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Being clear with THE UNIVERSE about my request...  

bipolybabe69 62F
404 posts
4/26/2016 5:17 pm
Being clear with THE UNIVERSE about my request...


​When I equivocate about what I desire, The Universe GETS IT WRONG.

Stupid Universe!

It was unkind of you to send me someone who was so close to what I desire and have him be "just not be that into" me (not to mention his shame about being a perv who likes to step outside the default heterosexual, monogamous mode).

I want The Unavailable Guy (TUG) v2.0.

​Now, let me specify​​. I desire a man (or a woman though I'm using "he" and "his" because I'm 70% heterosexual​ but that other 30% is an enthusiastic 30% who adores women!!!​). S/he is someone who:

​1) IS CRAZY ABOUT ME​!!!​ And whose heart is available to love and appreciate me. And tell me so.

2) Shares my passion for culture change, especially attitudes towards sex. Which, of course, means that he appreciates my courage to follow my calling to work as a Sex Coach​ and professional Domina.

3) Adores me my body​, and lets me know it,​ even while ​enjoying other beauties​ in solo dates and any group activities​.

4) Is smart, ​healthy, well-educated/traveled, ​attractive, kind and​ wants to share his thoughts from reading or life observations. Like me. (No point in being falsely modest with The Universe. The Universe already know I ​think a lot of myself.) Which means it's great if he has a sense of humor...especially about his human frailties. Which I do, too.

5) Shares my ​desire to learn and grow as a person and is willing to communicat​e​ with me​...no matter what. That means, F​UCKING UNIVERSE, he is willing to speak honestly with me about​ his desires, fears and feelings!

6) Is financially stable and happy with how he lives.

(SIDE NOTE: Only in 4, 5 and 6 were TUG and I in alignment with what I seek. That, FUCKING UNIVERSE, is why I'm pissed off! Oh, all right, I'll acknowledge that he has #10, too, but I'm convinced that guys with big dicks have outsize egos.)

​7​) Is a generous lover, like me: someone who is willing to try what the other person enjoys. Ideally, he's someone who can fuck a lot for a long time AND enjoys​
extended in time kissing, touching,​​ giving and receiving pleasure​.​

Enjoys​ many outdoor physical activities and, when it comes to indoors: role play, a bit of kink, slow sensuality​ ​and tantric sexual energy in group sex play.​ (S/he just needs to be willing to explore these things.)​

9) Believes in polyamory, aka ethical non-monogamy, and is willing to do what it takes to make an open, honest relationship​ work for both of us.​

10)​ Has a big, thick dick.​ I can have a great time with any size penis, but I enjoy the experience of one that fills me up (without taxing my powerful PC muscles) and hits intense spots deep inside me. (Notice that this is lowest among my requests. Big dicks are easy to find for casual sex.)

​Is that so much to request?​ I limited my requests to 10+​bonus (the bonus would be a black man)​.

Do ya think you can handle that? Most magazine articles include "Top 10 Tips to..."

If not, ​I'll continue as "Solo Poly."

While remaining your Bi(sexual) Poly(amorous) Babe

{=}{=}{=}

BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/26/2016 5:29 pm

We all dream.We have hope that gets trashed often.The
important thing is to stay the course and to remember when sharing
people someone is going to inevitably get hurt!

Using more than all the road!


AmorphousAmor 64M
3574 posts
4/26/2016 5:30 pm

it's a big circus tent... all comers welcome


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
4/26/2016 6:14 pm

I don't know...

I've posted blogs about what I and my "living vicariously thru him" Dreamboy are about...

I probably don't fit your category... nice post though...

thanks...

IMANY - "Don't Be So Shy" (feat. Filatov & Karas)

Take a breath
Rest your head
Close your eyes
You are right
Just lay down
Turn my side
Do you feel my heat
On your skin

Take off your clothes
Blow out the fire
Don't be so shy
You're right
You're right

Take off my clothes
Oh bless me father
Don't ask me why
You're right
You're right

Home, I stay
I'm in, come in
Can you feel my hips
In your hands
And I'm laying down
By your side
I taste the sweet
Of your skin

Take off your clothes
Blow out the fire
Don't be so shy
You're right
You're right

Take off my clothes
Oh bless me father
Don't ask me why
You're right
You're right

In my heart dress
Raise so much faster
I drawn myself in holy water
And both my eyes
Just got so much brighter
And I saw God
Oh yeah so much closer
In the dark
I see your smile
Do you feel my heat
On my skin

Take off your clothes
Blow out the fire
Don't be so shy
You're right
You're right

Take off my clothes
Oh bless me father
Don't ask me why
You're right
You're right

Take off my clothes
Blow out the fire
Don't be so shy
You're right
You're right

Take off my clothes
And bless me further
Don't ask me why
Don't ask me why
Don't ask me why...

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Good luck!!!


69bud69 69M
7134 posts
4/27/2016 11:04 am

No arguments here.
Seems very reasonable to have your desires listed and met.

What's the issue with some people.

You should never have to compromise on certain things and your sexuality is one of them.

Bud

Always Ready for Fun.


khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/27/2016 8:47 pm

You forgot to add in, doesn't live thousands of miles away

Find pleasure in giving pleasure


bipolybabe69 replies on 4/28/2016 7:06 pm:
I'm not sure I'd disqualify someone who lives thousands of miles away. I really want someone who is interested in my life. I'm happy talking by phone to connect with someone who adores me.

And who wouldn't want to move to Santa Barbara?!?

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