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Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda...
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Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda... I was supposed to meet Ray last night. The date had been stuck in my mind for weeks. I scheduled a hair appointment and a mani/pedi. I even scheduled a wax, though I knew wasn't going to sleep with him. I figured it would give me some confidence. I had class during the day, so I extended my hotel reservation for an extra day since I thought we'd be up late laughing. I covered all my bases... Except it didn't end up happening, did it? At least I found out early enough to cancel the wax and mani/pedi, lol. And it's not as though he stood me up and left me hanging...he canceled two weeks ago. Still sucks, though. Here's what I had planned to wear. I took it with me and ended up wearing it to meet a friend for dinner on Friday. I brought it because I thought maybe he'd text me...Maybe...  Sometimes I wish that he could see how disappointed I was. How excited I had been when he suggested a firm date to meet, how much effort I was willing to go through. I truly made an ass out of myself, Guys. I stapled my heart on my sleeve like a silly prepubescent girl and he didn't care. Oblivious? Maybe. Apathetic? More likely. But does it really matter? Only insofar as I feel like a Grade A idiot. I don't get it. He's told me that he finds me attractive. His top three requirements: Brains, Humor and Boobs. I mean, c'mon. I have all three of those thing in spades. When I read our text streams, even I am amazed at how witty and engaging I managed to be, given how smitten I was with him. But it wasn't enough. I wasn't enough. Again. And the fact that I was undermined by someone who claimed to be my friend just adds insult to injury. I know-- you guys will ask me why I would waste time on someone who doesn't see my good qualities? You'll chastise me for feeling badly over a man who probably didn't deserve me anyway. You'll tell me that I'm better that this. But I'm not. I'm a silly, prepubescent girl, remember? And right now, I'm gonna pout. I'll try being brave again tomorrow, y'all. Maybe. When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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You are stunning his loss! X
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GOOD
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come on istanbul.. 
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Some people are unbelievably fickle even when all their requirements are met. I wish I could jam a pickle up their fickle asses. Btw you looked very pretty and it's his loss.
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Very very very cutte...
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You're looking good, Mamita! "For a woman there is nothing more erotic than being understood." ~ Molly Haskell Read about Me Being Naughty o-o
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1 post 11/26/2015 10:53 am |
You know what, you are very special: beauty, intelligence, class, creativity, broadness of heart and mind, sincerity, oppenness......hey, you are extremely rare specimen. World needs more people like you. Sorry, the guy cancelled. All things happen for a reason. So, I am sure you will find someone better, smarter, cuter........just better in everything. YOU DESERVE IT.
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You not only have brains, humor, and boobs but also mad baking skillz! Who could resist that? I am puzzled, but then I'm usually puzzled by mens' behavior. Lick your wounds and then find someone else who will appreciate beautiful you.    
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11/25/2015 3:16 pm |
I really like your blog... besotes..
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Wow. I can't imagine cancelling on you, especially when you look like that. He ought to be the one crying. *hugs*
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His loss, I would be proud to have You on my arm as we went out for dinner. Anything worth doing is worth doing right
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Gosh your so cute G-ring Bassman
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First time on your blog. You are really beautiful lady. Sorry to hear you're having a though time. We ALL have these moments in our lives when we want someone that just doesn't seem to care. It hurts. Pouting is just another word for grief. It's healthy to grieve a loss. So, grieve then... Bounce!
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His loss for sure. Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!
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Always OK to pout... Just a little... Still stings whether you're a prepubescent girl or a bit older and wiser... The image of you in that photo... Lovely and sexy! Today's another day with new opportunities... Wishes for a great week gorgeous! Thoughts...
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Nah...don't obsess! The guy's not worthy and just because he's too dumb to realize a superb woman like you, doesn't mean you are anything less than outstanding. Of course you feel sad and done in. You are one of those people who truly expects the best in people and when they fail to produce you figure it must be something wrong with you. Its not. Take it from me...I've been there and back MANY times. Nothing wrong with you my sweet...the world has only a few great people in it and you are definitely one.
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GR, No self respecting quality single woman would get involved with a married to have a long term relationship. Likewise no self respecting single man would get involved with a married woman for a long term relationship. Real men don't want to be an emotional tampon for a married woman. But men and women play this game because it boost their egos and make them feel desirable. Some guys might even go on a few dates but will resist sexual relationship. Once the relationship becomes sexual and "normal" the thrill is gone, the dopamine high is gone and they move on. It is like having a wife. They are addicts. Like all addicts they will go for their next fix. You are a fantasy to them, reality doesn't interest them. As long as you can maintain their illusion you are good. The minute you change their narrative, attraction becomes detraction indifference and apathy ensues. You need to learn to connect with men who likes reality and want to share his reality with a quality woman. "Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .
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OMG! I can't believe it! The guy totally chickened out!!! He probably couldn't handle the pressure that he wouldn't be able to match (or in his preference probably outmatch) his company! Brains, humour and boobs! He probably says it to all the women just to make himself sound smart, but when it come to real deal, he can't handle it cause he can't compete! I'm sure he is a nice guy, but hey, many man can't deliver under pressure. I wouldn't be so hard on yourself. You did everything beautifully and admirably. Ray shmay, time to find a new hot target (beep beep beep beep beep)!
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My goodness, you are so beautiful....those big dark eyes are amazing!! So I think when we hit these moments, when we feel rejected...and as I guy, I have gone through a lot of it....I think it is good to process it and let those feelings run their course. Yes all those things apply as far as him being an ass and probably not anywhere near good enough for an amazing woman like you. But that doesn't help with the feelings of hurt and self doubt you are going through now....the good thing is they will go away and you will find that guy who connects with you on every level! Luc A story by Lucius8858
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He's just a big poopy head, and a booger head. If he can't see what a catch you are, that you'd be WILLING to spend time for and with him, then, well, he's a double big extra wide super-pooperhead! With extra super-pooper sauce, no doubt.
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You look beautiful . It is his loss. May I ask what are you finding so attractive.
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The dress looks amazing and any one should be delighted to enjoy an evening of your company. Prof10001 Swing by my blog!
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It baffles me! Just how much more did that greedy guy want?  
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I know the feeling. Not much that can be said other then it sucks when you feel that way. 
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Plenty of fish in the sea lovely woman.  Thoughts from the Garden...
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