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No Drama? The Truth about Cats and Dogs
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No Drama? The Truth about Cats and Dogs I know that some people are not telling the facts regarding the temporary banning of an owner of a room and the permanent banning of his main moderator. I am writing this so that everyone knows the truth. I have e:mails to back up what I say here. What these two people did, knowingly, jeopardized my health, safety and well-being. Despite many attempts by many members here, they remain active members. On approximately Dec. 8, 2011, I went to a group that was new to me (I will call this group JF, tho that is not it's real name), to check on the welfare of a friend I had not heard from. Once I saw he was fine, I un-joined the group. I sent this friend an e:mail on Local Sexy Swingers, letting him know why i had joined, then un-joined the group: to give him privacy. For two weeks, life on Local Sexy Swingers went on as usual. Unknown to me, during those two weeks, a friend of mine also visited this new group and chatted casually with a female I will call SA. SA was an acquaintence of his (and mine), not only from my own group but also another group we had all belonged to together. They chatted on several occasions during those two weeks. Two weeks after I joined, then un-joined JF, SA decided to accept a month-old invitation from the owner of my group to join his network. We all knew each other on a casual basis. That very night that SA accepted the invite, is when the drama began. And all hell broke loose. I received an e:mail from the main mod of JF. I will call her O4. This e:mail simply said 'Now I am pissed'. I recognized her name from that one visit to JF. I responded, asked her why was she pissed and why was she letting me know as I did not even know her? O4 accused me of being a fake troll because I had joined, then un-joined her group (two weeks prior) and now SA had accepted a friend invite from the co-owner of my room. I explained to O4 why I joined and un-joined JF. I told her no one was a troll, invited her to talk to the friend I had checked on, who was a member of her group. She continued her accusations...loud, clear and abusive, mail after mail. She threatened to destroy my group and destroy the network of the co-owner of my room, the person SA had accepted the invite from. O4 was also sending a similar barrage of accusing, threatening e:mails to the co-owner of my room as well as to the friend that had chatted with SA in JF. I received and responded to six e:mails from O4. Each of my responses were polite but firm in asking her to stop the accusations and harrasing e:mails. She continued to send me e:mails, for a total of 19 in a 15 hour period of time; after six, she blocked me from being able to respond. I sent an e:mail to SA and to the friend who was a member of JF, asking them both to talk to O4, ask her to back off, tell her that no one was a troll. Both of these people knew myself, the co-owner of my room and the friend that had happened to chat with SA on a few occasions in JF. I asked my friend to share the e:mail I had sent him, explaining why I had joined, then un-joined JF. SA shared this e:mail from me with O4 and the owner of JF, C2 (not his real handle) but made no effort to stop the abuse. In fact, she un-joined my group, supported O4's actions and claimed she had no idea how all the drama began. On several occasions, she blamed this friend she had casually visited with for all the problems. I have no idea if my friend followed through on my request to share that e:mail with them. I was also receiving e:mails from the owner of JF, C2. C2's first two e:mails seemed to indicate he was more willing to listen to reason. And this is where I made my mistake. In an effort to show C2 I was a regular, normal human being, I sent him a face pic. I told him not to give the picture to anyone due to a stalker problem I had a few months ago. I explained this stalker was in jail but he'd told police he had friends on Local Sexy Swingers who were looking for me...which was why I did not have a face pic on my profile. My trust was grossly misplaced. C2 immediately gave my pic to O4, who immediately turned that pic into bling. C2 then sent the blinged pic to the co-owner of my group...and who knows who else he sent it to. Not knowing who else C2 and O4 had sent that unauthorized, blinged pic to, knowingly jeopardizing my safety, I had no choice but to call Local Sexy Swingers to report not only the string of harrassing e:mails from O4 and now from C2 (9 e:mails in a 10 hour period) but also reported their decision to jeopardize my safety on Local Sexy Swingers. The co-owner of my group and the friend that had chatted with SA a few times in JF also called Local Sexy Swingers, also very concerned for my safety. Both C2 and O4 were removed for abuse. For a few hours. O4 was reinstated within a few hours. She immediately posted the unauthorized, blinged pic of me in an existing thread in JF and she created a new thread and posted the same blinged pic in the new thread. Then O4 went to my group and created a thread, titled 'Fake Trolls', posted the blinged pic of me in the thread, then locked the thread so neither myself nor the group's co-owner could delete the thread. O4 also continued to harrass other people in another group, involving them in all this drama she had created. So, once again, the three of us got on the phone to Local Sexy Swingers. This was Christmas Eve day. Eventually, Local Sexy Swingers was able to remove the thread from my group and removed the two threads on JF with the unauthorized blinged pic. And O4 was removed for abuse. She remains banned at this time. O4 is not gone from Local Sexy Swingers however. She remains just as active in JF, chatting and creating bling as she always has. They blame everyone else for all this trouble, including the one person who casually chatted with SA a few times in JF, which is why I am writing this blog. So that people will know. No one made SA join the network of the co-owner of my room. That was her choice and her choice alone. As I've said above, this invite was over a month old and had nothing at all to do with the recent visits to JF by my friend. O4 was removed for abuse because she chose to continue her harrassment, her threats and to use an unauthorized, blinged picture that she knew could jeopardize my safety. She was asked many times, politely, to back off. It was her decision to continue. C2 was temporarily removed for abuse because he chose to disregard my request not to show my pic to anyone else, knowing my safety was at risk. Fortunately, for the last week at least, O4 and C2 have chosen to comply with all our requests to leave us alone. Finally. Perhaps now we can all get back to just having fun. That's what this site is supposed to be all about, right? |
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Ummm..did these people ever graduate from high school...on a mentality level? Glad to hear they are leaving you alone now but wow..now I see why you need breaks from this place. Isn't it funny what kind of drama jealousy can create. Now you know why I have few friends on Local Sexy Swingers that I keep as close as you. These are the kind of people that destroy chat groups and make this no fun for good people like you, me..and others like us!
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