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I’m sick AND tired  

rm_clitlick4you 73M
1544 posts
3/28/2011 1:47 pm

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I’m sick AND tired


I always knew as a when I was in trouble.

If things were alright, I was called Bob (or Bobby).

If things were a little awry, I was Robert.

If I was in trouble, I was called Robert Eugene. (Yes, that's my middle name. He's such a cute baby, let's call him Eugene).

If I was REALLY in trouble...the last name was added. If I heard all three names, I came running.

I would stand in front of my mother, head bent, kicking the ground with the toe of my shoe, waiting to be scolded. Whatever it was, I knew I was guilty.

She would always start the same way..."Robert Eugene, I'm tired of...." followed by whatever the transgression was. I would be contrite, and apologetic. I would say I was sorry. She would give me a hug. She would tell me it was all right, and not to do it again. And then I would leave, no worse for the wear. Unconditional love winning out.

But wow..when I knew I was REALLY, TRULY, BEND OVER AND KISS YOUR ASS GOODBYE in trouble was when she said...
"Robert Eugene (insert last name here), I'm sick AND TIRED of...."

Holy shit. Not only was she using all three names, not only was she sick, but she was tired too. These conversations usually ended with "wait till your father gets home".

Well , I'm SICK AND TIRED of all this trauma and drama.

I'm sick and tired of the personal attacks.

If you don't like someone's blog, don't read it. If you don't like what they say or how they say it, then ignore it. Name calling and this behavior is the mark of either an idiot or a . If you don't like someone, leave them alone. You don't share a room with them. You don't live next door. Hell, you don't even have to work with them. Ignore them.

I'm sick and tired of the gang mentality.

I'm your friend so I have to join the fray. I’m their friend, so I have to be against you. Even an enemy of my enemy becomes my friend. We’re (supposed) adults here. People don’t need our help. If you see an injustice speak up, but that doesn’t mean taking sides. If someone has been offended, they can protect themselves. They don’t need your help. The flames don’t need to be fanned.

I’m sick and tired of the drama.

I’m sick and tired of the trauma.

I’m sick and tired of bloggers I enjoy reading closing shop because of the vitriol around here.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m new. I don’t know any of the players. I don’t know any of the reasons. Don’t know what caused the drama. Don’t know what caused the trauma. I’m an outsider, looking at this through the eyes of an outsider. I’m not taking sides. I’m just calling it as I see it .

Don’t Know

Don’t Care
But I’m sick and tired of it.

And wait till your father gets home.

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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roxy54sexy 61F
8914 posts
3/28/2011 2:08 pm

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rm_19harley86 74M
45446 posts
3/28/2011 2:18 pm

Hea when mama used to hollar William Dennis,,I knew I was in for an arse whipping

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rm_kelidgh 61F
15971 posts
3/28/2011 2:35 pm

The dreaded middle name .. I remember those days ...

My daughter used to be front and centre before the middle name had 2 syllables out ...

As for the drama .. it is all shaking out and the queens will be gone. One cannot build a castle on half truths and sand and expect it to stand. Even the Sphinx lost her nose ----




~ [blog kelidgh]~ I am, indeed


rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 2:38 pm

    Quoting roxy54sexy:
    Hello, well I am tired too here but it still keeps going on been like this for over two years. There will always will be drama no matter what you say or do here? I do my best to stay out of it the best I can here.
I think that is a good course of action Roxy.

I've only been doing this madness for two weeks, so i don't know anything about all of it. But it is really strange.

Thanks for stopping by.

Bob

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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gottaring 51F
15850 posts
3/28/2011 2:43 pm

I haven't witnessed what you describe, but I've heard your sentiments expressed by many others in their blogs. I agree that to lose a great blogger is a shame and a waste. I've come to appreciate the ramblings of many a madman (and madwoman) on this site. I think I enjoy them more than the pics and videos. Okay, maybe just the pics

I'd go to the mat for you, Robert Eugene. I enjoy your blog that much...

Carry on my wayward son.

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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 2:59 pm

    Quoting rm_19harley86:
    Hea when mama used to hollar William Dennis,,I knew I was in for an arse whipping
yep, that was the time to throw yourself on the mercy of the court. lol

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 3:01 pm

    Quoting gottaring:
    I haven't witnessed what you describe, but I've heard your sentiments expressed by many others in their blogs. I agree that to lose a great blogger is a shame and a waste. I've come to appreciate the ramblings of many a madman (and madwoman) on this site. I think I enjoy them more than the pics and videos. Okay, maybe just the pics

    I'd go to the mat for you, Robert Eugene. I enjoy your blog that much...

    Carry on my wayward son.
Thank you!!

That may be one of the nicest things anyone has posted to me in my 3 short weeks. You've made my day.

Like you I came to this site for one thing...and got involved in another. Now THIS is the reason I'm here.

Now all I have to do is get that damn Kansas song out of my head. lol

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 3:04 pm

    Quoting  :

yes it is. And I'm pissed because I've only been doing this for 3 weeks (well, almost) and the ones I've stumbled upon and liked are closing shop.

And then there are folks like you, that I see responding on blogs that I like, and saying good things. I try to read your blog, and it's for friends only (I'm assuming because of all the trash around here).

it's tiring...but I'm new enough to not give a damn.

Thanks for stopping by, and if a spot on your blog readership lists opens up, please put my name on the waiting list.

Bob

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 3:12 pm

    Quoting rm_kelidgh:
    The dreaded middle name .. I remember those days ...

    My daughter used to be front and centre before the middle name had 2 syllables out ...

    As for the drama .. it is all shaking out and the queens will be gone. One cannot build a castle on half truths and sand and expect it to stand. Even the Sphinx lost her nose ----


I vowed I'd never use that on any of my four sons. On the whole, I think I kept my promise. I have, in fact though, gotten sick and tired.

I sure hope the drama ends. I'm tired of it. I think that anyone that acts that way is mentally challenged and needs to just be ignored. There is nothing that can be done or said to help the matter.

Just reread a great quote by Gandhi..."no one can hurt me without my permission". I'm not going to give anyone permission to hurt me.

Bob.

P.s. Saw you post on the "you can sleep when you're dead" blog. Another fellow left-leaning, hippie radical. I love it.

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 4:01 pm

    Quoting  :

I read a LOT of various posts and bloggers. There are comments being made that are personal attacks, and I grew tired of it.

If you don't agree with what I write, and then disagree. Don't turn it into a name calling, evil episode.

As the saying goes...opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one. I just don't have to agree with it, and I don't have to fight it. I'm just saying...ignore it. Maybe it will go away.

Off my soapbox now, and back to my gentler, kinder, self.

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 4:51 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks jilly.

Is this part of the reason for the "break"?

As I mentioned to someone else...I'm not going to give permission to anyone to hurt me. They won't get me down.

have fun at lunch...

Bob

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 5:31 pm

    Quoting  :

and it's our loss that you'll never write.

Tis a shame....and you're right. Asses will always exist...it won't stop. But I can refuse to participate.

Thanks for stopping in for a spot of tea.

Bob

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/28/2011 6:18 pm

    Quoting  :

It's the circle of life.

Thanks for the invite.

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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sugar4you1980 43F
5077 posts
3/28/2011 7:18 pm

I am still terrified when I get all three names + sick AND tired I feel your pain on this whole issue.

The most important thing you can wear is the expression on your face!


rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/29/2011 3:22 am

    Quoting sugar4you1980:
    I am still terrified when I get all three names + sick AND tired I feel your pain on this whole issue.
yeah, I can wake up in night sweats...and I'm 60 years old. lol

Thanks for stopping by. Don't hold out much hope that this will all stop, but had to rant...

Bob

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/29/2011 8:17 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks, and yes...Robert Eugene. lol

I know on the drama..and I know it will always exist.

i don't mind arguments regarding content...but I do mind arguments regarding character. Pick on my ideas...but don't pick on me as a person. Pick on my actions, but don't pick on me as an individual.

Hate the sin...love the sinner.

Be well kiddo. As Gandhi stated "Nobody can hurt me without my permission", and I'm not giving one permission to hurt me.

Bob

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/29/2011 11:18 am

    Quoting  :

my father would give me to the count of 3 to run...does that count?

I don't even know who the main players are and what has sparked all of this. I see it play out through the "friends" and in the destruction of blogs I enjoy. If I were the parent, I'd take away their keyboards for a few weeks.

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/29/2011 2:48 pm

    Quoting  :

I will take that as a compliment, and move on.

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/29/2011 3:58 pm

    Quoting  :

The drama is here...and that's ok. I don't contribute either. But I do see some of the blogs I enjoy reading going away because of it...and it pisses me off. But I'm over it now.

I would imagine they "snap to" when you do that also. It's funny how that works isn't it?

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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stardust81937 87M
8340 posts
3/30/2011 2:20 pm

I'm really too old to remember my Father or Mother. Anyway, I was a middle contrary child and grew up on the East Coast in a Methodist environment that I rejected at 8.

You're a blogger Bob. You have a lot to say and say it very well. And you do a lot of writing so---

It's just a matter of time before you become somehow placed in the middle of some squabble on this site.

If we stay here long enough, it happens to all of us. You'll probably find yourself becoming unduly attached to a woman or even to a man, and then things go off into Quantum Theory, and your brain spins in a way it never has before...

This is a magical site. Things happen here that you couldn't read in any novel...It's wonderful. I hope you enjoy it to its fullest...
David..



rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/30/2011 4:17 pm

    Quoting stardust81937:
    I'm really too old to remember my Father or Mother. Anyway, I was a middle contrary child and grew up on the East Coast in a Methodist environment that I rejected at 8.

    You're a blogger Bob. You have a lot to say and say it very well. And you do a lot of writing so---

    It's just a matter of time before you become somehow placed in the middle of some squabble on this site.

    If we stay here long enough, it happens to all of us. You'll probably find yourself becoming unduly attached to a woman or even to a man, and then things go off into Quantum Theory, and your brain spins in a way it never has before...

    This is a magical site. Things happen here that you couldn't read in any novel...It's wonderful. I hope you enjoy it to its fullest...
    David..
Well David...thank you.

Thank you for stopping by. Thank you for your comments. Thank you for your praise.

I'm sure there are those that at some point will try and place me in the middle, and will tug at me to join this side or that side. The advantage is that I'm not here to find someone. I have someone...and have had them for 35 years. Don't see that changing. She puts up with me, and I her. We smile, we laugh, we live.

And yes, it is a magical site. A collection of people that makes the head spin.

But as I posted on your page...welcome home.

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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lifebegins63 60M

3/31/2011 7:51 am

No bollocking ... I shall simply start

Cheers Bob !!


rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
3/31/2011 9:07 am

    Quoting lifebegins63:
    No bollocking ... I shall simply start

    Cheers Bob !!
Thanks for stopping by.

I'm done with this. I vented...and now it's over.

On to the sunnier side of the street I think.

Bob

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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rm_clitlick4you 73M
3099 posts
4/1/2011 4:13 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks for stopping by and thanks for the advice.

I'm just here to blog. As I said, don't know and don't care.

I've learned there is drama everywhere...this place isn't unique in that area. I try to avoid it in real life, and will try and avoid it here.

I just want to write and read....

Bob(by)

Peace is my sister. wgf
And please...the name is Bob...not clit.
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creativelicense6 65F

4/3/2011 10:03 pm

I frequently see blogs referring to the drama on Local Sexy Swingers, but I have personally never encountered any of it. I guess I don't read any of the blogs where it takes place, but I really only read a few bloggers. I've had a couple of people drop by my blog and leave a comment that wasn't very nice, and I immediately hit "Block".

I'm a very emotional person and quite self-centered. I tend to rant and be my own drama. Other people's drama detracts from my ME-ness, so it has to go.

In all seriousness...DELETE and BLOCK are my best friends.


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