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Do you like Fucking fast or slow mostly? And will women tell you?
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Do you like Fucking fast or slow mostly? And will women tell you? I got into an interesting conversation a little earlier today. Usually I have liked it slow but I think more people (both sexes) like it fast and maybe a little rough, than slow. So I asked a girl I know (we know each other well enough to talk about things like this) and although she likes slow sometimes, she prefers fast and hard fucking more of the time. I always think I cum too fast if I do that - which is never good for your partner unless you can either recover very fast or have the energy to move down south to keep giving her pleasure orally. I'm trying to figure out what most girls like - and, most importantly, why? Guys too... but especially ladies (you are so mysterious to us guys!   ). Reason I'm asking is because I'm thinking about adjusting my "style" to be what my partners want.Which brings me to my other observation: I have had a hard time getting women to tell me what they like or how to do something in particular. That's not always true - a few women have told me exactly what to do every step of the way. But most of the ones I've been with (maybe they tend to be more submissive) won't even tell me when I ask them to. From those partners I have usually just gotten a response of "What you're doing now is nice". But, really, I want to know what most women like the best. And why they like it that way (easier to cum, like the feeling of being "taken" by a man, etc.). Come on ladies, give it up! (And How Do We Men Get You Ladies To Tell Us What You Want Us To Do?) - Just another clueless guy... |
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That's one of the best pieces of advice I have ever gotten. Thank you so much, schothot! I really like your profile page and your blog. You're quite a catch for whomever your friends are.
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I think it is the mood you are in and the partner you are with. Both works for me
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Depends on mood, but love both! 
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I like it hard and fast. Slow annoys the hell out of me. I don't mind starting out slow, and by starting out, I mean the first minute and then after that, the pace better pick up!
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My one bit of advice to your dilemma about getting women to tell you what they want and like... ask non-open ended questions. As example, don't say "what do you like?" and then expect her to tell you. Some women just are not comfortable with that and will say something lame like "oh I like everything" when of course they don't. Instead, ask something specific like: "would you like me to fuck you fast or slow?" "is this pressure good or do you like it harder?" "do you like having your nipples nibbled on or just caressed and kissed?" Giving someone choices makes it much easier for them to communicate. It takes the pressure off thinking up something that you want to have done. Now given that, you then have to be prepared with the litany of questions at the ready. Hopefully it won't take a ton of them to get you to a point where you know what your lady likes, but it's definitely a better place to start than wondering. Oh, and in case you couldn't tell from my profile vids, I do also like it hard and fast. You gotta bring it when you meet me!! LOL 
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