grandpa you don't want old man cock.
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Interesting comments. However, I don't think some of you read my comments closely. I don't mind "rejections" mainly because I don't send emails asking to meet. I do get offended when I do something nice for others and they simply ignore the deed. What does "grandpa" have to do with it? I guess Buffy thinks that I am asking for "some". No, Buffy, I am not asking for any. My emails simply notify the member that I have left "blings" for them to pick up. However, FYI, I have in the past 30 days had sex with a 34 year old and a 40 year old. Met both here and the pursued me. I am rather selective but apparently they were not because "grandpa" left them pleased and they came back for more. Again, my issue here is a simple "Thank you" is all that is necessary. When someone holds a door open for me, I simply look into their eyes and say "Thank you". They could have just allowed that door to slam in my face (many people do). Cozy and Silver I do understand your position. If I were "hitting" on the ladies, then 'yes' they do have the right to ignore my offer. Yes, I do understand there are many rude ppl here and some very immature men. I have elevated myself above rudeness as everyone deserves respect unless they prove they are not worthy of my respect. 
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Sounds like you guys are jealous of "grandpa". Guess what...I don't have any grandchildren but I do have sex with many ladies your age (30's - 40's). Her's the deal: I show ladies respect, courtesy and attention. You guys don't take time to develop a relationship. You want to expose your "testosterone" dominance. This happens to be a turn-off to real ladies. Also, please read my comment closely next time. My comment was "rudeness" for failing to acknowledge a good deed.
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Wow... I think I did THANK YOU for the wonderful bling that you did gift to me... If I didn't SORRY !!!! I feel horrible now... I love your bling...
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Running to my email..hmm..I dont think you ever emailed me...so my loving term of endearment "grandpa" wasn't a personal attack on you. Atta boy..flaunt your conquests! Rudeness in not returning emails...women need a personal secretary to keep up with the mail. A mail boy would be nice to email 40 emails a day! I have other things to do then send out thank you notes!
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10/2/2008 11:07 am |
I agree if you want to chat with someone and they don't respond yes that hurts alot. People could be nice and say sorry im not interested. I also agree with cozy yes you have friends that are rude too.
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High "G" You are right. Reading your blog and its title & content, the subject is rudeness; clear & simple. Yes people can be rude reading on what some of the blog respondents say, one also has to see it from the other side. We also "used" to respond to 100% of messages. Now we do not because of the content (one of your blog respondent mentioned this) Another of your respondents said if we reject (and believe me, we do have to reject a lot who do not take our profile seriously but we do it nicely) often their reaction tends to be a rude messages or instant low points (one's) on all our pictures which is really childish, no matter if a "grand-pa" or a young dude but to tell you the truth, more young members tend to get bad reactions to rejections and can be quite vindictive. We both are extremely polite and those who know us personally (see testimonials) know that our politeness is legendary. Up to now we have not ever sent a bad or rude message and have always said thanks for sending us a message or bling or viewing us. But it is getting quite tiring keeping up with all this. So frankly, simply ignore. Sebd your bling, send your messages and so on, and like it says on many A F F profiles "no preconceived expectation to do anything" and I guess this also goes for responses and politeness. Don't expect people to match your courteousy. Furthermore, be proud that you are a nice guy over and above most others. That already makes you special so be happy and forget the rudeness. Live & let live and keep sending those blings knowing that it makes you happy anyway. Cheers.
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10/26/2008 2:03 am |
It would be polite to respond to each and every contact we receive. However, one of the many reasons I chose this method of meeting people is because time is precious and I never have enough of it. I am not soliciting contact with every person in the big old world and if most of the people who contact me took the time to read my profile, instead of just looking at the pictures, they would see we aren't compatible and wouldn't bother me in the first place. That said, I understand your position and will try to improve somewhat.
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I have to agree...I usually send an auto-reply to say that I'm not interested...then I get a very rude email back, then I have to block that person....I mean they swear and call me names...and end up almost stalkerish.....and no this is just to chat or email each other.....so I don't reply to emails mostly cause I'm not interested....and they get the hint....Thanks for the bling I hope this is good enough!
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hi,iam whitequeen1943.i certainly agree wioth you about the rudeness of some of the members.i ans.all my mail.i dont check my profile page often,but i will start.im still not to clear on the bling thing,i do love it and buy a lot.i ont think you have sent me any ling,but if you did,then,thank you very much.i do love bling,lol.come chat anytime if you want to. your bling is really great.
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hi G, i just want everybody to know what a sweet guy you are,i made a mistake when i was buying your bling,and you send me a bunch of your bling,it was my mistake, not yours, and i think you and your bling are awesum.i thank you so very much for your sweetness and your bling.it will be special bling to me
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5/26/2009 5:49 am |
 I completely agree! I have a huge pet peeve with those that don't say thank you! what is up with all the expectant rude behavior these days. I always make it a point to always say please and thank you. I was raised with this and I am not quite sure what has happened to common courtesy! Nice to see that others feel this way as well. I will do anything to help anyone in need.. but could you at least hit me up with a Please and Thank you just to keep the love flowing?
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