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And today's ignorant clown goes to...( drum roll )...  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
3/20/2018 9:30 am
And today's ignorant clown goes to...( drum roll )...


And today's ignorant clown goes to the female member here named Wildbynature0000. Here's the scoop. About a month ago I had it out with yet another male clown who goes by the name of Hungfunguy81. Long story short, this man- wrote to me first, then accused me to have written to him initially ( which I did NOT ). I proved him wrong with evidence, in turn his butt was hurt so he resorted to childishness and name-calling, which ended up with him saying:

"Hungfunguy81:
Another upset fat slob that no one wants to fuck.".

I, in turn, exposed his behavior publicly for all to see what a joker he is toward women here.

So yesterday I get a random email from a female member here who goes by Wildbynature0000. She asks me why I'm badmouthing this guy. She tells me that he always hits on her online. In turn, I politely explain and give her the whole nine yards of what was said by him and why I felt this way about Hungfunguy81. It turns out that she misread things. She thought that his comment of "Another upset fat slob that no one wants to fuck." was actually what I was saying to him and she, herself, begins writing stupid and idiotic comments publicly against me, as if I'm the one to be blaming here for anything at all. Duh! Being innocent sure means that you have to prove yourself NOT guilty these days, doesn't it? So it gets better yet...

So after taking my time and effort in explaining in detail to her why I felt this way against him ( ya know, I kind of felt we were on the same side here and she wanted honest input of testimony in case she was potentially interested in him ). Well it turns out that she is just as much a clown as he turned out to be. I get a consecutive series of emails from her in turn, as follows:

Wildbynature0000
wow. sorry not reading all that.. but thanks
3/20/2018 10:58 am - ( Ok, she apologizes for misreading and spouting against me due to her own ignorance, yet hypocritically resorts to ignorance by saying that she's not willing to read my explanation of reasons. So why ask me questions to begin with? ).

Wildbynature0000
look like a fool.. lmfao.i was just curious if this dude was an asshole..
3/20/2018 11:10 am - ( "Look like a fool" - should this be interpreted that I look like a fool or is she saying she looks like a fool for misreading? Who knows!?! )

Wildbynature0000
dont know what i assumed.. i think u got some issues.. good luck
3/20/2018 11:11 am - ( Ok, she is still admitting that she assumed, but now her childish retaliative side begins kicking in, because she wants the upper hand at disengaging this conversation like the hero ).

Wildbynature0000
my god u ramble on..
3/20/2018 11:12 am ( I ramble on...well yes, it's called adult communications in explaining the reasons I felt this way against this guy. Wasn't I asked by her why I felt this way to begin with? A question is followed up with answers, duh! ).

Wildbynature0000
shut the fuck up... you are an idiot ..the way you copied * pasted the comnent.. soooo who looks stupid..
3/20/2018 11:13 am ( Ok, now the childish retaliation has kicked in 100%. So now her butt is hurt because I copied/pasted something SHE falsely wrote about ME? Wait, I'm here just holding up my innocence here in the matter. I point fingers at facts when I start getting accused of things which aren't true ).

Wildbynature0000
get a few cats..and call it a day
3/20/2018 11:13 am ( This was her finale comment left to me, followed up by childishly blocking me so I'd have no way to be able to reply back to her ).

Wow, just wow...where does it all end here? The funny thing here is this:

A .) I'm not seeking anyone here. My profile describes that.
B .) I mind my own business here and reply to those who write to me.
C .) I'm respectful, honest and polite in my replies.
D .) I stick to facts, not conjecture or drama whenever issues arise.

Yet all of this nonsense comes my way from someone here who seeks nothing, is neutral, is polite, is respectful, is honest, etc... . Ya know? Seriously. I can just sit here at my desk, receive idiotic messages from random strangers and then when I go on to get to the bottom of things in a polite manner, I get ignored, mistreated and retaliated on.....for what? All for sitting here constantly and minding my own business!! I mean seriously, I can't even come here anymore while being OFF the market and just socializing with a few good old friends or browsing over the contents of the site without being bombarded, accused or retaliated on in some way. It's out of control with people and this shit needs to stop! I find women here to be no better than the men.

And then the men write me...they tell me that no women talk to them on IM or through email. Ummm, yeah....this is why! People are complete clowns here and in society anymore!

Wildbynature0000

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
3/20/2018 10:11 am

you get all of the winners


Banana_Canyon replies on 3/20/2018 10:38 am:
Constantly and involuntarily somehow without even initiating anything. It's like I'm a magnet that the idiots are attracted to. Ugh!

As always, I appreciate you reading and commenting. You're the best, hun. A rarity for sure. Hope you're doing well.

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
3/20/2018 6:42 pm

I count myself lucky that I haven't had too much BS lately...I like it much better that way. lol

I too mind my business, reply if I so desire, and always try to be polite..

It is always an "adventure" on this site....and not always a good one!

Best of luck!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Banana_Canyon replies on 3/23/2018 6:55 am:
Well I'm glad to hear that you haven't been getting too much b.s. lately. Once in a while we're all due for a dry spell. The waves seem to come and go with that stuff for me. It's crazy though, how people like us sit back and all of the drama just seems to be dumped on us literally for no reason at all, due to other people accusing us of things or simply due to their ignorance, lack of reading, comprehending, etc... It's pure insanity on so many levels.

I always appreciate your comments. Thank you kindly for reading.

funnyyouaskedme 53M
14 posts
3/22/2018 12:05 pm

See...here is where I scratch my head. You criticize people here yet you are effectively guilty of the same. We chatted and you friended me. You sent me an email which you knew I could not read.....you never answered any additional IMs and that is fine but you kept looking at my profile even after I asked you to stop if you were not interested. Then you email again knowing I can't read it again. What gives?


Banana_Canyon replies on 3/23/2018 6:50 am:
And this is why I scratch my head, too....because I'm not guilty of anything. Apparently you have failed to see my lengthy comment replied back to you yesterday on my other blog you have been writing on, entitled 'Catfish alert. Incident #2'. Again, I'm not guilty of anything here...you are guilty of accusing me of things. You know, one of the very reasons I left this site was due to people accusing me of things that aren't true or trying to boss me around in telling me what I can or cannot do, when I'm perfectly allowed to do things.

Anyway, I addressed all of this same stuff on the other blog yesterday. Before accusing me, please take a look there because I did address your comments and concerns in detail.

This comment of yours here is time stamped 3 / 22 / 18 at 3:05 pm.
The comment I left to you on my other blog is time stamped 3 / 22 / 18 at 12:59 pm. This came prior to your message here, so before accusing me of anything, please realize that my message was posted before yours was even typed out. I call your ignorance in the matter...yet you accuse me. Go figure. That's what gives.

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