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Friend of the family  

vjorvj 51F
21 posts
9/25/2018 6:47 pm
Friend of the family

Hello stranger. I need advice.
Thank you in advance.
I have been celibate for 7 years because no one really has caught my eye romantically. But, if I am being honest, I am horny as hell.

Here is the dilemma.

I am not interested in just fucking some random guy, but I just moved to a new area and I only have one possibility for a one off. He is the only person that my loins have lusted for.
Problem is he is a family friend and actually lives with my relatives.
He isn't really the type that I usually date but this isn't dating. He isn't into BDSM.

I want to fuck him.
But, I don't want anyone to know that I am fucking him.
And I don't want to hurt his feeling by telling him to keep it to himself.
He has been flirting with me for a couple of weeks now but, I can never catch him alone.

He's a sensitive type ( a crier ) I am not saying that's a bad thing, it is just to say this is the reason I am worried about hurting his feelings.
Should I go for it or just stay celibate and masturbate?

I know it is weird that I asked you but, I couldn't ask someone I knew personally. IRL

OK.

This is a questions I posted to a online buddy (who is interested in fucking me) I won't share his answer but, I thought I would just post the question here with hopes of some other comments before I make a decision.

darkreign2010 41M  
87 posts
9/25/2018 7:07 pm

 dont ever settle for someone that doesnt meet your preferences.. try to hold on to them its plenty out there .. just take ur time and choose wisely . you're taking a chance of him not being able to handle the new situation.. family involved.. find someone on your level physically mentally and sexually and go from there.


SpringfieldDom11 45M
24 posts
9/25/2018 7:20 pm

 Go for it! He probably wants you and will satisfy this feeling you have. Good luck!


bitchkitty2017 71F

9/25/2018 7:25 pm

 geez girl 7 years and not exploded ? wowzers I am gone two since my husband died and I thought that was bad ..you both are adults and if its a family friend so what? hes flirting with you and you are obviously into him and does it really matter if hes into or not into who you usually date..as adults why not make the decision between both of you if its a one off then so? if it becomes more so? lol..go get your fill..


vjorvj 51F
6 posts
9/25/2018 7:29 pm

 Thank you both. It may end up being longer than 7 years.


DoUIntheButt 42M
118 posts
9/25/2018 8:15 pm

 Ummmm. Sounds like dude might get to emotional (as he is a crier) and might make things bad! The two Don't mix! In my opinion anyway!


DoUIntheButt 42M
118 posts
9/25/2018 8:17 pm

 Damn!! Why could I not meet you when I was in Mississippi!!


OneCharmingGent 31M
39 posts
9/25/2018 8:24 pm

 Go for it, girl!


PartyTimehere099 33M
10 posts
9/25/2018 8:41 pm

 go for it have to have your fun.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

9/25/2018 8:43 pm

 I am not him and live alone but if a young friend of my family approached me with the offer of a one off, especially if I were interested I don't think that I would decline.

If you are discrete I don't see a downside, unless you think expressing an interest in a family friend sexually would cause problems long term . . in which case odds are that you should take the pass and find another. there are lots of thirsty guys that will accept basically anything that is offered.
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/26/2018 2:00 am

 Find someone who is not an emo.. you don't want a sissy crier. And he is likely to cling to you like lint. Go find someone else.

Have been celibate for 7 years because no one really has caught my eye romantically. ... Forget about romance... just date a guy [dating is having sex].

But, if I am being honest, I am horny as hell.... So go out some weekend and pickup a guy.

I am not interested in just fucking some random guy, .... Come on... you've done it before, you can do it again. Just to get out of your slump. ..... By staying celibate, you are more likely to make a mistake regarding men.

but I just moved to a new area and I only have one possibility for a one off. .... So far, but if you look around, you may find some more possibilities.

He isn't really the type that I usually date but this isn't dating. ... Yes it is dating....... men invite you out on a date, because they want to fuck.... so a date is about having sex.

Don't have sex with that crier guy. You'll regret it. ....Go out , and get laid.


vjorvj 51F
6 posts
9/27/2018 6:00 pm

 Well thank you .


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