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Blogs > 2bkinky4u2 > Is it fantasy or is it real?

Looking for bi-curious friends, is that to much to ask for? honestly?  

2bkinky4u2 59M/64F
26 posts
3/24/2010 5:00 pm

Last Read:
9/16/2016 11:07 pm
Looking for bi-curious friends, is that to much to ask for? honestly?

Hello, I know it's been awhile. We haven't been on as much but are changing that now.

We want to know exactly how are we supposed to go about finding some friends or trusting people here on Local Sexy Swingers? Seems that a lot of people are not very honest. Also, seems discretion doesn't seem to matter.

Is is because we are extra cautious since we haven't met with anyone yet? Are we being tooo.....? Maybe we are, but what we want is our first experience to be good, doesn't have to be perfect. Just not bad.

We get to this point we exchange emails, we have even sent our pics out. And then we get no further. Sometimes we don't like the pics we get, or the people seem too pushy or its couple and it's not even a couple!!

I mean how long should it take? We are in no hurry, we want to be friends first and then take it from there with no expectations. Because there has to be some chemistry. If not no big deal. We would love some friends that we could even just talk about our Local Sexy Swingers life and the fantasy's we want. That would be so awesome for us. We don't have any one to relate to about any of this. Would be fun just to maybe talk about things other people wouldn't understand.

We are looking for some suggestions, please?

Thanks for reading,
2bkinky4u2>>!

Mykes70 53M
46 posts
12/16/2016 3:39 pm

 I think there are factors...as in everything...I've chatted with quite a few...only met up with very few. Either distance, schedules, some are good with just chatting...
I just had a great experience this past weekend...they, ( a husband and wife couple) met me at a hotel. In the back of my mind, went the thoughts of: am I going to end up in a wood chipper and then on a carto of milk?
Ended up having a great time and will see them again, as schedules allow.

You just have to keep talking and contacting folks.
If were closer, would love to chat about getting together for some fun times.
mike


sean_mc_83 40M
4 posts
3/20/2012 9:10 pm

 There is definitely communication issues with some people on this site it seems. I have had similar experiences with the trading of e-mails and such and have had one or two encounters, but those are the exceptions. And i think part of it is the people that are new but really curious about these kinds of topics is they don't even know where to start, they've joined the site but have no clue how to communicate their intent and/or interests. And as such I find it is always cool to find people who like to talk to and relate on these topics. Feel free to hit me up sometime, I'm always keen on learning more about people and their experiences


2bkinky4u2 59M/64F
12 posts
8/27/2011 11:37 pm

 were still searching... But thanks everybody for your feed back.


jrinbend 66M
Ask me for a photo

5/3/2011 9:57 am

 I see it's been a year, but if you are interested, I'd love to chat some.


voyeuristic000 60M
Ask me for a photo
50 posts
3/23/2011 6:38 am

 Hello, 2Bkinky...Your perspective is dead on...I have been looking for my first bi experience for a while myself and have run into all the same problems that you have...a few emails, pics, then nothing...
chemistry is important, as well as openess and honesty...
If you'd like to chat, discuss, fantasize, feel free to drop me an email...


rm_kinkykink5 42M
888 posts
3/31/2010 11:03 am
    Quoting BDCDFun:
    No, not at all. I have had to same experiences with trying to find someone to play. I guess I may be too picky but want to have an enjoyable time for all involved and for the most part, some chemistry is important if your not just looking for raw sex.
hiya bdcdfun l did adore your picture ohhhh god l love wearing all kind of sexy fem lingeries red is excatly my fev to wear them formyself real and basic Bİ vay.l do love ppls whos like to wear them like me too.allways love to make new and likeminded bi friends all about the world.best sexy bi wishes xxxxxxxxxx


rm_kinkykink5 42M
888 posts
3/31/2010 11:00 am

 good luck kinkycpl hope you gonna have great bi lover soon best sexy bi wishes


BDCDFun 67M

3/26/2010 6:15 pm

 No, not at all. I have had to same experiences with trying to find someone to play. I guess I may be too picky but want to have an enjoyable time for all involved and for the most part, some chemistry is important if your not just looking for raw sex.


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