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What your choices in friends says about you
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What your choices in friends says about you This is all my opinion of course...just me rambling on a cold, rainy Friday afternoon... I have made some really good, loyal, devoted friends on Local Sexy Swingers...our love and care for each other is huge...and has nothing to do with sex. Oh yeah, we've enjoyed cyber sex many times and it was absolutely hot and satisfying for each of us. And for a lot of people, that's all you need and you know, I'm cool with that. But for some of us, you need a little more. Respect. You get to know someone enough that you respect them as a human being...and it just makes the sex even hotter...the friendship even deeper. You know they don't lie about the things you talk to them about. (they really don't like anchovies on their pizza and they really do like using silk scarves to tie you up) You know they don't cheat the system...they've paid for their silver or gold membership out of their own, shallow pockets. That confirm id checkmark on their profile is there because they did submit their id....no one added them to their confirm id account so they could get that checkmark. They don't start rumors about you behind your back, tell false stories about you behind your back. They don't laugh about you in one room while being friendly to your face in another. They don't pass on to their friends private e:mails you've sent them without your permission...private e:mails are private. And they don't add a sarcastic, mean remark to that e:mail before forwarding it on to their friend so the friend can then join in on the joke (kind of goes with laughing at you behind your back) They stick by you, thick or thin. You get wrongly banned from a room, they leave that room in support for you. When another Local Sexy Swingers member hurts your friend, you feel their pain and want to punch that other member's lights out. But, the flip side of being a friend in this instance, and perhaps the hardest part, is letting your friend deal with it how he or she needs to, even if you don't agree with their process. You must love them enough and respect them enough to let them do it their way. Your friends are on the phone to Local Sexy Swingers on Christmas Eve day, for hours, when your safety has been jeopardized by other Local Sexy Swingers members. You admit your mistakes to your friends...no matter how hard that is...knowing, as your friend, they will wrap their arms around you, hug you and say i understand, let's move on. They will try to take blame for you...even though you don't want them to. I know...I know...Local Sexy Swingers is just a sex site  Been told that many times. And, like I said, if that's what you want, more power to you. But the fact that the friends I've made here on Local Sexy Swingers would do what they've done for me while here....says to me....I'm worth it. To them, I am worth it. And that's the greatest gift you can give a person. And they know I feel the same way about them. Now...who's up for a naked, no hands, jello game of tag, huh?  ps almost forgot A friend is someone who stands by you, even when others are calling you a fake...(especially funny when that someone who calls you a fake, then cohorts with verified fakes lol) |
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Falls in the jello, picks up a bowl, scoops in some jello and adds whip cream and a cherry...to share with you sens. Then I give you a jello massage Hugs hun. You ARE worth it, and I'm proud to be your friend. When the chips are down, make no more dip. 
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Even though this is a "sex site", it doesn't give people the right to act like you have described people who are not such a good friend to be. Sadly, there are many games played here in sex land. I support you in every way...I think you know that I consider you a great friend...and that has nothing to do with sex but everything to do with how wonderful of a friend you have been to me!
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