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To Domme or not  

justchristine4u 55T
295 posts
6/1/2017 6:04 am
To Domme or not


Hi, I am so torn. I prefer being a sub as I love going into that weird sub space place in my head which is brought about by the thoughtful application of discipline and/or bondage. I simply start behaving like this ultra compliant sex doll.

Of course, I was trained as a Domina also and oddly enough, I am really good at it. That might be because having been a sub and having been subjected to all sorts of discipline, I guess I know what works and what doesn't. I think having felt the whip makes me pretty careful about how I apply it. After all, if someone is offering their submission, its a gift to be treasured and appreciated. There wouldn't be any Dom/Dommes without subs, would there?

Since I am not sure anyone ever reads these, I guess I am just musing though it would have been fun to see how many people think I should be a sub or a Domina.

Yours for kinky, sexy fun!

Christine

nothuge2012 65M
144 posts
6/1/2017 6:15 am

As a sub guy, I would love to have you as a Domina. You are very sexy.

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My favorite way to serve my Mistress....on my knees with my mouth full.


Breastlover48 63M
145 posts
6/1/2017 6:19 am

I can't say that I never thought of that at some time or other. What there is one thing I do know and that is when you make a connection with someone there nothing you wouldn't try to do for them. It is the friendship and sometimes more that you feel you can freely be yourself. If you are confident in who you are you can do anything after all it only matters that you believe.


JPK7777 45F

6/1/2017 6:36 am

Perhaps you are a 'switch' . Sometimes you need to let your 'Domina' side loose.
However, I think it depends on who you are attracted to and what they need. There are a lot of dominant men /alpha males who need to be dominated from time to time. A good sub gives her man what he needs


JonClubFemme 66M
903 posts
6/7/2017 1:22 am

You have an amazing insight into all of this!


DDreams524 71M

6/15/2017 7:56 pm

Prefer you as a sub and have me get you to purr, purr and purr.


akrfc73 56M  
27 posts
7/1/2017 7:40 am

Thinking you should be a switch
When the mood strikes you or the person wants you one way you are able.
Never put yourself in a corner


Hrny593 64M  
6 posts
7/11/2017 5:54 am

Mmmm, very sexy you are. As far as being "something", I say be what you feel comfortable with, with each particular person, at that particular time. I could see obeying your every wish and command one night, but bringing you to the verge of tears and making you totally dependent on me another night... that's the nice thing about it...flexibility...you don't HAVE TO BE anything! Why box yourself in? Be what feels right at the time. As long as it feels good.


SirPeterStone 67M
159 posts
2/16/2018 10:46 pm

Women who have subbed or are subs often make the best Dommes. They know the feeling of sub space and know how to help other subs to get there too.

Sometimes the most famous Dommes I have met and talked to many over my years in the NYC scene. Many sub to their female partners/wives. But some are Domme in public and sub to their men/husbands in private.


brutice69 43M

8/7/2018 6:26 am

all 4 it control me dominate baby


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