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5 Ways to Deal With Insults and Put-Downs… on Dating Sites... 😊❗❤️
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Hm, it's pretty rare that anyone tries to take me on here, especially now that I'm not trying to meet anyone anymore. It's been rare on "traditional" dating sites as well. There have been a few cases of guys "negging"me to try to get my attention. I detest that strategy and will not engage.
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Dear Paul, Thank you for sharing this insightful blog post...A very good read indeed. I am so glad I found your blog. I'd love to hear how our members here deal with this..As more folks " hide " behind their monitor to attack or create endless fake member profiles to abuse the site & members it is getting difficult to figure out what is the right or wrong way to handle abusive members.. Looking forward to hearing how Temptz " handles " this as opposed to the ideas you suggested. Happy Tues, Ana6
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Drama queens are such a drag. I laugh at them That's a great strategy. I get the impression, no one messes with you.... here, or in the real world? 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Hm, it's pretty rare that anyone tries to take me on here, especially now that I'm not trying to meet anyone anymore. It's been rare on "traditional" dating sites as well. There have been a few cases of guys "negging"me to try to get my attention. I detest that strategy and will not engage. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Smart choice and a wise reaction. I re-visited your post. Interesting perspective on the topic, but many people still listen and react to their haters. But that's in the realm of bullying and real abuse. In my example, I'm talking more about random insults, or is there a a difference? 🤔
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Dear Paul, Thank you for sharing this insightful blog post...A very good read indeed. I am so glad I found your blog. I'd love to hear how our members here deal with this..As more folks " hide " behind their monitor to attack or create endless fake member profiles to abuse the site & members it is getting difficult to figure out what is the right or wrong way to handle abusive members.. Looking forward to hearing how Temptz " handles " this as opposed to the ideas you suggested. Happy Tues, Ana6 My preference? 🤔 To not even have to be a part of it. 😊❗ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I don't see the difference. Both scenarios are a form of bullying and abuse. It's not too often someone hurls a '"random insult". It's usually predicated on some previous interaction or communication. If it was totally random, it would be cause for more alarm. It's that premeditated (let's wait two years) one that gets under my skin. But I understand what you mean. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Flaws? 🤔 Tell me about it. I have a short fuse when it comes to dealing with idiots. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Dear Paul, Thank you for sharing this insightful blog post...A very good read indeed. I am so glad I found your blog. I'd love to hear how our members here deal with this..As more folks " hide " behind their monitor to attack or create endless fake member profiles to abuse the site & members it is getting difficult to figure out what is the right or wrong way to handle abusive members.. Looking forward to hearing how Temptz " handles " this as opposed to the ideas you suggested. Happy Tues, Ana6 There is a time to be nice and then there is time to be a "nice bitch"...
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Drama queens are such a drag. I laugh at them This is just another Andy that's ok right? 😮 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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True... about mind games but they have their place. I certainly do it infrequently with people I know and respect. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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8/13/2020 11:10 am |
I have two main strategies as far as insults and name-calling. As you have mentioned. Humor and keeping oneself above. Not lowering yourself to their level. I just tell them I have no interest in being like you.
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I have two main strategies as far as insults and name-calling. As you have mentioned. Humor and keeping oneself above. Not lowering yourself to their level. I just tell them I have no interest in being like you. I've got a quick temper and THAT one wrangles my good-intentioned purpose... sometimes. I'll count to ten next time and see if that calms the boiling blood. 🤔 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Yep. True about that temper thing. We've got to watch it! 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Ana, you know hun all Paul's ideas are great and that's how most should be handled. But then there are ones that need some special attention to get your point across. And I am sure you know what I am talking about. There is a time to be nice and then there is time to be a "nice bitch"... Hello & Happy Weekend Hugs, Hon..Hope you & your family are all doing well & safe/Healthy..I agree with you 100 % , since I discovered Paul's blog I have been enjoying his witty posts/ideas. I see exactly what you are saying about a TIME to be nice or to be " nIce bitch." Funny thing is I am known as the Little Princess, the Cupcake..Super Sweet...Bitchy is normally not in my Repertoire but as an actor, I can always summon it when needed Forgive me my Friend as I just realized I have been incorrectly called you " Temptz " instead of Tmptrzz...Call it short for Tempting Temptress... Happy Weekend Hugs & Thanks for the interesting answer, Ana6
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