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People who agree to meet then don't show up  

ZEROCKET 51M
8 posts
4/20/2005 10:31 am

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4/11/2010 10:33 pm

People who agree to meet then don't show up


I hate to have my first blog as a bit of a bitch session, but recently I arranged on Local Sexy Swingers to meet a female member (name to be withheld out of respect for her...even though I'm questioning why...) for some adult fun. But to my dismay, she did not show up. I did arrive to the appointed meeting point a couple of minutes (yes, a couple) late, but figured that she would have waited for me. I hung around for 1/2 an hour, but still, she did not show. Now, despite several attempts to talk to her and reschedule, she does not even respond. Yes, I take responsibility for being late, but thought she would have waited 5 minutes or so to see if I showed up, and would have appreciated, upon returning home, finding a message from her saying that she couldn't make it/didn't want to make it/whatever, just so I know where it stands. Oh, and the next day on Messenger, where we had chatted previously to set up this meeting, she had posted a photo in her profile window (or whatever it's called)...which was different from how she described herself to me...not in a bad way, but different, but that just leads me to believe she wasn't serious about showing up, which I don't appreciate, b/c isn't that the reason most if not all of us are on Local Sexy Swingers? (I know that's why I'm here), or was too nervous to show up...which I completely understand. But still, her not telling me anything or even responding to me despite my attempts to talk to her...

Anyway, I would appreciate any and all feedback in this regard, and even some horror stories if they are not too gruesome...lol

Z

verydiscreet87 50M

4/20/2005 8:52 pm

I have had a couple of women do the same thing to me. We never even set up a time or date. We got to that point and when I would ask the question they would just fall off the face of the planet. Talk about getting upset, that you wasted all that time talking to someone and then they just blow you off like that. I have tried to ask the women that I talk to if they are serious about meeting and if they are cool, if not then I stop talking to them so that crap doesn't happen again.


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