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On line dating, some of those pesky things
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On line dating, some of those pesky things good morning, i hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. On-line dating is something I started about 6 years ago. I was talked into it, by more than one person that has had success, but a person has to be very diligent. I realize many consider Local Sexy Swingers an adult sex sight. I am on more than one site, and have tried some sites just for shits and giggles. This is by far my favorite sight. compared to the vanilla sites, people are up front about the sex. Of course with that being said, with on line dating, you have all the lil pesky things as well. Honesty - that person can easily get away with saying anything. it's the internet after all. We can all be who we want to be. Distance - I didn't think this was an issue at first, but it is. It seems even an hour away is too far. I travel for a living, and did not realize this, but it is a big issue. Pictures - those profile pictures are like meeting a person for the first time. They are as important as you looking your best when you go out to a stomping ground. Words - since it is a profile, these do give the person a lil preview of who you are. Conversation - you both have to be a part of it. I am sure there are more you can think of. The two women that finally convinced me to on line date, were two total strangers to me. But they must have made some sense, as I joined the ranks. One thing they said, and I agree with it from experience now is, Weed them out. 98 percent of the profiles are bullshit. 2 percent are decent. Out of those 2 percent, hopefully they are looking for the same thing. If not, you start over. Those are very daunting odds. Almost slim to none. Look at it this way. When you meet someone, if the attraction or spark is not there, it's not going to be anything, but maybe a one nighter, if that's what you want. Or, you give it another shot. One thing I do like about on line, is i usually take my time to get to know someone. by the time we meet, I know as much about them that I can know. My biggest issue with on line, is the honesty aspect. I think if you meet the old fashioned way, in person out somewhere they can't hide as much. They will live in your area or city, you may have some common friends, or stomping grounds, you may follow the sports team, etc. Can they be dishonest, of course, but not as easily as on line. I am not dissing anybody by any means, we all do what we do. I just feel, that if some were more truthful and forthcoming, outcomes would be different. Also, meeting someone in person is totally different that on line chatting or texting. That personality, comes out. That personality has alot to do with what may or may not happen. Where am I going with this, hell I don't know. On line dating can be very daunting, but I do like it. My advice, depending on what you are looking for, be diligent, take everything with a grain of salt, have an open mind, be spontaneous, and enjoy, until what you want comes along. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here...............thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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i have learned to go with what i decide at the time Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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One of the hardest aspects of this site is that people hide so much information because they don't want family, friends, or co-workers to know they are on here. With traditional dating sites, people can share more information up front. The other problem with this site is that the male/female ratio is completely out of whack. Too many men behaved like Neanderthals for way too long, and they scared away most of them women. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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It is difficult, one by one I dropped all my vanilla sites, dropped off Tinder last week. If the estimate for women is 2%, I wonder what the prospects are for so many many men, maybe .00002%? I've all but given up even trying.  Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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One of the hardest aspects of this site is that people hide so much information because they don't want family, friends, or co-workers to know they are on here. With traditional dating sites, people can share more information up front. The other problem with this site is that the male/female ratio is completely out of whack. Too many men behaved like Neanderthals for way too long, and they scared away most of them women. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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OK - why try to hide anything. In my Pro I try to lay it on the line. This is what I'm looking for: sexy willing lady etc etc & list 2 of my fav sexual positions & ask they tell me theirs. My 1s Es are usually EZ going [like me] & if they respond great -after the 3rd or 4th if she hasn't opened up about her desires I will say TY & GL. UR right other sites are rougher!
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OK - why try to hide anything. In my Pro I try to lay it on the line. This is what I'm looking for: sexy willing lady etc etc & list 2 of my fav sexual positions & ask they tell me theirs. My 1s Es are usually EZ going [like me] & if they respond great -after the 3rd or 4th if she hasn't opened up about her desires I will say TY & GL. UR right other sites are rougher! Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I still have men flirt, talk and some give me numbers every now and then. I like both ways, and again, any untruths will come out if you get involved.......thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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