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What I hate about porn  

Explore_w_me 72M
3 posts
5/6/2014 6:27 pm
What I hate about porn


I think the representation of people enjoying each other lustfully in any way is a healthy thing as long as there isn't anyone victimized by it. Still, if I had a who was at that becoming-sexual age, I'd want to say something to him like:

If you want to look at porn because it gets you off, , that's fine, but PLEASE try not to learn anything from it about pleasing a woman"! Why? Where do I start...

The positions are done for camera angles and viewing, not for pleasure. A woman generally does NOT enjoy holding her leg straight up in the air for a half hour while lying on her side and getting drilled from behind.

Cunnilingus? Oh please. running your tongue up and down and up and down and...is not oral pleasure. Vary it. Suck it. Respond to the woman's pleasure. You're not a trumpeter flutter tonguing The Helena Polka.

Tit fucking? I've met a few women who are into it, but your odds are 90% plus she's thinking about what she needs to grab at the store while you're using her like a Fleshlight. On the other hand, you could try rubbing the head of your cock, hard or soft, up and down her slit and on her clit. Not only do many women LOVE this feeling, I'm often asked why "men" won't do it? I don't know. I'm not "men", just a man -- who will.

ATM: Really? Have you EVER met a woman who wanted you to pull you cock out of her ass and stick it into her mouth? Try it with your finger and see how much you want to repeat it. Leave the atm at the bank.

Cum on her face? Not only is this only fun if she has a rare kink where she wants it (then by all means, let 'er blow), but it's a dandy way to give somebody who has just given you the gift of her body a nasty eye infection in return.

Now, let's talk about real women and not ass-to-mouth Barbie...

I happe to find the hottest porn is made by amateurs, by women who look like the women I actually meet, women often older and often larger. Now for these vids, I have a special hatred.

Her tits are not for juggling. What's this nonsense of slapping them from the bottom to make them bounce? I'd like to see her do that to your scrotum. It's NOT a turn-on. Neither is grabbing them like the crane at the junkyard grabs old cars, digging that giant claw into them. Also, if you're more than 18 months old, don't suck on the nipples like you're going to get dinner. There are erotic ways to touch a woman's breast. Some of them are pretty, um, vigorous, but don't treat her like a piece of gym equipment.

Now, about ass slapping...unless it's a kinky scene or she specifically requested it, you're not turning me on. Rub it; kiss it; caress it; fondle it; worship it. If she wants you to, stick your cock in it. But save the slapping for when you want to make your gallop.

LARGE WOMEN ARE NOT A JOKE. I can find an extremely large woman extremely sexy - depending on the woman, of course. Don't film a scene with some 's ass who can't even get hard for her and spends 15 minutes pushing rope. Not sexy. Don't make a joke of the scene with the setting or the costumes. DO NOT, under ANY circumstances make food play part of fucking a fat woman. Any woman who will give you her body deserves respect. Go fuck a jelly donut.

I've come to the overall conclusion that most of the guys in online porn would have no idea how to give a woman pleasure and it's a good thing their on-camera partner is getting paid. So, as I said above, watch it, stroke it, et some relief. Just don't learn anything from it. Learn from your partners -- they actually DO know what they like!

John73401 73M/73F
15 posts
5/6/2014 7:49 pm

I have never met a woman that didn't like her ass slapped and i do like my balls slapped just not too hard.


Msboobsy 70F
5972 posts
5/10/2014 2:32 pm

Very good post. I was just watching some amateur porn myself. I love your ATM comment and the cum on her face. But I do happen to like to have my ass smacked, not beaten but smacked is nice.


intakablue 56F
189 posts
5/11/2014 5:19 pm

I'm interested to read this, actually. I just put up a post on how porn seems to have influenced our sexual behavior over the last 15 years or so... I might have had even more fuel had I read this first! So much to say! And so much of it rings true!

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