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Demands for Pictures  

fkmehrdlng 63F
Ask me for a photo
158 posts
7/29/2012 5:16 pm
Demands for Pictures

I am a little ticked off today and want to vent. I know I will have people with many different points of view probably upset with me but here it goes.

I'm tired of the continuous requests for pictures. I am married and I will not send out pictures to random people. I prefer to exchange emails and see if there is serious interest. Then if we think this might work a quick cup of coffee with no expectations works well. In my experience most of the pictures sent to me have been from the "glory" days anyway. I do not request pics but if they are voluntarily sent to me that's fine. That doesn't mean I am under obligation to reciprocate.

I had a man on here write to me expressing interest. He had body pics on his profile but not face pics. He also stated in his profile that he does not send out pics because of his occupation. I was fine with that. So I wrote him back. I also explained to him that I too do not send out pics. He wrote back that unless I sent him a picture immediately that he wanted no further contact with me. Needless to say, I was totally fine with no further contact. I blocked the jerk.

Comments?

helen_damnation 61F  
2487 posts
7/29/2012 5:24 pm

 You did the right thing. And he is a jerk.
I am the only Me you get.


wolfin30 66M
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7/29/2012 6:06 pm

 Picture, or no picture if don't like what you have to say I could care less even if you look like a model. And this is the perfect place for married people, it's the single people that spend too much time on this asswipe of a site


soulseeker3220 72M
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7/30/2012 8:37 pm

 I totally understand what you are saying. I dont have pictures of me here for the same reason as you do. And as for the way you meet someone, that is what I would want too.
So from my point of view, you are just doing what you need to do to CYA!


Someoneinutah 59F
4599 posts
8/1/2012 6:00 pm
    Quoting wolfin30:
    Picture, or no picture if don't like what you have to say I could care less even if you look like a model. And this is the perfect place for married people, it's the single people that spend too much time on this asswipe of a site
Pardon me.. The sight is called Local Sexy Swingers - not married only and looking,... Your profile say's your divorced.. How does that NOT make you single????

(don't mean to hijack your post - just a single girl wondering wtf you mean by - single people that spend too much time on this asswipe of a site

Star light, Star Bright, First star I see tonight, I wish I may, I wish I might, have this wish I wish tonight: Find me the man who when he sees me, his heart fills with joy, a man who wants to tell me about his day, a man who will text me just say, Hi - I was thinking about you, a man who knows I make his life better by being a part of it.


rm_WANT2U53 68M
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2 posts
8/2/2012 1:03 pm

 how about a cup of coffee some time?


ultrdwarrior 71M
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83 posts
8/3/2012 6:39 am

 You have the correct approach for this site, whether married or single. To many pics have been hijacked and used on other sites without the acct holders blessings. As for blocking the guy that wanted the pic or else...."GOOD FOR YOU!!!" Guys like that make it rough on the rest of men onn this site.


looktohavefun64 54M
62 posts
10/1/2012 4:22 pm

 i no im in the same boat


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