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The female orgasm, yes it is possible for all females to have one.
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The female orgasm, yes it is possible for all females to have one. Some women seem to have a really hard time in reaching an orgasm during sex; that is if they are able to orgasm at all. The most common reason for this is that they don’t know their own bodies. Society has had this brilliant effect of instilling into our minds from childhood that masturbation is sinful, wrong and dirty. (I can remember my parents telling my brothers that they would go blind if caught with the willie in the hand) Well, everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion, but all common sense dictates that this couldn’t be farther from the truth. Thanks to this misconception, many people, especially women, have stopped themselves from learning their bodies, thereby reducing the chances of being able to fully enjoy sex. It is hard for many women to unlearn all that they have been taught, and they often feel that “touching themselves does not bring pleasure”. There is some truth behind that - they are not lying, they do not feel pleasure. However, this is not because there is no pleasure to be felt, just that they have been indirectly taught to not enjoy it. Getting beyond this will take time and patience, so never rush your partner. The last note has to do with your approach. Orgasms can’t be forced, and the more pressure you put on her to cum, the less likely it is to happen. Take things slow, learn techniques, experiment with them and find what works. If you start getting frustrated when you aren’t seeing results, it will show, and unfortunately make it even harder. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable - as soon as you make it too serious, it takes away from the pleasure! About Orgasms There are two major types of orgasms a women can have - clitoral and G-spot (otherwise known as vaginal orgasms). When masturbating, women usually learn to get themselves off using their clitoris. There is nothing wrong with that, but it leaves the whole world of vaginal orgasms untapped. Many women are unable to climax during sex, as they aren't familiar enough with the stimulation to enjoy it to its fullest extent. While you learn to read your partner's body signs, it never hurts to ask a question, especially if you are trying new techniques. Coitus, commonly known as vaginal sex, can be one of the clumsiest ways to stimulate a woman, if done without thought. While it does provide an atmosphere that can be highly arousing, emotionally satisfying and erotic, the degree of stimulation to the woman's clitoral area is nothing compared to masturbation or cunnilingus. One can incorporate manual stimulation to the clitoris during sex, but this is not very necessary if your woman has had vaginal orgasms in the past, and if you know how to hit the g spot correctly. No one wants to involve geometry into sex, but it is wise to know which positions stimulate the G spot the best. In order to help her achieve a vaginal orgasm, you need to make sure you are "hitting" the G-spot with each stroke. (I will cover this in another article). Many men fantasize about the myth of female ejaculation. Well, for starters, its no myth, most women should theoretically be able to have them. The key is G-spot stimulation. Some Ideas on Getting Her There: First of, I would like to remind you to relax, and not to make her orgasm the purpose behind the encounter. The more of a goal you make it; the less likely it is that it will happen. Relax and enjoy yourselves, as that is the most important part. The Grind During sex, you want to increase the pressure exerted on the woman's clitoris. This can be accomplished by rotating your hips just like when you are "grinding" on a dance floor. Try to really push against the front of her groin with the area just above the penis. Rocking back and forth or side to side is a really good way of getting started. Rule of Thumb With the woman sitting on top, the man should lie flat on his back, pelvic tilted upward, and stomach muscles tightened. You want to arch your hips upwards to improve the quality of “the Grind”; this can be achieved easily by putting a pillow under the man’s bum. He then should put his hand over the woman’s pubic region, and place his thumb on the woman’s clitoris. While the woman is riding her partner, he can simultaneously stimulate her clitoris. The Maximizer The woman lies on her back, legs tightly held together. The man lies on top, or stands/kneels, in front. Instead of being directly in line with her, the man should be at a slight diagonal. Both of her legs should be over one shoulder, or on one side, of his body; he should begin penetration. This position is designed to maximize female clitoral stimulation and is easiest to perform with the man standing or kneeling (i.e. the woman should have her legs hanging off a counter, couch or bed). T Position With the woman lying on her back, the man should lie perpendicularly (i.e., at a right angle to her, thus forming the ‘T’  , while straddling the woman’s far leg. Depending on the woman’s flexibility, this can be a great position for deep penetration, while exposing the clitoris for manual stimulation. This double stimulation is very gratifying and can often lead to the big “O” really quickly.Using Sex Toys Sex toys can be used in virtually any sexual position, and thanks to the creative people who design toys, if you can think of a toy, chances are it’s already made. The following is a summary of some of the most popular types of toys: Vibrating Clitoral Suckers This class of products works as follows: put the cup part of the toy over the clitoral area, squeeze the pump a couple times to build up some suction, and then turn on the vibrating egg, which is generally attached to the cup. The suction is great because it draws more blood to the clitoris, making it more sensitive, as well as it keeps the toy hands free. It can be used during sex to add incredible sensations, but some varieties may prove a little bulky for some positions. Regular Vibrators For those of you who are looking for something with a little more functionality, we recommend getting a regular vibrator. The can be held in place during sex to stimulate whatever you want, they can be inserted anally, and can be used on their own as well. They are available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and purposes. Vibrating Cock Rings This class of products is ingenious! The toy is basically a ring with one or more vibrating eggs attached. Simply slide it down the shaft of the penis, turn on the vibrating eggs, and voila, super pleasure for both parties. Another thing that may help is orgasmic Gels or lubes. Try Play O ... it is an unscented gel to be applied to the clitoris and surrounding area. It uses a combination of ingredients designed to stimulate, increase desire and bring intense orgasms. This product is made by Durex. KY makes another good product called Yours and Mine which is really good. They also have a product called KY Intense which is good, but a bit on the expensive. There are many different kinds on the market and you just have to give them a try.  I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!         |
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You know, I agree with you 100 percent, I did forget to put the mental part down, because it is true. I have to have my mind in the right place or it is hard to have fun. I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!
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nice synopsis---you just left out THE RABBIT
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