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Attraction
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Attraction In my musings and thoughts I have wondered why we are attracted to one or the other person. One sex or the other, or both. Why and what turns me on or off about each of them. Lets start with the definitions I grew up with. I only asked this question once as a adolescent as my father would have put me into next year if I keep at it. So I asked once. What is the difference between bi sexual and gay? At the time the word was queer and was in vogue. The answer was: "If you suck cock and like getting fucked up the ass you are queer." According to father knows best there is no deferential between the two or any shade of gray. You are just preverted and sick and should be put down like a sick animal. Move forward to today. The definition I hear is that gay is if you are attracted to men pretty much exclusively as is lesbian is attracted to women. Bi sexual is you like both sexes non exclusive. And of corse hetro sexual is well, hetro sexual. CD's and trans women tranvistites are in a different league all their own. All these different ilks thus the rainbow effect. To me the best definition I have ever herd was gays and lesbians are mostly exclusive to each others gender. Bi sexual is one that is attracted to the person not their gender. As for me, and I have said this before; I love women and I love and absolutely adore transexuals. There are some smooth shaved skin males that do turn me on. Its rare but I can not ignore that desire completely. It all comes down to the person and how you as a person relate to them. Despite societies morals there is no right or wrong. There just is. The caveat to this as is with all settings is how you act or your decorum. I must confess I do get turned on by the feel of shaved smooth bare skin on skin. There is just something about it that lights me up. Of corse being sparked and connected by your partner is paramount to that end. It is at best a difficult and delicate dance that intimacy weaves. This is further amplified when there are more than two people. It is an exponential multiplier with each additional person. Getting and being comfortable with your partner or partners can almost be as much fun as the sex that follows, all most. When you get to know a little something about the other person you develop sort of sixth sense. It can make it a little easier to second guess their wants, needs, and desires thus heightening your encounter. Of corse your reactions will get better with every encounter you have with your partner. With some this sixth sense can almost become scary where you find them ands you responding before you ask. Granted, there are times that guttural animal intercourse can be a lot of fun. Drop trowel chow, pow, and wow. But getting intimate and and learning something about your partner offers another facet to the equation of love making. Co conspirators of attraction. The number one motivator to attraction next to the fire in you eyes is anticipation. All your being is heightened. Every nerve is excited to the max. All the thoughts of fanciful illusions are at play right up to the moment you touch. That touch is the reality of the moment. It is either what your fantasies are or it is not. Usually it is not as you fantasize and some times it far and above what you though it would be. That is always a nice surprise. If your partner is tuned into you it is guaranteed to be good. If you can be tuned into your partner well then something special will happen between you both. Houston, we have lift off. Silence. Turning down the volume on your head chatter. Do this one thing and you will hear. You will hear your partners call. Their desires will be spoken. Their dislikes will be heard. Being still in the moment. Not the past, not the future but now. Enjoying what is. Right at this moment. The silence is deffing. To some people silence hurts their ears. For them they must medicate with many things to do and or lots of sounds all at once. To others it is a respite from the grind and the silence is an island of calm to regenerate your spirt. Touch. The sense of touch upon the skin is at times underrated. For it can be a multiplier of the sublime if employed deftly. A way of sending notes of passion to the nerve endings. Stillness. Being still in the moment. Allowing the moment to be. Stillness goes hand in hand with Silence. They work together as any good partnership should. |
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In my life I've been attracted to and had sex with men and women. For a while, in my twenties I dated women almost exclusively with the occasional sexual encounter with a man. I discovered that although sex with women was great, I preferred being another man's lover. It just seemed more satisfying with a cock in my mouth or in my butt. It's intense and fulfilling. Women a fun. But, I just want sex. They usually want more, and I don't fault them. I've been with str8 men, gay men and bi men. Sometimes I dress up, sometimes just naked. So, I guess, based on my attraction, I'm gay. whorny submissive cockwhore. i like my dates go like this: we meet. i get on my knees, i pull down your pants and start sucking your balls and cock. deepthroat, hot lips for your cock. also luv bending over {_o_}. desire 2 or more cocks at a time for suck and fuck sessions. i want your cock ...
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