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Cheating in cuckolding  

evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
1582 posts
12/8/2012 1:22 pm

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12/9/2012 8:19 am
Cheating in cuckolding

We recently got an email from a couple who was exploring the idea of cuckolding within their marriage.
The writer inquired about cheating, and asked if my wife ever cheated on me with another lover?

Flat out, no.

That’s not the purpose of cuckolding. Whether the email was genuine, or simply someone trying to test a fantasy, cheating isn’t a part of cuckolding. Cheating is associated through the internet and used to drive fantasies of wives with uncontrollable sex drives who fuck anyone and everyone.
Real cuckolding couples don’t partake in cheating simply because it’s a lifestyle that permits sex with whom (ever) she wants to have it with.
So, in theory, there is no need to cheat.

It’s beyond me why anyone would want their spouse to cheat on them.
Shared wife -evergreenstatewife
evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
2274 posts
12/9/2012 8:17 am
    Quoting daveroswell:
    I think Gibbs199 hit it, too. To me, cheating is when a party does something without the permission of the other. It all depends on ground rules. If the ground rules are that one of the people can fool around, and the other party is aware of it, that's not what I consider cheating.

    Your email person sounds like they want or need a little humiliation as part of the idea. The idea, for them, is to be helpless to the process, I think.
They really didn't get into the specifics of knowing or not. But I do agree with you on the concept of knowing, which really defuses the idea of 'cheating.'
I would give the term cheating not knowing, but permission to play and seek a lover is consensual, and therefore open, which in my opinion really isn't cheating.

Thanks so much for commenting!
Shared wife -evergreenstatewife


daveroswell 55M
4567 posts
12/8/2012 9:54 pm

 I think Gibbs199 hit it, too. To me, cheating is when a party does something without the permission of the other. It all depends on ground rules. If the ground rules are that one of the people can fool around, and the other party is aware of it, that's not what I consider cheating.

Your email person sounds like they want or need a little humiliation as part of the idea. The idea, for them, is to be helpless to the process, I think.


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
12/8/2012 5:31 pm
    Quoting evergrnstatewife:
    The over and short is, the female within the relationship has sex with other men, while the man remains faithful. There are no secrets or deceit, she has extra-martial affairs with her spouses knowledge, and support.
Oh Ok thanks for explaining that to me. I learned some thing today.
This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








rm_gibbs199 37M
30 posts
12/8/2012 2:39 pm

 its not cheating if both parties are mutually agreeing to the terms


evergrnstatewife 53M/63F
2274 posts
12/8/2012 2:23 pm
    Quoting mflater1:
    I don't know what cuckolding is

    I just know the ex cheated on me tho.
The over and short is, the female within the relationship has sex with other men, while the man remains faithful. There are no secrets or deceit, she has extra-martial affairs with her spouses knowledge, and support.
Shared wife -evergreenstatewife


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
12/8/2012 1:34 pm

 I don't know what cuckolding is

I just know the ex cheated on me tho.
This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








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