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It depends what you are after. If it is genuine swinger sex, you need to find the person sufficiently attractive to take things forward, hoping for a mutually agreeable time. If you want a "relationship" then factors such as a sense of hmour, integrity, ease of communication and all the rest come into play. The key factor on this site is proximity - you are on the other side of the pond which makes either of the above impractical. It does amuse me to see profiles on here hoping for a loving relationship - its supposed to be a swinger site not a dating site per se.
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you probably do not want my answer, but here goes, have to have chatted with each other to see if there is something in common, both parties need to be courteous to each other and should respect the other. after a while, possibly set up a meet somewhere in public to see how things go. maybe meet again a second time to get to know each other more. then if the feeling is mutual go for the dinners. Always respect each other. Another good rule is to make sure that there is not a great distance between the two since this has been a complaint that has been the subject of blogs when someone makes a trip and is stood up or let down.
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You can answer your own question: have you only ever slept with people whom you respected as human beings and cherished for their minds and personalities? There is a big difference between finding somebody sexually attractive enough to want to sleep with and special enough to want to be with for the rest of your life and raise kids with. So you need t refine your question.
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The site's meta data says "Local Sexy Swingers is the best dating site to find adult singles and swingers for discreet hookups and casual sex near you." I am simply making the point that there is a difference is choices between swinger sex and sex in a relationship - one night stand versus love of your life if you will.
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I'm in Illinois, if I were in Florida, I'd meet you, take you out, and treat you like a Queen, the way a woman SHOULD be treated......  , you bet I would ! ! ! ! !
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I am not making any assumptions about you - I haven't enough information to do so. Plainly, you are looking for something of a more lasting nature than a sexual encounter which is fine. However, this may not be the best site for you as the images and videos attest. Undoubtably, there will be guys hopingfor exactly what you are looking for, but at a lower density here than on "dating/realtionship" sites. I hope you find what you are looking for.
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The first thing would be a profile that sounds like someone with a good head on her shoulders put it together. If it's rambling and all over the place, it's a no go. When I send a woman a message, her response says a lot. If her response took some thought that's a good sign, but if it was it something as useless as LOL or an emoji, then it shows she's either lazy or doesn't appreciate a message that is something more than a sex proposal. When a woman wants someone who matters, then their communication should say that based on their own effort. Bonus question answer: Yes, the popularity and anonymity of all of the dating apps has made for carpet bombed messages and proposals for something quick & easy. It makes for resentful women and frustrated men, and a complete lack of connection.
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The part I can see of your profile is overtly aggressive and negative. You also seem unable to accept answers to the questions you pose and run to assumptions about people. Since the profile (and a picture of your cleavage) is all a potential contact sees, you may wish to reconsideryour approach. Why assume that anybody interested in you is cheating on a wife or girlfriend off the bat? As you are not leaping into bed with the first guy who contacts you, you can use IM or your blog to sort the wheat from the chaff. As I said, I hope you find what you want. Bye
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3/20/2018 11:34 am |
Well being single and available # 1. Then the woman would have to live close to me! Exchange a couple of pics and set up a meet in a public place! Become a Apollorising2057 blog watcher!
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3/20/2018 11:50 am |
I like to read the profile, as much of it as I can (Standard) for now. I also do look at the pictures, not for what has been exposed but rather what is NOT shown. This tells me more about the woman than letting it all hang out there LOL I also look at how many friends and 'fans' one has, identifies the social butterflies. If the profile is well written, I'm interested. I'm not as worried about the HWP thing as does she have a brain, can she carry on a good conversation? I don't give a damn about her perfect figure if she can't talk beyond 'oh baby ...more' There is a time and place for that, not initially. An intelligent woman is the sexiest thing in the world. In the final analysis, it is their choice anyhow, IMHO
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3/20/2018 11:55 am |
For the second and 'bonus round' ...sites like Local Sexy Swingers and ALT tend to expose the foolish, crass, and just plain ignorant elements. The immature also rise up to the surface but they are quick to spot. One good point is that they are easier to ignore than if meeting for real, and that applies to all genders, but this is a tiny slice of the real world so ...
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LOL.....perhaps the profile pic should show some brain 'cleavage' before you ask the savages to pursue with a lilting flowerlike approach. Perhaps a calloused elbow or a scarred knee may be more appropriate to ask for friend-like qualities. Ladies can be funny and intelligent, but generally rely on the superficial to make up for the lack there of.....my opinion. All opinions and statistics are derived from a poll of 1 (me). The rate of error is plus/minus 100%.
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with respect to your second question, it does seem that manners have been cast away and rudeness has taken its place. when some of the women are on cams, it does seem like they are walking near a construction site where catcalls and whistles abound. many years ago, i saw a cartoon that showed a dog typing on a keyboard and the caption was on the internet, nobody has to know you are a dog. on here too, there does seem to be lots of photos for fakes and some of different photos have the same profile wording. no matter what, everyone should show some respect and treat others as they want to be treated.
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Same requirements, irrespective whether it is on this site or on other sites of more straightforward dating. And a three step process. 1. An interesting, polite and positive profile. If the profile contains elements of aggression (like DO NOT THIS and DO NOT THAT) or prejudice (all men are like this or all men are like that) is not appealing to me and therefore I do not proceed to chat. 2. An interesting, polite and positive chat. I have a lot of things to chat about and given that my profile is quite thorough I do not see anything wrong with starting with just a greeting, "hi how are you today?". i know that some want a more wholesome introduction but if they reply with a simple "I am good and yourself" then this is already a polite and positive start for a good chat right after that. If they stay silent, because my simple greeting was not good enough for them, then there is nothing positive or polite for me to continue. If we proceed with the chat and I feel that there is connection and chemistry or potential for connection or chemistry then I will suggest to meet. 3. An interesting, polite and positive meeting. Because it is different chatting to a person and different meeting a person face to face. If there is stiil connection and chemistry then we could have another meeting and take it from there. If not, we stay polite and part in good terms.
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Good question .
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Attractiveness is definitely the first thing that draws my interest. Sometimes if she looks really good but the profile is minimal I may send a message. If there's a response then it becomes how things go from there. Generally little things in the profile or if they have a blog then in that that show more of their personality or an intelligence that is appealing. From there if somehow my message is returned since most aren't the vibe of the interaction and if common interests or character traits are there then going further seems to make sense. Face to face can be different but if there are no unpleasant surprises initially usually there is a good experience to be had.
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