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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

Tomorrow is a new day!  

secret_lade 50F
14364 posts
10/3/2016 7:44 pm
Tomorrow is a new day!

I can only hope it's better than today was!

My new shoes will be here tomorrow, I can't wait. I've got my fingers crossed the Alegria's will help with some of my foot pain. I only worked a 5 hour shift today and I literally limped out of the store tonight.

It's going to be a long work week ahead of me.

On an unrelated side note:

Question for the masses.... If someone contacted you and stated they were only 'sometimes attached', doesn't that still make them, attached??? I had politely declined an invitation stating I preferred to not become involved with married/attached men, and that was his response.

'Sometimes Attached'

I can totally picture a semi crazed girlfriend making my life a living hell when her 'sometimes attached' boyfriend gets caught. And, you know he would be stupid enough to get caught, he's only 'sometimes attached.'

PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
10/4/2016 8:35 pm

 Even if I was "sometimes attached " I'd still say "very single " out of consideration for you so you wouldn't feel like a "relationship breaker " and I could have my "cake and eat it too " But that's just me, it's lonely being unique like that
Standards are people too.....kinda


secret_lade replies on 10/5/2016 1:00 am:
That kind of hits the nail on the head - relationship breaker. I, like most people, don't want to be the reason why a relationship could possibly come to an end, so we avoid that scenario. I need to have a post dedicated to 'sometimes attached', because I'm a little uncertain as to what makes a person 'sometimes attached'. I'm sure it's very different for everyone. I'm still super tired at the moment, and suffering, so that will have to come later.

scott6250 61M

10/4/2016 3:43 pm

 To me they are still attached.
"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


secret_lade replies on 10/5/2016 1:00 am:
Those were my exact thoughts, too.

Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
10/4/2016 1:43 am

 He never said what he was attached to sometimes.
“For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.”
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secret_lade replies on 10/4/2016 2:08 am:
Very true...

Nola7011 68M
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1021 posts
10/4/2016 1:34 am

 'Freaky Deaky."
People are strange when you're a stranger."


secret_lade replies on 10/4/2016 1:51 am:
Yah... But, who am I to judge. I'm pretty sure that somewhere, out there, someone has probably said that about me too.

Furbal1972 51M
18571 posts
10/3/2016 10:48 pm

 I think that "sometimes attached" might also mean that he is someone's on-the-side or part-time man. .. Not enough information to know, and really does anyone really know. .. But he's not ready to be there 100% for anyone.
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secret_lade replies on 10/4/2016 1:48 am:
I hadn't thought of that aspect... His profile does say attached, though, which is what prompted my original response back to him.

Yours_4A_knight 59M

10/3/2016 9:02 pm

 Is siometimes attached like a geographic bacelor or like being sort of pregnant?
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


secret_lade replies on 10/3/2016 9:13 pm:
I'm guessing it's along the same lines as sort of pregnant... lol

dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
10/3/2016 8:27 pm

 oh please let me know how those shoes are. I looked them up after seeing your other post, and would be tempted if I could find them in a store locally.


secret_lade replies on 10/3/2016 8:31 pm:
Absolutely, I will make sure I post some kind of a review to let you know how they worked out.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/3/2016 8:17 pm

 I would ask what 'Sometimes Attached' means just to see how dumb the guy really is.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


secret_lade replies on 10/3/2016 8:21 pm:
LOL That could be an interesting answer. I won't, though, it's not my goal to be mean or make anyone feel less than.

Riverview84u 48M

10/3/2016 8:05 pm

 Tomorrow is a new day attached is attached, otherwise it would be single


secret_lade replies on 10/3/2016 8:06 pm:
My sentiments exactly!!

mc_justmc 64M

10/3/2016 7:52 pm

 your right, he would get caught, and she would blame you for the whole mess. I've gotten that phone call from some guy I don't know asking why my number is on his wife's cell phone. Uhhhhhhhhhhhhh wrong number...


secret_lade replies on 10/3/2016 8:05 pm:
That is the exact reason why I avoid those pesky married/attached men. It's just way too complicated. Always worried about being seen in public, you can't just pick up the phone and call/text them, you have to work everything around THEIR schedule.... Speaking from experience.

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