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lets live  

69finallyfree69 55M  
11 posts
2/17/2009 2:24 pm
lets live

one of the rules i live by is; live and let live, what one chooses to do behind close doors, and as long as it is not affecting us, its their business. Now, i am totally against hurting others or getting involved. Being on this site, yes i am speaking sexually.
I myself being a recently divorced man, i have become much more aware of other divorce cases around me and when you get to the root of it sex is somewhere in there or has played some role, directly or indirectly, let me explain more before you say what am i talking about, and yes i do agree we have the pigs, the whores and whatever else in that category.
Being on this site I have come across so many respectable, frustrated gentlemen who display that they are straight on their profile but are bisexual, simply out of fear, and rightfully so. Society, although does not openly smile upon it, accepts sex between two women but frowns severly on sex between two men!
I realized i had bi tendancies after i got married and was lucky because me spouse was bi aswell and we divorced for other personal reasons not because of sexuality.
Anyway, back to my point, thus as a result of preserving machismo and avoiding the shame of facing society of being caught with a manhood in their mouthes, these gentlemen take the risk and.....'cheat'....but what do you expect.
If they, or any of us for that matter, dont excercise the desires which are churning deep within our loins, we all become frustrated, tense, angry, cheaters and who knows what else, and the end result; divorce. Now the rules change if a man runs around behind a wifes back with another woman without her consent, now that is cheating and there is no excuse for that. I know every man that runs around with a woman behind his wifes back can find every excuse plausible but i am not here to discuss that, I am discussing the fact of bisexual men.
Society needs to understand that bisexuality is not a disease, is not shameful, is not disgusting or however they want to classify it.
Society needs to become more accepting of people who are bisexual even though it is none of their business.
Yes my profile does state that I am bisexual but out there beyond my door, besides the individual(s) that i shared a private moment with i dare tell no one, why? because i share the fear that those other men do and its not fun and its not fair
Gentlemen, on a closing note, someone who asks you to be discreet, respect that request, it is hard enough for us to meet a total stranger to relieve some stress adn get a moments of pleasure, dont tarnish by telling the next person that you just jump into bed with. It happened to me and it was not a comfortable feeling at all, not fun.
Thanks for reading....

DGuy4U 53M
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3/16/2009 9:10 am

 Excellent blog. Well put.


rm_Drive178az 43M

3/21/2009 3:49 am

 WOW!! Nicely put.


lovemyboxer 54M

4/2/2009 6:19 am

 I wish i had your balls to come out and say what i am.


69finallyfree69 replies on 4/20/2009 7:23 pm:
what we are and what we do behind closed doors and the privacy of our home is no ones business, it is who we are that is important, we should not need balls to do anything in life, life is a gift to us and we should use it to our benefit and liove it to the fullest as long as we dont endanger ourselves or anyone else
you are a great person and that is what counts and what is important

longball753 71M

7/20/2010 2:31 pm

 Perfectly articulated... well done


spidey349 72M
52 posts
9/26/2011 4:43 am

 Hello line in hudson, 62 yo married male. I like to get sucked by a gut occasionally. My first sexual experience was with a male nad have enjoyed it off an n occasionally. I hear what your saying because I have to hide my wants from the world but I do enjoy it. Contavt me if you can.


playingalone55 72M
363 posts
10/28/2019 2:59 pm

 I am discreet


Mrfrogyone1 56M
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3/21/2020 4:17 am

 understandable


playingalone55 72M
363 posts
1/8/2021 8:44 am

 And I am bi.


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