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Have you ever?  

spiderj72 51M
5951 posts
4/12/2016 12:55 pm
Have you ever?

So have you ever just been around someone who exudes cool and confidence with little effort at all What I mean is that there is no swagger and no bragging at all. Just a sort of zen cool that happens.

I know from my sports days that there is something about confidence that just attracts people. I keep seeing it in womens profiles as well. I want confidence, must be confident etc. Do confident men just exude some secret pheromone?

Ladies you tell me. Is confidence the aphrodisiac we have all been looking for? I will counter that with acceptance. To me someone who accepts what is coming and just rolls with it is sexy too. Someone who sees flaws but accepts them. They accept your kink whether it is a big kink or a little kink. To me that is just as exciting and a turn on as someone who is totally confident in their desire to do something to me that isn't a turn on for me.

So which one is it folks? I wish I knew.

Oh yeah the nice lady from Norway who is probably a bot. I appreciate your flirt I really do. Just cant flirt back without cash and an English to Norwegian flirtionary.

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/12/2016 1:36 pm

 To me...confidence is attractive in a man. It doesn't neccassarily make me want to jump his bones right away,but it will make me take another look...lol

I consider myself pretty laid back and accepting of people for who they are, or what they like or desire..simply because I would like the same courtesy.
Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


JJLooken 56M/46F
366 posts
4/12/2016 6:29 pm

 I believe that both over lap some what. They are Laid back and confident in their being. They roll with the punches and give cool a new name. Accept you for who you are and don't try to change you.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/12/2016 8:44 pm
    Quoting GreenEyedLady_60:
    To me...confidence is attractive in a man. It doesn't neccassarily make me want to jump his bones right away,but it will make me take another look...lol

    I consider myself pretty laid back and accepting of people for who they are, or what they like or desire..simply because I would like the same courtesy.
courtesy. wow there is word that just doesn't seem to appear in real life any more. thank you for reminding me of that.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/12/2016 8:45 pm
    Quoting JJLooken:
    I believe that both over lap some what. They are Laid back and confident in their being. They roll with the punches and give cool a new name. Accept you for who you are and don't try to change you.
its funny to me to hear accept who you are when the whole world is geared to get us to try and change who we are by buying stuff we don't need. I agree that there might be some overlap though.


spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
4/13/2016 5:39 am
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that is what I was thinking based on it being the number one thing women are looking for.


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