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Common decency and manners  

WLDPONY3 54M
3 posts
4/26/2014 12:53 am
Common decency and manners

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sensualsatiation 114F
4789 posts
4/26/2014 1:45 am

I can't speak for all women nor whom you refer in your post, I can tell you that sometimes it's days before I return a fellas message and only because I'm involved in reading blogs, figuring out the site or where I need go to find information or even composing a blog post. There are multitude of reasons. I try to be understanding of the male experience here... The fact a man sends seemingly endless messages and receives only a few replies in comparison. You wrote a blog post that is quite honest in expression of your thoughts/feelings so I feel it's likely you've also written more than a sentence long message to the receiver. How many times do you say hello to a woman during the course of your day? Just a smile to someone who captures your eye or flirts your way? Do they always respond in kind? It's a cap shoot sometimes. Are you aware this site advertises to men one way (guarantee of finding girls who want fucked) and still another to women (guarantee of finding men who are looking for women)? That in itself pits the sexes against one another, yes? As a man, I'm sure you've been hit with many offers to upgrade so as to increase your chances of "scoring"! I'm sorry the owners and ad people create this type of environment. Maybe placing some of your ire their way will produce changes... Especially if men get together in numbers and state your dissatisfaction to those creating a hostile environment. Just my 3 cents worth. Best of luck in future.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/26/2014 5:15 am

"I make a point to be respectful and polite" - that's what you say. Then you go and add a fuck you in bold. That's just so classy.

It's guys like you who are the reason so many women here don't reply to emails. You have a whiny profile, complaining about how nobody responds to your emails but you fail to realize that you are one of a gajillion men on here. Between your angry profile and your lack of a picture, why would any woman reply to an email from you when she probably has one or two others from men who have pictures and don't have a profile that hints that you'll flip out if she says no.

Every single woman on here has, at one time, responded to a nice friendly email, stating that she appreciates the interest but for whatever reason, isn't interested in return. Every single woman on here has, at one time, received a response back, at best questioning her selection criteria, at worst calling her vile names for simply saying no thank you. After a few of those, most women won't bother replying to anyone but a man they actually wish to meet. One who doesn't raise multiple red flags.

Now you know why you don't get a response to your email... stop stalking people around the site, if you read any blogs, you'd know that the site shows people as signed in for LONG after they've signed out and if people use their mobile to access the site, it never logs them off here.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
4/26/2014 10:54 am

Well said ladies. Thank you!


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