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I've come across a few assholes, this one is the best
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I've come across a few assholes, this one is the best I received a message last week after a blog that was not meant any judgement in any way, anyway this guy from Illinois messaged me about how I can be Daddy's little girl, I didn't respond and just deleted it.. So for the second time he emails me again; Daddys/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. In my relationship my Dom is not my father, he is nothing like my father, and I have no need for him to replace my father. He is however my Daddy, and does not engage in age play specifically (beyond the occasional school girl fantasy *s*) and the relationship is not based on any need to have sex with . He does have the ability to make me feel like a little girl, however, a much cherished and sometimes needy little girl. It is a feeling that I revel in, it is the safest place I have ever been, and it allows me the freedom to be all that I am without fear of reprisals. Daddy Dom is a feeling, an environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. To achieve these goals he relies on a combination of love, respect, and discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. She is his prized possession. His eyes light up when she walks into the room and he takes great pride in her successes. After all, he helped to create her. She holds the tenderest part of his heart and has the greatest power to hurt him. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel pride in his little girl. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase its value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust, she must know he means what he says. If his little girl is going to be the best she can possibly be he must stand firm. He uses his experience in life and his knowledge of her to provide proper direction and punishment when the need arises. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He understands that it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect. This takes great strength on his part. It takes strength to control her, and to shape her to his needs and desires. It takes strength to be her confidant, her shoulder, her anchor. It takes strength to let her out into the world when all he wants to do is hold her safe in his arms. And it takes strength to do what is necessary when she needs to be disciplined. A Daddy Dom provides something else that is very important to his submissive...acceptance. She is safe in his arms because he knows her, everything about her, and he still loves her. When she goes to him she knows that this man knows all of her dirty little secrets and it doesn't matter. To him she is beautiful. Daddy Dom and sadistic Dom are by no means mutually exclusive. Many Daddy Doms embrace their sadism while understanding and feeding their submissive's masochism. This balance is necessary to many little girls because it allows all parts of her to be nourished, leading to an incredibly fulfilling relationship. In addition to these practically mandatory characteristics, some couples add their own sadism and masochism to the mix, and may use the concept of the wolf or lion and little lamb to describe the way in which the Daddy simultaneously protects his little girl from the world, and yet wants to dominate and devour her sexually. As a sadist, he may create the very tears that he will later kiss away. Sounds sweet, and yet terrifying, if you are not accustomed to the world of sadomasochism in which these participants operate. But to a Daddy and his girl who are into BDSM, this is the most perfect of scenarios they can imagine to act out their fetish I think most Dominants have a bit of the Daddy in them; taking on the role of male authority figure in the submissive’s life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that its participants crave. There is something infinitely magical about a Daddy Dom. Perhaps it is something only a little girl can understand Now to each their own but these kinds of messages are a bit freaky so I message him back letting him know I am not interested... He responds; No wonder your husband dumped your sorry ass... And blocks me so I couldn't respond, sounds more like a coward to me wouldn't you agree?? Some folks make me sad  If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N |
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Some just people just don't get it I guess... If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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What a fucking idiot !!!
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Can't say he's the best...but a pretty good one for sure! They're everywhere....more will come your way...and mine....delete...life goes on! WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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I couldn't understand it....except to see it was pretty freaking strange... Click Here To Read A Hot Erotic Story: When A Woman Meets A Stranger Part 1 of 4
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What a fucking idiot !!! If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Can't say he's the best...but a pretty good one for sure! They're everywhere....more will come your way...and mine....delete...life goes on! If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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I couldn't understand it....except to see it was pretty freaking strange... If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Don't you just love it when someone professes to be such an in-charge adult and then turns into a 5 year old boy having a tantrum when he doesn't get his way right off the bat!! Seems to be the M.O. of MOST self-professed "doms" around here! 
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Some people take things too personally. When someone says no, you move on. You didn't pass judgement and it should not have been passed on you. And BTW, after reading his whole description of doting father, his response shows his true character. I hope he has no real children. I reported and blocked also, hopefully the gawds are watching.... If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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This one is definitely the king of creeps... If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Don't you just love it when someone professes to be such an in-charge adult and then turns into a 5 year old boy having a tantrum when he doesn't get his way right off the bat!! Seems to be the M.O. of MOST self-professed "doms" around here! Some of them are respectable and some of them are ummm THIS, creep... If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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A true COWARD!!!
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A true COWARD!!! If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Takes all sorts  Read...delete...move on is my advice  "A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side" Enter my Lair: spudsy1000
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Takes all sorts Read...delete...move on is my advice If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Bahhh he was already cracked, I'm sure I wasn't the first one on this site to say no thanks, only thing is he was to "fragile" to let me reply.. If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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Thanks  If it was good, its great but if it was bad then you call that experience E-4-N
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