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Blogs > Justaguy65775 > The Zany Life of Justaguy

At a fork in the road.....  

Justaguy65775 50M
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5/15/2014 10:23 pm
At a fork in the road.....

It was brought to my attention tonight that both my thoughts and posts in group and my profile in general are fairly negative and/or put forth an image that maybe off putting to the very women that I am trying to attract. It was an epihphany of sorts as I just saw it as me being honest and up front rather than negative but I understood their veiwpoint and am glad for their candor. It is one of the great things about this site and the group that I am so glad to be a part of.

So now I stand at this fork in the road. I have changed my profile to not sound like I am some desperate sex deprived maniac, just desperate, sex deprived, and a maniac but all seperate now! In all seriousness, I had to take a long look at myself and what exactly it is that I want out of my time here. Mindless sex, replacement for a neglectful wife, friendships- and in the end I found a part of myself that had been languishing in the dark recesses of my psyche for too long. A man with a zest for life, a lover of the simple things like cool breezes and evening walks holding hands with someone you care about, and most importantly someone who not only has a lot to give and offer to another but who deserves the same.

For far too long I have beat myself down and minimized that part of me because of my situation. I know change does not happen instantly but the choice to change can have instant effects. A smile where there once was none. Breathing that is no longer labored. Going from it being a glass half empty kind of day to a glass half full one. No longer looking at my day dreading what is to come but seeing a future full with possibilities.

This self-realization would not have been possible with out people caring enough about another to be open, honest, and truthful. For someone in my situation, that is an amazing gift. I do not think those two ladies truly know the kindness they did me and I will forever be grateful to them. Time to get moving down this new path before me- scared, excited but oh so ready to get this show on the road.

Until next time my friends....
One day at a time,

Justaguy65775

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