Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
Reset Password
Reset Link Sent
Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
| Blogs > bandit5_0 > The Bandit's Thefts |
For those that are having a hard time meeting someone on here......
|
For those that are having a hard time meeting someone on here...... Here's some loose statistical info based on my experiences: -About 75% of the profiles I send messages to NEVER READ them -Of the remaining 25%, about another 10% don't reply -Of the 15% that do reply less than half move to email or phone convo -Another 2.5% that do never end up in a meet for many different reasons That leaves just 5%. One reason I use the VIP feature is because I can attach a read receipt as well as go to the top of the recipient's inbox (bypassing any message filters she may have set). It helps me know who the players are. Being able to send unlimited flowers certainly helps too. I will say this: IT'S ALL ABOUT THE FACE TO FACE MEET -About two thirds of the people I meet I end up playing with. Of the remaining third, I'm usually the one who changes my mind. Less than a handful have changed their mind when I was still interested. -About half of my meets required me to travel -This doesn't include people I met at group M&G's or swing parties I've been invited to since I've joined this site. I won't throw out raw numbers, but there isn't a week where I don't meet someone new at the 15% level. Considering I'm an unattached, straight Black male who lives in the deep South and not open to every type of play situation I feel like I get my share on here. However, I KNOW there are other guys out there that do better! I'm not referring to couples, gay/bi males, or single females. I would think people in those demographics would fare better at getting meets. So if you feel disappointed, know that it's quite difficult to get a meet from here in the first place. Agree or disagree? Comments are welcome 
|
|||
|
I agree with your statistics! I almost wonder if there are some "plants" on here, because many times I will send an email and not get a response. It may not seem weird at first, but I hear all the time from men who rarely get emails. I don't send a lot, but most of the time I get responses back. I wonder if some go to people who just are no longer on Local Sexy Swingers anymore. So many just instantly want my phone number, but I don't give it out unless I have actually seen the person on web cam. I want to talk to them and hear their voice before I actually give my number out. It worries me a little that with a phone number, they can find out where you live, who you are, who your family is, etc. That is a little scary to me, but some actually get mad when I say no. I have met up with a few on here, and for the most part have enjoyed the time. I have had a couple of times where the person just isn't what I wanted, and I have politely shut it down! More times than any the biggest reason why I don't is travel/distance. I live in a small area 60 miles from anywhere, and with my schedule at my jobs, I just can't meet with other's schedules. I have several people who I have kept in contact with for years (I have been on off & on since 2005, and I consider them my friends. A couple have actually married and have other lives. Some are there just for the FWB thing. I have also met a few where we had a wonderful time, but it just wasn't as outstanding as I wanted and I never go back. I think I am always hoping that I meet the one who will settle me down and be my soul mate. You can always dream, and while dreaming, I can play.
|
Become a member to create a blog
