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Your thoughts....  

blackpearl33119 54F
295 posts
6/21/2009 3:42 pm
Your thoughts....

[Can you have a sexual relationship without having an emotional relationship???

2FUNPLAY1 68M/63F

6/21/2009 5:12 pm

 On a personal note...........no I can't!! If I'm gonna have sex with a man, it's a relationship. I'm not one to bed hop.
But I have friends that can and do.


rm_TPT05 48M
31 posts
6/21/2009 8:53 pm

 Good Question...Good Questions deserve Good Answers...

Now, as a swinger, i can say that you can...the lifestyle affords you the excuse to move on after a much needed night(s) of sexual release...However, its that same lifestyle that makes me say no...I swing with a group that i'm very close to now...we've made several trips, partied hard, but look out for one another like family...now, its not the type of relationship that you're talking about, but its still a relationship, nevertheless...The last trip, i cried when everyone left, cause i knew it will be awhile, maybe never, since i'll see them again...i call several of the ladies in the group just to check on them and see how they are doing...They may have other guys, but we are still close...Not the 'I love you' relationship, but an emotional relationship...

So i guess what i'm say is that anytime you share something like sex, there's always going to be some sort of emotional relationship...even with the one night stand, you feel the detachment from that person...So you have to define how emotional you get with that sexual relationship...

That's my answer and i'm sticking to it...

Great Question though...
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PaulA69 49M
42 posts
6/22/2009 9:24 pm

 Yes and No...It depends on the person or persons. For me a relationship with a couple would be sexual. On the other hand with a female, both...


GSV 60M

6/27/2009 8:06 am

 Yes. I do all the time.
Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy,

Greg


rm_boo1267 58M

7/10/2009 10:37 am

 NO! And to be honest I don't believe I would want to! It should be something special not to be given at random without emotion. To me, it's the only personal expression of ones feelings for a person that is genuine! I will say genuine to me!


orgasmixperience 53M
1 post
7/11/2009 8:44 pm

 sure you can; people do it all of the time. It's only when this is not communicated up front that brings about problems.


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