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Long term friendship  

ineedyounow55 65F
1425 posts
1/2/2014 7:50 pm
Long term friendship

I have been involved in a FWB relationship for the past eight years now. During those years this particular man sure has given me some very mixed messages.

I will admit that I am head over heels crazy for him, yet I feel the same way about my husband. My friend is also married, but it has not been a good one for a while now. (Yes my husband knows about him and partakes in the fun at times)

So about 10 days ago, he makes a comment to me that if he and his wife were to ever spit, he would never remarry. It just came out of the blue which I thought was odd.

We continued to chat for a while longer and he asked my why I did not play with the other men that I had played with before. I said that I found it more enjoyable to be with someone I really cared about and trusted and respected verses just fucking around. He then said that he had other women he could play with, but he felt the same way.

Then he said yes there are other women, but then he turns around and tells me that he has not been with them in years. I get so confused sometimes as to why he talks this way.

I wonder sometimes if he is in love with me and is trying to convince himself that he is not. Once when he had surgery and was somewhat high on pain meds he called and told me that he loved me, yet then he said I had been dreaming....lol

Oh forgive me, I am just kind of rambling on is on, I guess thinking out loud.
I am who I am and I am not going to change for anyone, so don't ask!
DoctorBooty 43M
6426 posts
1/2/2014 8:19 pm

 If the sex is good, and you've been seeing each other this long regularly, then I'd say he very likely does love you.


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