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On Beyond Zebra  

desertedcities 67M
2 posts
2/14/2018 6:15 pm
On Beyond Zebra

Maybe a dozen ago was when I last used any BDSM gear ... everything from floggers to masks to feathers to a violet wand to vibrators. It has been in the closet mostly ever since.

I do not know whether in reading this, you are personally excited, turned-off or simply curious. If it is not for you, that gear can remain where it is ... we can engage in more conventional activities. (It's been some time since I had any).

I love receiving oral and hope to have anal sex for the first time ... though I do not want to do that too quickly, until I am truly comfortable with you.

If you are interested in my using any of this gear on you , though ...... well, I may be, as well. It would, though, have to proceed at a slow pace ... I would not trust myself to try to hit-the-ground-running after all this time. (Nor should you). And any limits you place on me will be honored.

Some other notes:

1) I do take "no" for an answer .... or a safeword, for that matter. If you invite me into your living space and feel uncomfortable, "Please leave" will only need to be said once.

2) I do not want to reciprocate, and if you have a gaff (or other genital cover) that you can wear, thank you. I will not be freaked out if I see your package, but would ask that you make an effort not to show it.

3) Lastly, if we hit-it-off: depending upon distance and time availability ... I do not expect us to be a steady couple - occasional get-togethers will be fine for me. Enough to satisfy my libido and soul. I avoid always/never answers - willing to change my mind - and that is the beauty of life, isn't it: as the old Traffic song asked, "Who Knows What Tomorrow Will Bring?"

bj69ormore 71M
28 posts
2/16/2018 7:00 am

 Good perspective and reasonable.... good job!


sanditv23456 69T
13 posts
2/27/2018 6:00 pm

 Hey there! I thought I'd say Hi and respond to your blog thoughts. SM gear does sound very interesting! I thought this was very well written and thoughtful! I am a mature crossdresser. I don't get easily excited, but do love to kiss and makeout. I'm not street passable, I'm working on that.

Let's trade emails and see how this comes out.

Sandi


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