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kzoopair 73M/71F
8610 posts
4/11/2016 3:43 pm
Come one, cum all!

Lots of us have seen the movie “When Harry Met Sally”. It was written by Nora Ephron, and it’s really good Nora Ephron. The scene that’s tailor made to carve a permanent place in our memories is when Meg Ryan proved she could fake an orgasm in a crowded restaurant. It was scarily realistic and hilarious. I told my wife that I figured pretty much any woman could do this, probably had it memorized, in fact, and men wouldn’t know where to begin. She agreed. But could you describe an orgasm? Could you write or say in words how an orgasm feels? From arousal to climax to the after sex relaxation, could you articulate how it actually feels? Metaphor allows us to say what a thing is like, to compare it to another, not the same, but a similar thing.

I’m interested in how both men and women describe their orgasms. Not just “It feels good.” but how it really feels to you. I confess, I’ve had difficulty putting it into words. I’m sort of stuck at “It feels good” myself. It isn't an easy thing to do, I think. So let me hear it, if you will, males and females alike. You can answer here in this post, or in my private post, or in a message. But I want to hear you testify! What does it feel like when you come?

And then say "Amen, brother".




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tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
4/11/2016 3:59 pm

This could be interesting... I will have to think about it.

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HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
4/11/2016 4:05 pm

it feels like bacon tastes


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 4:08 pm

    Quoting tickles4us:
    This could be interesting... I will have to think about it.
Take your time. I thinks it's a hard thing to do.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 4:09 pm

That's great! Ha hahahaha! Ha! I love it!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 4:34 pm

    Quoting oral4ya765:
    I have heard people say a sneeze is the closest thing to the feeling of an orgasm... however, I do not believe you would ever hear me describe a orgasm as feeling like my dick sneezed
Sneezes don't feel like cumming to me, or I'd carry a pound of pepper around with me!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 4:36 pm

    Quoting oral4ya765:
    dammit I meant to say... best picture ever lol.
Yeah- that poor girl. She's a local reporter and she's very pretty. This wasn't a good picture of her. But she often has a kind of severe look on her face...like she could use a good poke.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 4:39 pm

    Quoting  :

Missy! You hit it outa the park! That was wonderful!

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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/11/2016 4:58 pm

I have described it several times... but I will do an abbreviated version here. First I feel a thrill in my stomach (like butterflies). Then the blood rushing to my pelvic area. That feels pleasurable. Then my clitoris begins to plump up and thumps every time I think about sex (which at that point, I'm probably thinking about non-stop). And then my vagina begins to self-lubricate and that also feels pleasurable. And then my breasts feel connected to my pelvic area. They feel fuller and my nipples get all tingly. And then the pleasure becomes like waves, and envelop me, and then gradually scale back in waves.

Is that good enough of a description?
Kk

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 5:04 pm

    Quoting mcmaniac:
    To me it feels initially like something is using my hip bones for a tuning fork, just an uncontrollable vibration, tingling feeling. This usually turns into a lower back, upper thigh sensation, followed by the ejaculation. After the ejaculation begins to subside I'm overcome by a head rush that turns into what I describe as a body orgasm, usually resulting in my having to brace myself against something solid for support. The body orgasm is far more intense than the "wet" orgasm. I usually rush to clean up as soon as I'm able so I can get in a relaxing position. If I'm not stoned from weed prior to the orgasm, I find myself in a stupor for hours afterwards. I'm not sure if this is caused by the intensity of the orgasm or some sort of poor blood flow to the brain, but either way, I like it!
    Amen Brother!
Brother Mac, you came through in spades! Outfuckingstanding!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 5:06 pm

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    I have described it several times... but I will do an abbreviated version here. First I feel a thrill in my stomach (like butterflies). Then the blood rushing to my pelvic area. That feels pleasurable. Then my clitoris begins to plump up and thumps every time I think about sex (which at that point, I'm probably thinking about non-stop). And then my vagina begins to self-lubricate and that also feels pleasurable. And then my breasts feel connected to my pelvic area. They feel fuller and my nipples get all tingly. And then the pleasure becomes like waves, and envelop me, and then gradually scale back in waves.

    Is that good enough of a description?
    Kk
Is it good enough??!! I almost came myself! Hell yes it's good! Now we're getting somewhere!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 5:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Nice metaphor, Leo! I can relate to this. Thank you!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 5:09 pm

    Quoting Eros_Space:
    Ah! I have blogged on this subject many times. Here is just one of my meager attempts to describe the indescribable: [post 3510166]
Thanks! I'll take a look at the post.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 5:13 pm

    Quoting joisygirl:
    Yes all women know how to fake an orgasm. If you are lucky you never have to.

    You are right, it feels good, better than good even. Tingly and wonderful, the feeling of arousal and then the intensity increases with every move, slide and thrust from your partner. The feeling just kind of builds until it radiates through my entire body, every inch of skin sensitive, toes curling, every muscle tensing and then finally releasing. If you are lucky the feeling lingers for hours and hours. I've recently been just that lucky, but my luck has run out now and it's all but a memory.
What's worse, in my view, is that so many women have not had orgasms from sex with a partner, or rarely have them. It doesn't seem fair.

This is a good description, especially the feeling of building to a crescendo.

See me after class.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 5:14 pm

    Quoting Eros_Space:
    Here's another take that kind of goes to the heart of the matter: [post 3496505]
I can see I have some reading to do! Thank you!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 6:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you Missy. I'm really enjoying the feedback, and I'm learning something too. This isn't a topic I've spent a lot of time thinking on. Like I said in my post, I'm someone who might be able to talk about what the beauty of a tree means to me and that I think it's a miracle of engineering but I've never spent a word on how an orgasm feels. I really was just stuck on "Feels great!" This fun, and educational too!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 7:06 pm

    Quoting rockkickass69v2:
    I get this tingle down deep below the base of my cock & that tingle just seems to travel up from the base to the head making my entire cock tingle.
    That tingle just keeps getting more & more intense so I fight to hold of as long as I can because it just feels so fucking good & want it to last as long It can.
    But finally it just gets to intense & I can't stop myself from cumming any longer.
    Then I just explode & there's no better feeling in the world.
    After that I'm ready to go all over again! LOL!
    I think that's why I've got this interest in edging now.

Oh, nice, Rock! I've been fascinated by the idea that women can have not only multiple orgasms but sustained orgasm, that goes on and on. My wife can have those and I want some too! I have held off orgasm many many times to try to make sure that my partner can get there first. That was easier when I was young. It wasn't always successful, but you get better at it with practice. I didn't notice that it diminished my eventual orgasm in any way. Giving my partner a sustained orgasm is one of the most rewarding things about intimacy.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 7:14 pm

    Quoting  :

Excellent answer, Lala! Thank you!This wasn't just an exercise or just something to post about. I genuinely want to hear how different people describe it. Being on this site has been a learning experience for me, and I cherish that. If you stopped learning life would get very boring, I reckon.

I love your description...like tiny cells rushing to your pussy, and feeling the gush of cum.

I'll need you to stay after class too.

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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
4/11/2016 7:29 pm

What an excellent question, and so many just as good comments.
However, I must agree with Kzoo, it's really hard to put it in words, especially because they're not all the same, and the intensity can vary. I'm not good with words, so I would rather just show it to you!!!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 8:00 pm

    Quoting nightsoul1962:
    What an excellent question, and so many just as good comments.
    However, I must agree with Kzoo, it's really hard to put it in words, especially because they're not all the same, and the intensity can vary. I'm not good with words, so I would rather just show it to you!!!
That's acceptable!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 8:02 pm

    Quoting  :

OK, I'll put an extra check mark next to Missy on my list for you.

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/11/2016 8:11 pm

    Quoting  :

The teacher gets the credit. You're expected to work!

I knew about tingle but I thought it was...overused? Prosaic? Clearly not, because tingle keeps cropping up. Apparently tingle is a nearly universal positive. But there are still new descriptions poking through here- a tuning fork, your rushing cells, oral's sneeze, Missy's pussy contractions, KK's plumping and thumping clit.

I think I want a cigarette!

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spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
4/12/2016 2:24 am

It's difficult describing an orhasm. I'll just list a few words - urgent, rhythmic, hard, sloppy, fast, overwhelming, uncontrollable, release, relief and sleepy!


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
4/12/2016 7:08 am


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/12/2016 7:59 am

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    It's difficult describing an orhasm. I'll just list a few words - urgent, rhythmic, hard, sloppy, fast, overwhelming, uncontrollable, release, relief and sleepy!
I think so too but I've got to say the folks commenting here are doing a good job of it. It looks like you have the beginnings of a thesaurus of orgasm here!

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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
4/12/2016 8:02 am

    Quoting  :

Oh, no, Vixen! Maybe you should try a different kind of spa.

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