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Blogs > Paulxx001 > Paul'S PlacE ❗ ⭕❗⭕ ❗⭕

Can Bouzouki MelodieS and GallonS of WhinE... SavE A DatE... ðŸĪ”❗
 

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/18/2021 1:14 pm
    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    A man’s overall appearance will catch my attention, especially a twinkle in his eyes and an engaging smile. Turn-offs are the inability to speak engagingly & intelligently and poor manners.
Speak engagingly?
So written emails and texts can fool you. You need a live exam.
Hmmm... Is there an oral test as well? ðŸĪ”
Ever have someone fail your criteria but still manage to attract you?ðŸ˜ķ


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
8/18/2021 1:36 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Speak engagingly?
    So written emails and texts can fool you. You need a live exam.
    Hmmm... Is there an oral test as well? ðŸĪ”
    Ever have someone fail your criteria but still manage to attract you?ðŸ˜ķ
No, emails and texts don’t fool me. They provide the writer the ability to pause and edit (but we both know how easy it is for some to fail to do that). Switching over to a phone call validates/verifies my first impression.


Paulxx001 replies on 8/18/2021 3:03 pm:
True, about phone calls ; a live voice can't lie and befuddle the other person; ya either have it or ya don't.
Lots of people don't.
Some do. 😊 👍 ❗❗😎

PonyGirl1965 58F
22090 posts
8/19/2021 12:39 am

 Smart Romans! LOL


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/19/2021 2:15 am

 Ya think? ðŸĪ” lol 😂
Yepper... 😎❗❗❗


scoupe42 60M
Ask me for a photo

8/20/2021 5:57 am

 My deal breaker, is when she's not into me, so there are times when I Abort the date. You should do more blogs, you have a way of expressing yourself.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/20/2021 11:55 am
    Quoting scoupe42:
    My deal breaker, is when she's not into me, so there are times when I Abort the date. You should do more blogs, you have a way of expressing yourself.
Thanks ❗ for the prop.
Hey, Q... What happened to your profile pic? ðŸĪ”


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
8/20/2021 7:39 pm

 I meet one guy from here and the whole entire time I was trying to have a conversation with him at the restaurant, he was on his cell phone the whole entire time. I just looked at him and I stopped talking. If I had my cell phone that night I would have called a friend to pick me up. What a jerk.
He must have a good sense of humor, good kisser especially French, a nice arse
My dislikes, cell phone, a small dick, not at all passionate, smoker, a Drunk
I could go on and in but I will leave it at that
The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/21/2021 12:17 am
    Quoting flannel_light:
    I meet one guy from here and the whole entire time I was trying to have a conversation with him at the restaurant, he was on his cell phone the whole entire time. I just looked at him and I stopped talking. If I had my cell phone that night I would have called a friend to pick me up. What a jerk.
    He must have a good sense of humor, good kisser especially French, a nice arse
    My dislikes, cell phone, a small dick, not at all passionate, smoker, a Drunk
    I could go on and in but I will leave it at that
His cell phone, the whole night? ðŸĪ”
That's messed up and rude. I guess a second chance was out of the question.
Then again, if it happens on a first date, you haven't wasted much of your time.
Or had you? ðŸĪ”
There's always the NEXT one.
Did you ever find out who he was talking to on that phone?
Better luck next time! 😊❗❗


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
8/22/2021 6:10 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yeah. I gave up before we got to the finish line.
    If sex isn't achieved and you didn't call it a date, what do you call it? ðŸĪ”
"Hanging out", is what you'd call it.

Do that too often, people recognize that as being , "Friendzoned".


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/22/2021 10:40 pm
    Quoting Heathen_G:
    "Hanging out", is what you'd call it.

    Do that too often, people recognize that as being , "Friendzoned".
Yeah, I hear you. No zone of friends with THAT one.
Thanks for the clarification! 👍 😎❗❗


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
8/23/2021 9:38 pm
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Facial hair? ðŸĪ” Hmmm...
    I can understand the teeth. I guess you don't like spicy food?
    We all have different things on our list.
incorrect I like spicy food........


loneleix 64M
978 posts
8/26/2021 3:53 am

 For me, dealbreakers can be divided into two categories:

1) She seems like a good person and is probably quite interesting but there is no spark there. We can be friends but I'm pretty instantly aware there isn't a possibility of anything else.

2) She is not a good person and I can't spend the hour or so it will take to have a polite meal without it being too painful to contemplate.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/26/2021 9:13 am
    Quoting pollly_anna:
    incorrect I like spicy food........
I'm allergic to nuts ðŸĪŠ, so desserts are usually a simple choice for me — or I'll pass. 😊👍


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/26/2021 9:18 am
    Quoting loneleix:
    For me, dealbreakers can be divided into two categories:

    1) She seems like a good person and is probably quite interesting but there is no spark there. We can be friends but I'm pretty instantly aware there isn't a possibility of anything else.

    2) She is not a good person and I can't spend the hour or so it will take to have a polite meal without it being too painful to contemplate.
I understand where you're coming from.
I occasionally encounter that THIRD option.
You know, the one where she's fooled me for a whole meal, we get to the after dinner drinks — and she shares with me her theory and belief that the moon landing was faked.

*UGH* What a painful drive home. ðŸ˜ķ❗❗


BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
8/27/2021 8:37 am

 Seems like the "phone" could have "saved that date" Paul?! "Big grin", and big sigh ..... The "Smiley Faces" still won't work! Like you, a "warm smile" and a sense of humor are def attractions!
..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/27/2021 9:15 am
    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    Seems like the "phone" could have "saved that date" Paul?! "Big grin", and big sigh ..... The "Smiley Faces" still won't work! Like you, a "warm smile" and a sense of humor are def attractions!
Hmmm... you're right — it might have!
I cheat; I post my blogs from my phone and find the emojis THERE.
Also true about a smile and a sense of humor. ❗😎
Our heat wave is over. Ugh
.. In the mid twenties today. 😊
It's probably normal for you when things were in the high thirties here. ðŸĪ” ❗


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
8/30/2021 12:11 pm

 Pay for meal and slip out the back door, interesting, did you get your phone back?


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
8/30/2021 3:33 pm
    Quoting 1seeking1:
    Pay for meal and slip out the back door, interesting, did you get your phone back?
The mission for the phone ðŸ“ą was a success.
That date, less so; it crashed and burned.
The meal was great.
You've never had a complete fail on a first date? ðŸĪ”
I'll have to plan for a better
exit strategy, I guess. 😕


bustinout20202 67F  
1080 posts
9/2/2021 2:44 pm

 I look for humor, flirtability, [both of which can indicate some level of intelligence and chemistry to me], along with a great smile and laughing eyes..

Turn offs: no chemistry, no conversation, too pushy, bad breath.
~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/2/2021 5:52 pm
    Quoting bustinout20202:
    I look for humor, flirtability, [both of which can indicate some level of intelligence and chemistry to me], along with a great smile and laughing eyes..

    Turn offs: no chemistry, no conversation, too pushy, bad breath.
Yeah, ya like flirts; so do I.
Laughing eyes?
Can they squint through the lights? ðŸĪ” lol 😂

Eee... No conversation is a bust, but I've tried to plow through — you?
Now pushy... and bad breath; THAT'S not fun.
Bad breath? ugh.. ðŸĪ”

How would you react to someone who'd take the lead in a polka? 😎❗❗


bustinout20202 67F  
1080 posts
9/4/2021 9:03 am
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Yeah, ya like flirts; so do I.
    Laughing eyes?
    Can they squint through the lights? ðŸĪ” lol 😂

    Eee... No conversation is a bust, but I've tried to plow through — you?
    Now pushy... and bad breath; THAT'S not fun.
    Bad breath? ugh.. ðŸĪ”

    How would you react to someone who'd take the lead in a polka? 😎❗❗
If they lead...I will follow As long as they don't step on my toes in the process!
~~~" Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this too, was a gift." --Mary Oliver~~~


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
9/4/2021 9:33 am
    Quoting bustinout20202:
    If they lead...I will follow As long as they don't step on my toes in the process!
gtNo danger of that, from one who's been dancing since he was ten. 😎❗❗
We'd see just how dizzy we could get. I love that feeling when the world spins around, but all you notice is your partner's eyes. 😊👍


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