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Is this married men week?  

luoxana 51F  
330 posts
1/28/2010 8:53 pm
Is this married men week?

My first rant of 2010.........

Personally, I love men...I really do. However, as I have said numerous times before (either here or on my profile), I do NOT do married men. It is a choice...MY choice. Please respect it.

Now, I know it takes 2 to tango, and for the guy whose profile I seem to have not looked at until yesterday, I apologize for stringing you on. It was by no way intentional, but I remember that during the time we met, I didn't have access to look at profiles. But for some strange reason, my profile views have gone thru the roof (4600+ in the last 30 days per the ticker thing), so I can look at profiles now without much limit. However for the other guys who list themselves as single or attached....you know good and damn well, you go home to your WIFE at the end of the day. Quit misrepresenting yourselves on here!!!

From what I have been told, there are a bunch of women on this site who would prefer a married man - maybe they themselves are married, I don't know. But, as for me, I don't want a married man as a fuck buddy. I will chat with you, I would meet for coffee (did that yesterday), you need a chick to bounce ideas off of, I am your girl. If you want to fuck...keep going.

I do understand that some wives have medical issues that prevent them from sex, and I understand that you have been given permission to play. But unless your wife tells me to my face that she wants me to fuck her husband, it won't be considered. No, I don't accept IM messages, or phone calls. I want to look in her eyes and have her tell me that she wants some other woman to fuck her husband...and I still reserve the right to say "no" after all of that.

Call me a bitch, I don't care. I am not trying to fuck up my karma in case I ever decide to get married.

Peace!
Luoxana

PS, I thank all of you who have asked about my mom...things haven't changed much, but miracles do happen.

rm_musealchemy 55F
1642 posts
1/29/2010 2:31 am

 But these guys only see as far as their own desperation which led them to sign up here so they think that everyone else on here is equally as desperate and will therefore have no standards and will fuck anything and everything that asks.

Quite why married men seem to be far more deluded in this view than single guys I have no idea but maybe they think that because one woman found them appealing enoguh to get married every woman on the planet is going to be enamoured by him.


luoxana 51F  
209 posts
2/1/2010 8:59 pm

 Within the last 2 hours, I had to ban a married guy because he became verbally abusive after I told him I don't do married men. What is the deal? Ladies, I think you both hit it on the head. He actually had the nerve to get mad that I wasn't going to sleep with him after he admitted that he was married...then went on this rant about how every guy on this site is married and I am delusional...and that he should have just kept the lie up so I would fuck him...then called me loose. I told him he was a cheater and to have a nice night. LOL

I am still shaking my head at this one


DWB70 54M

5/9/2010 6:47 pm

 I would normally agree. I just hav a question what if you live so far away from your wife and your job won't allow your family to live with you.
Take me for instance, I am in the military and have no seen my wife in a year. while she says she has done nothing I know from living with her for 13 years that she couldn't be faithful when I was there why now.
So what about a person who is not think just with his dick. What about a person who is a wierd situation. Wanting to feel good even if it oral and anal and not vaginal is that wrong?
Sorry it is just a question.


luoxana 51F  
209 posts
5/10/2010 8:21 pm

 DWB70,
In your case, I understand your need to play. I just wonder since it has gotten to the point where you both are technically cheating, why not just tell her you want an open marriage? I can tell that you love her and her cheating bothers you. It sounds like you have children. If you do, I know that their happiness and security are paramount. However, coming from an adult whose parents cheated on each other, it was better for me after they divorced (when I was in 3rd grade). I got to see my parents happy with their new relationships, rather than fight and spew anger at each other. My mom told me that she and my dad became friends again after the divorce, and they were married for 13 years.

Just a thought!


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