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I need some sound advice on this
I need some sound advice on this Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I really could use some input here. I have had an attached man, talking to me. One of the reasons for my interest, is that he travels extensively, and I would have the opportunity to see several places I have not. He wants to fly me to his town for a meet n greet. Then go from there. But, there is always a but. We communicate on here. We have talked once on the phone, it was a land line. He wants me to make all the arrangements for our meeting and he will send the money, through the mail. I told him, I realize he is protecting himself, but it looks sketchy from my end. He could be legitimate, but there is basically no trail, if he is not. I explained my thoughts to him, we will see what he says. I have had men fly me to them, but they make all the arrangements, and I have access to them by cell and on here. There is time for him to send the money, and I can make the arrangements, but as time nears, prices change as well. What would you do, or have you done, or what would you advise. Have a great day. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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Sounds a little fishy. Are you travelling to meet him? Sounds like. Lot of red flags to me. maybe try to at least have him FaceTime or video chat with you, so that you can see that he is who he claims to be. Just opulent want you to get hurt.
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To many RED FLAGS
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Dang girl, be careful. I don't wanna see your story on Forensic Files. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Sounds a little fishy. Are you travelling to meet him? Sounds like. Lot of red flags to me. maybe try to at least have him FaceTime or video chat with you, so that you can see that he is who he claims to be. Just opulent want you to get hurt. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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To many RED FLAGS Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I think you need to tell him you're uncomfortable with this plan and ask him to come up with an alternative--one where he pays for everything. And make sure you say, "At least for this first trip." That way you sound reasonable. And then let him figure it out. Don't do anything else.
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I think you need to tell him you're uncomfortable with this plan and ask him to come up with an alternative--one where he pays for everything. And make sure you say, "At least for this first trip." That way you sound reasonable. And then let him figure it out. Don't do anything else. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Way too many warnings on here!! You make the plans, he sends you the money. What if you book a plane ticket and then he welches out on meeting you??/ Well your credit card has been charged and you are SOL. I would find someone else to start a communication with and skip this individual period- no more emails or anything. (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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Be careful. Sounds very familiar to me, and that ended poorly for me. Keep your eyes open, be ready to bail at a moments notice.
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in a PERFECT world, us men could find females locally that wanted to meet, or were interested in meeting atleast half way. That way it would be less of a financial strain if they choose to not show up. if you have hesitations- move on. There are plenty of men here that would be able to pass your anxiety test. FYI- i knew of ALOT of men in the 90s that would send a ticket to a female and then CASH THEM IN for cash and never see the guy. Thank goodness for nonrefundable tickets! ~Linc was here.~
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Way too many warnings on here!! You make the plans, he sends you the money. What if you book a plane ticket and then he welches out on meeting you??/ Well your credit card has been charged and you are SOL. I would find someone else to start a communication with and skip this individual period- no more emails or anything. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Be careful. Sounds very familiar to me, and that ended poorly for me. Keep your eyes open, be ready to bail at a moments notice. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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To many RED FLAGS
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I totally agree. That is why I posted the blog, to see if my instincts were on...thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I agree with wjb1958. Besides, in the end, even if everything went right in your favor - what would you have? Someone you never really could have - or a new partner whom is alright with cheating, has done it before, but will never do it again? Maybe all you want is some company for some minutes at at time, and then he will leave? Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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in a PERFECT world, us men could find females locally that wanted to meet, or were interested in meeting atleast half way. That way it would be less of a financial strain if they choose to not show up. if you have hesitations- move on. There are plenty of men here that would be able to pass your anxiety test. FYI- i knew of ALOT of men in the 90s that would send a ticket to a female and then CASH THEM IN for cash and never see the guy. Thank goodness for nonrefundable tickets! Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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He travels extensively. Well, he could travel his happy ass to me to meet and greet. If we connect, then go forward. Number 1, he is not trustworthy already. He is cheating. If you do it with me, you will do it to me. I think he is sketchy.
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He travels extensively. Well, he could travel his happy ass to me to meet and greet. If we connect, then go forward. Number 1, he is not trustworthy already. He is cheating. If you do it with me, you will do it to me. I think he is sketchy. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I appreciate the advice. One th8ng that won't happen, is the funds. When we talk tonight, I am going to explain to him how others have made the plane reservations......thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Great idea to have him travel here. You and al,osteoporosis everybody else.........thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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if he travels so much , why can't he make the arrangements. to fishy... time to forget it and move on
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if he travels so much , why can't he make the arrangements. to fishy... time to forget it and move on Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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