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Sex too Soon If a girl has sex with you on the first date..... do you think bad of her??? Would you think she was too easy.... and maybe not a keeper? I always heard that girls who slept with guys before the 6th date were considered sleazy... and not the kind of girl you take home to mom.... WHAT IS YOUR OPINION? THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG |
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We would talk about having sex on the first date. If she wants to then will go slow but usually on the first date I wait. I wait till we get to know each other better first.
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We would talk about having sex on the first date. If she wants to then will go slow but usually on the first date I wait. I wait till we get to know each other better first.  THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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I wouldn't think anything Bad about her. Always a chance she would be a keeper. Dewy"s Cooterlicking Corner
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I wouldn't think anything Bad about her. Always a chance she would be a keeper.  THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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No. You are too cute to just drop over a non sex date. Beside the personality would be the clincher anyway. We love ya. 
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If we have sex we have if she wants. No timetable. I don’t think anything less of her. Things happen, if you both like each other it’ll happen
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9/15/2018 5:19 pm |
I don't know why people put time tables on certain things, especially when it comes to a relationship. If you both are enjoying the time that you spend together and it leads to sex then so be it. Sex is very important to a relationship. If you both click and it happens on the first date and you think less of that person than you better take s really long look at yourself.
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9/15/2018 5:27 pm |
Well if each felt comfortable why not?.I personally wouldn't think less of anyone.
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9/15/2018 5:33 pm |
I'd not think less of her as some people just love sex. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Would not think bad of her and perhaps she will be the keeper.
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I meet a girl out of no where through a friend, then we meet again at a pool party. we walked off to a dark quite place we had hot and heavy sex till we came together. we then would meet and have sex party started to do the standard dating thing. bar seen and more sex. she was 23, I was 21 we married 2 years later and still married 32 years later.
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9/15/2018 5:48 pm |
Does not bother me either way if she sleeps with me on the first date or not. These days I would be surprised if she didn't. Years ago when I was much younger, I would have been surprised if she did. Times they are a changing
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If a girl has sex with you on the first date. .... If she doesn't, then she and I were not on a date. do you think bad of her??? ..... Hell no! The entire reason for inviting her out was to have sex. Thus making an "Intended date", an actual "Date". Would you think she was too easy. ....No. What pussy of a man is going to think , "Oh you too easy"?! FUCKING HELL, revoke that guys man card and give him a "I'm a pussy" card. ... and maybe not a keeper? ..... Most dates any man goes on, he is not always in search of woman to keep. But say he is in search of a woman to keep, and by fortunate circumstances, she too is looking for a man to keep... and they have sex, the first time out together , what's the fucking problem?!! Obviously at least the sex-part works..... so that's an awesome start. Sex is not always the reason why you are not considered to be kept. Sometimes there is something else wrong. "Sex" is just one, of many hoops of "Approval" to get through. I always heard that girls who slept with guys before the 6th date were considered sleazy......That's wrong.... Guys should dump the chick on her ass if she doesn't putout by the end of the 3rd intended-date. She's wasting his time. He needs to start dating other women. .. and not the kind of girl you take home to mom........ Chance are pretty good , his mom putout on the first or second date. .........Anyway, a man isn't suppose to take home women he dates [fucks]. IF she is still in his life in about two to three years, then go ahead make the intro.... but if you're ONLY "Dating" [no plans of settling] , there is absolutely no reason your mom [nor your dad] has to meet any of the women you're banging.
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9/15/2018 6:17 pm |
It can happen.....
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I don't know why people put time tables on certain things, especially when it comes to a relationship. If you both are enjoying the time that you spend together and it leads to sex then so be it. Sex is very important to a relationship. If you both click and it happens on the first date and you think less of that person than you better take s really long look at yourself. I can take a stab at that ..... People put timetables on certain things so they do not waste their their time. "Sex', in itself , is a very important hurdle. You [well anyone] should want to know if this is acceptable together before you put too much time in with someone. You don't want to find yourself hanging out with the woman for months and months, and not have sex. She starts to think of you as her "Friend", if too much time goes by - and no sex. By then, she would probably tell you, "If we have sex, that would ruin our friendship". ...... Fucking great, months wasted, and you end up her token gay friend. Also, not many men consider this because he is too enamored with the woman to care too much, she could just be stringing him along to buy her stuff , food and drink and do favors for her. So the timetable? If she doesn't show any sexual interest in you be the end of the 3rd time out together.... tell her you'll be dating other women now. 3 strikes, that's the timetable to use.
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9/15/2018 6:55 pm |
If a girl has sex with you on the first date. .... If she doesn't, then she and I were not on a date. do you think bad of her??? ..... Hell no! The entire reason for inviting her out was to have sex. Thus making an "Intended date", an actual "Date". Would you think she was too easy. ....No. What pussy of a man is going to think , "Oh you too easy"?! FUCKING HELL, revoke that guys man card and give him a "I'm a pussy" card. ... and maybe not a keeper? ..... Most dates any man goes on, he is not always in search of woman to keep. But say he is in search of a woman to keep, and by fortunate circumstances, she too is looking for a man to keep... and they have sex, the first time out together , what's the fucking problem?!! Obviously at least the sex-part works..... so that's an awesome start. Sex is not always the reason why you are not considered to be kept. Sometimes there is something else wrong. "Sex" is just one, of many hoops of "Approval" to get through. I always heard that girls who slept with guys before the 6th date were considered sleazy......That's wrong.... Guys should dump the chick on her ass if she doesn't putout by the end of the 3rd intended-date. She's wasting his time. He needs to start dating other women. .. and not the kind of girl you take home to mom........ Chance are pretty good , his mom putout on the first or second date. .........Anyway, a man isn't suppose to take home women he dates [fucks]. IF she is still in his life in about two to three years, then go ahead make the intro.... but if you're ONLY "Dating" [no plans of settling] , there is absolutely no reason your mom [nor your dad] has to meet any of the women you're banging. 
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i used to be more judgmental. the modern information age is getting me over it. i think it depends more on how well a couple can get along.
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I have no prob with a gal that wants to have funn on the 1st date, have met many that were willing, but out of all I have dated, they were less than 5% of the total. I have no issue if they DONT want to have funn on the 1st date either, but I hope that by the 2nd or 3rd date we will be having funn. If not, well, then I probably chose the wrong gal to ask on a date. What puzzles me tho, are the gals that want funn on the 1st date, and then promising a 2nd date or more, and I never hear from them again. I know I am good at funn, some have said great in fact. But the unknown always makes me wonder why?
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I agree with you. There is nothing wrong with what you want. You want sex. You want to fuck! Okay. Well that's called NSA. So just tell her you want NSA sex and if something grows from there then cool. Just be totally honest from the beginning. If she's not having sex with you on the first date then somebody hasn't been honest with what they want. "Dating" is noncommittal. Limitless in how many you choose to date. So just tell her you want NSA sex ... No need to say that. By the simple fact that you've invited her out on a "Date", is telling the woman you want to have sex with her. She accepts, or she doesn't. Just be totally honest from the beginning. ... What's been lied about if you invite a woman to date you? Answer: Nothing. Dating the woman, is the same as NSA sex. When you invite a woman out, you are telling her you want to have sex with her. She, or you, can date whomever you want. There is no exclusivity. Getting any more serious than "Dating", that goes into the Boyfriend-Girlfriend realm. Then you don't say you're "Dating"... you say , "She's my girlfriend". If she's not having sex with you on the first date then somebody hasn't been honest with what they want...... No. Or maybe the guy approached her with the idea of being friends first...that's always a mistake. If she isn't having sex with you, she either doesn't want to, or she's not sure yet..... so you allow her the "3 strikes" rule. Don't waste your time [and if you're a pussy, she's wasting your money, too]. No interest shown by the end of [at most] the third intended date.... then you walk away.
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9/15/2018 10:12 pm |
Do what makes u happy. Reason I say that is some people are narrow minded. Along with whatever going 2 happen. Just go with it.
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I'd a child of the 70s! Back then we found someone to take home and have sex with, THEN, later we decided it something more might develop. Terrible Texting Travails The BEST Thing About This Particular Nekkie Resort Nekkie Resort Games, on HNW [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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9/16/2018 9:06 am |
Well that's called sex/NSA. ..."NSA" is the same as saying "Dating". "Dating" is noncommittal. Limitless in how many you choose to date. So just tell her you want NSA sex ... No need to say that. By the simple fact that you've invited her out on a "Date", is telling the woman you want to have sex with her. She accepts, or she doesn't. Just be totally honest from the beginning. ... What's been lied about if you invite a woman to date you? Answer: Nothing. Dating the woman, is the same as NSA sex. When you invite a woman out, you are telling her you want to have sex with her. She, or you, can date whomever you want. There is no exclusivity. Getting any more serious than "Dating", that goes into the Boyfriend-Girlfriend realm. Then you don't say you're "Dating"... you say , "She's my girlfriend". If she's not having sex with you on the first date then somebody hasn't been honest with what they want...... No. Or maybe the guy approached her with the idea of being friends first...that's always a mistake. If she isn't having sex with you, she either doesn't want to, or she's not sure yet..... so you allow her the "3 strikes" rule. Don't waste your time [and if you're a pussy, she's wasting your money, too]. No interest shown by the end of [at most] the third intended date.... then you walk away.
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Either way is fine with me. If we like each other and our clothes do not come off until the third or fifth date..that is fine with me
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9/17/2018 12:17 am |
First time,,, Lucky. Second time Lighting. Third time KeeperrrrRRRRrrrr.  (\/)y second wife,,, first time,,, ,,,we fucked for 3 day*z . Kept each other for 6yrs, fukn stopped. ][ got thrown away. Free Range/Open Season now. Not till ][ hear /-/er reply to a very particular phrase will ][ try again. ][ await.  
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