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I gotta say this...  

LarkShield 40F
30 posts
6/1/2010 11:11 pm
I gotta say this...


I've had my fill of getting emails from people whom I've never met before, but insist on giving me, a complete stranger, their contact information.

What are you going to think of me if I make arrangements to meet you? Are you the one with the chloroform or the gun, or am I? Would you really take that sort of chance, and do you really expect me to?

The confidence displayed seems to stem from the fact I viewed their profiles. But think about this:

1. If your pic shows up on Local Sexy Swingers's front page, and I move my cursor over the page, it might glide right past your profile pic. This shows up as my having viewed your profile, whether or not I did.

2. Just because I view your profile, it doesn't necessarily mean I was attracted to what I read there.

3. If you reciprocate, and view my profile (and actually read it), you'll see that I do not come here to make arrangements for r/t meetings, especially with strangers.

4. Just because I'm on this site, and don't intend to meet anyone, remember that it's not up to you to determine who has the right to log on. When you tell me I have no business on this site, you have to already know I'm not going to delete my profile just because you can't get into my pants. I don't need your permission, and don't have to defend my actions to you.

5. To all those who have written and not given me contact information, I thank you. Your letters have been sweet, non-judgmental, and nicely worded. You are the ones who will find more friends and fun on this site than those who come in for the express purpose of trying to intimidate others.

6. To those who insist on private chat with those they've never chatted with before, you'd do better to agree to chat with them in public first, where they can observe how you treat everyone, not just the one you're trying to lure in. If you show the same courtesy and sense of fun with others, they're more likely to believe it's not just a mask you're wearing for them.

Just remember, you may not like me and want nothing more than to put me 'in my place', but I've had a lot of fun on this site, and have made a lot of friends. I'm used to better treatment, so nothing you say is going to chase me away. Get over yourself.

racer1002 78M
52 posts
6/2/2010 4:22 pm

My dear Lark, I am so sorry to read this! Like so many friends of yours here, I had no idea you received such bad treatment at the hands of Local Sexy Swingers members, this does upset me, as since I have made your on line acquaintance, I have always found you to be a very warm, welcoming, open, nonjudgemental and a real fun and beautiful Lady.,
Who? is to meet you my dear and not to like you, I have no idea, but I do know they are not worth your consideration.
It is great news that the imfamous "Panty Shanty", will once again through open its welcoming doors, Heed no one that is not an open friend, and do as you feel fit, to make the show run smooth and for you my friend to enjoy your self!!!
A tight hug from Racer/Andy.


LarkShield 40F
27 posts
6/2/2010 4:52 pm

Thanks, racer *hugs* You know you're always one of my favorites! Every woman you know is lucky to know you!


horseman639 78M
13 posts
6/3/2010 10:04 am

Why would I want in your pants. They wont fit me. Besides I am buzy making blind folds for those who really care I am also happy you determined you need to stick around. The rest of us are better for it.


LarkShield 40F
27 posts
6/3/2010 3:25 pm

    Quoting  :

*hugs*


LarkShield 40F
27 posts
6/3/2010 3:26 pm

    Quoting horseman639:
    Why would I want in your pants. They wont fit me. Besides I am buzy making blind folds for those who really care I am also happy you determined you need to stick around. The rest of us are better for it.
*perks* blindfolds?

*hugs* Thanks for the comment


DTFU4real 43M

6/5/2010 1:57 pm

-"Are you the one with the chloroform or the gun, or am I"-

Hilarious, but true!


LarkShield 40F
27 posts
6/5/2010 4:13 pm

    Quoting DTFU4real:
    -"Are you the one with the chloroform or the gun, or am I"-

    Hilarious, but true!
*grins* Reality (or potential reality) is often more humorous than fiction.


cumforme4 76M

7/25/2010 9:34 am

hi, i like your blog very much. we come here to be ourselves, to let go and have a good time. some of us respect women to much to embarase them in public but here we can take a chance and mabey find someone special or just get layed if that's all you want out of life. most men are pigs, think they are gods gift to women, and treat all women like four legged animals. the worst part is, that's what a lot of women want, most are married, and very few want to feel anything for the other person. please enjoy yourself here on this site. your young and beautiful and need to explore as much as posible. most women make all there mistakes in the bedroom and end up in a miserable marriage, cheeting and complaining that it's someone else's fault. if he's a liar and a cheet, please find out before you marry him. learn to think outside the bedroom. i'd like to apoligize if i've offended anyone, thanks, wayne.


LarkShield 40F
27 posts
7/26/2010 10:18 pm

    Quoting cumforme4:
    hi, i like your blog very much. we come here to be ourselves, to let go and have a good time. some of us respect women to much to embarase them in public but here we can take a chance and mabey find someone special or just get layed if that's all you want out of life. most men are pigs, think they are gods gift to women, and treat all women like four legged animals. the worst part is, that's what a lot of women want, most are married, and very few want to feel anything for the other person. please enjoy yourself here on this site. your young and beautiful and need to explore as much as posible. most women make all there mistakes in the bedroom and end up in a miserable marriage, cheeting and complaining that it's someone else's fault. if he's a liar and a cheet, please find out before you marry him. learn to think outside the bedroom. i'd like to apoligize if i've offended anyone, thanks, wayne.
Well put, Wayne. This should be a safe way to explore, without having to make mistakes for real. Sort of try them on for size, even.


kmygis 62M
17 posts
9/21/2010 5:27 am

Oh so linear! But so darn smart. I like that in a woman. Especially when combined with all your other, um, qualities. *grin*

When the chips are down, make no more dip.


gentleman1944 79M

11/30/2010 1:51 pm

hello my good friend (i think you are still my friend)i am glad you have stuck around and i know what some say about you are the ones who don`t know you or even try to know you. we have known each other for a few yrs now and have done some crazy things together. it is a pleasure to call you a good friend and hope the best for you.


LarkShield 40F
27 posts
12/6/2010 8:11 pm

    Quoting kmygis:
    Oh so linear! But so darn smart. I like that in a woman. Especially when combined with all your other, um, qualities. *grin*
*hugs* Thanks, kmy!


LarkShield 40F
27 posts
12/6/2010 8:12 pm

    Quoting gentleman1944:
    hello my good friend (i think you are still my friend)i am glad you have stuck around and i know what some say about you are the ones who don`t know you or even try to know you. we have known each other for a few yrs now and have done some crazy things together. it is a pleasure to call you a good friend and hope the best for you.
*hugs* You know you're one of my favorites!


mecrazyyahcrazy 46M

2/20/2011 7:14 am

from reading comments to your blog, it sounds like are a genuinely nice and interesting woman who is a divine pleasure to chat with. I can only hope to be lucky enough to enjoy that pleasure one day. Until then, hope all is well and you continue to have fun on this site.


4750atAlt 55M
40 posts
2/23/2011 2:56 am

men


rswalls1001 71M

2/23/2011 8:36 pm

Hi LarkShield,
I have never contacted you before, but have seen your picture a number of times and thought what a beautyful lady. I still think that and hope to be lucky enough to someday meet you on the street and be able to say hi and offer to buy you a cup coffee or a coke, depending on your choice. Until then, wish you the best and know your deserve it.
an unknown friend from a distance,
bob


drake_3131 45M

3/29/2011 5:48 pm

wow... knew some people were ignorant towards others, but did not know it was that bad for some. well miss lady, i know you have come to know this and i found this out myself while on this site as well... male or female... it does not matter sometimes they do not read what u have on your profile. Then there are times when they do and just assume that you are going to do what they just because your on here. So, I can understand how you feel miss lady... hopefully things have gotten better for you miss lady.


tiamat543 37M

3/31/2011 10:23 am

Hey, if you dont want to meet then that is your business. I just hope we can roleplay well together in the rooms and we can be great friends in the room. I am just ticked off that therte people out there who do no understand that people can come to this room just to have fun,.


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
5/3/2011 11:31 am

It is amazing how people will throw common sense out the window. Just for a chance to have sex. These same people probably would never stand on a Street corner and blindly hand out their phone number to strangers, will do so via the Computer. All of this is kinda a new world and to some degree I think the rules of proper behavior need to be worked out. However common sense should dictate something.


uxxx4me 51M

8/5/2011 12:54 am

Very much like your post. Being true to yourself is the best way to be. Hope all goes well in your endeavors here, and if you'd like to talk at all....leave me a post on my blog.


rm_Chardonsex 52M
110 posts
8/29/2011 6:36 am

well written, albeit a long time ago. lol How have things been for you since?


houseboatman 44M
5 posts
10/3/2011 12:05 am

You would always be a special lady for me, sweet stranger!
A respectful stranger who chatted with you once!


houseboatman 44M
5 posts
10/14/2011 2:36 am

You do fascinate me, sweet stranger!


houseboatman 44M
5 posts
10/15/2011 9:35 pm

Greetings, how are you, sweet stranger?


houseboatman 44M
5 posts
2/18/2012 3:13 am

Well said, Lark!


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