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Today starts my belief in myself!  

jms1369 42F  
17 posts
10/21/2015 7:32 pm
Today starts my belief in myself!


You should write a blog.... Why is it that this is the 3rd or 4th time this week someone has told me that? I love to write, but who wants to hear what I have to say?? I could rant, I could vent, I could create stories, but who would read them??

Do I need to let go and not worry what others will say or think? Anyone that knows me will scream YES! but yet I can't seem to trust that it's okay to put myself out there.

Often I am told that I am a beautiful person, that I have so much to share yet, as much as I smile and say "thank you", and "that's so sweet of you to say", I still can't seem to believe it myself.

In the last few week's I have been reading about a Hawiian practice called Ho'oponopono. This is the practice of healing others through forgiveness and reconciliation with ones self. The logic behind Ho'oponopono is that if you can use the four main points to heal yourself, everyone, everything that see, hear or interact with. We each create the reality that we live in, and if we are able to "fix" ourselves, then that love and joy, healing, and forgiveness will naturally spread to others.

So, today I start to "fix" myself, I may not fall in love with "me" over night, but in time, I will be proud to say that I can put myself out there and not worry what people think.

The order is different for every person, for me, it's as follows:
I'm sorry
Please forgive me
I love you
Thank you

I'm sorry that I allowed myself to feel not worthy
Please forgive me for allowing myself to think I am less of a person
I love that I am able to care for others like they care for me
Thank you for helping me see that I can be the person other see me as

Today I put myself out there with the first of many posts. Some may be vernts, some may be random thoughts, some may be stories that I think of in my head. Today I let myself begin to heal and start to take care of me!

rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
10/21/2015 7:34 pm

agree!!


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
10/21/2015 7:55 pm

Whoever those people were that encouraged you to write, they were right! You have a great way of expressing yourself in word. Nice work.

Pretty as it is, do you really want your face all over the internet? May I suggest you think about that. Most people are nice, but oh the few others and the trouble they make!

Have fun, and keep believing in yourself.
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SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
10/21/2015 8:08 pm

Well....Im glad you finally started taking my advice. The sight is designed with people like you in mind, so let go of your fears and be yourself. It does not matter what other people think as they do not know you. Only you can release yourself from the genie bottle your sitting in. Healing? Not that you need it, but if you feel it makes you a better person....go for it. Thanks for sharing and Hugs....look forward to reading more.

Ciao.....


Wanton_Wench2 62F  
1027 posts
10/22/2015 2:19 am



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Shyguyinaz 59M
1624 posts
10/22/2015 9:30 am

Taking care of you first is a great place to start! Good luck and I look forward to reading what you have to say.


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